I'm really curious. Just imagine: a person with normal facial features wouldn't be that ugly even if they were randomly put together, right? In my impression, ugly people are all because of something on their face.
Each part is defective.
In fact, I don't mean to discriminate against other people's appearance at all. Whether a person is beautiful or ugly is not decided by himself, but it is human nature for people to like beautiful things and hate ugly things. At this time, I am just curious.
Of course, I decided to go to the home of this person named Yu Yong not just to see his ugly wife. I wanted to have a good chat with this person in a relaxed environment, and I think it is best for Yu Yong.
The relaxing environment is his home.
Only when a person is relaxed can he show his truest self. I think so.
It would be better for Xiao Xu to know him, so that we can talk more casually together.
Soon I arrived at Yu Yong's home, which was in a community. The real estate development in Shangjiang City was relatively late, and there were not many communities like this. From this, I could tell that this person named Yu Yong was living a pretty good life.
I remember that Minister Wu told me that this person's father-in-law was the owner of a private enterprise. He didn't sound like a big boss, but now it seems that this person is relatively wealthy in Shangjiang City.
After entering the elevator and going up to the seventh floor, Xiao Xu knocked on the door of a family's room. The door opened quickly and a well-proportioned man appeared in front of us. He looked about 1.8 meters tall.
This man is about thirty years old. His face is sharp and angular. His hair is black and neatly combed. His nose is very stylish. He is indeed a handsome man.
He smiled at Xiao Xu, "Are you here?" Then he came to see me, "This is...Mayor Feng, right? I've seen you on TV. Yes! You are Mayor Feng,
Xiao Xu is working as your secretary. Come in quickly."
Maybe he was surprised at the beginning, so he didn't react for a while, but he quickly came to his senses. My first impression of this person was very good.
After entering his home, I found that the decoration inside was very good. Although it was not magnificent, it gave people a very warm feeling.
The fabric sofa in the living room is very beautiful, and it is also part of the warm feeling inside. I looked at the living room carefully and found that everything in it was very clean, everything was in order, and there was even dust on the floor.
Not stained.
"Your house is nice." I said to him with a smile after sitting down, but I was secretly thinking: Why doesn't the mistress of this house come out?
He said with some embarrassment: "It's my woman who takes care of it. I don't care. Home, isn't it just a place to sleep?"
I immediately laughed, "It seems that the function of home is not just for sleeping, right? I read an article that specifically talked about the functions of home. That article said that the family, as the cell of society, undertakes a variety of functions.
There are mainly material production functions; population production functions; consumption functions; raising and supporting functions; educational functions; rest and entertainment functions, etc. The material production functions refer to the fact that rural households are responsible for the function of contracting land for production, and urban self-employed households are responsible for production
The function of business; the employment of family members to obtain the family's economic income. The population production function means that the family is the legal basic unit of population reproduction. The consumption function means that the family is a living consumption unit, consuming material means of living.
Subsistence supplies and various labor services. In addition, the family also has the function of raising children and supporting the elderly. At the same time, the family is also a school for lifelong learning. Not only do children receive education from the family, but everyone also receives the culture of the family.
Influence. In addition, home is also a regular rest and entertainment place for family members. Don’t you think so?”
Yu Yong smiled and said: "I heard many people saying that Mayor Feng was once a knowledgeable university professor. Today I finally understand why everyone said this."
His words immediately made me feel that I still had not given up my identity as the deputy mayor, giving people a superior feeling. I then smiled and said: "It's just from the book. But I think it makes sense. Chief Yu, you
Do you want to sit down too? This is your home. By the way, we are here to have dinner at your house today, where is the hostess? You won’t welcome us when we come to your house for dinner, right?"
He immediately stood up again, and at the same time said to me with a wry smile: "Mayor Feng, she had already come out at the beginning, but when she heard that you were the mayor, she was scared back. I will ask her to come out.
.Mayor Feng, my woman is ugly, please don’t scare you for a while.”
I smiled and said, "I see that everything in your house is beautifully organized. As the saying goes? There are no ugly women in this world, only lazy women. Your woman is so hard-working, so appearance is not important. Human
Beauty and ugliness can be divided into image and soul, which cannot be generalized. Some people have a perfect image, but an ugly soul; some people have a poor image, but have high morals. Chief Yu, do you think so?"
He laughed "haha", "Mayor Feng, you said it well. If my wife hears these words of yours, she will definitely be very happy..." As he was talking, he suddenly looked inside.
Go, "Haha! She's out. Xiaoqin, come here and meet Mayor Feng."
I immediately turned around and saw a woman standing at the other end of the living room, probably at the door of the kitchen. She was very short, probably less than 1.5 meters tall, with yellow hair, a very big head, and eyebrows that seemed
A little sparse. She looked at me and smiled sheepishly.
I immediately understood what was so ugly about this woman——
Her ugliness is not due to her height and hair, nor is it entirely due to her huge head, but because her eyes are too big, and her eyes seem to be a little apart. In addition, her face is
The sides of her face were stretched downwards, giving the impression of falling. To make matters worse, her chin... seemed to have no structure.
At this moment, I suddenly felt sorry for Yu Yong, and at the same time I understood why so many people sympathized with him. However, I did not express my sympathy.
He came out, but smiled and said to the woman: "Sorry, I am an uninvited guest today and come to your house for a meal. Do you, the hostess, have any objection?"
She smiled shyly and said, "It's not too late for us to welcome you. Mayor Feng, please sit down and I'll go cook right away."
I smiled and said to her: "Don't be anxious, take your time. I'll talk to Section Chief Yu about something."
She lowered her head and went in. Yu Yong said to me sheepishly: "What she fears most is the leader."
I smiled and said, "It's okay. Chief Yu, I came to your home today mainly because I wanted to chat with you. By the way, do you have a study room at home? Or some other quiet place?"
He looked at me in surprise, "Mayor Feng, you, you want to talk to me? What are you talking about?"
I laughed "hehe" and said, "I want to know something about you. Come on, let's talk in another place."
Only then did he react, "Oh, let's go to the balcony. The air is good there. Come on, I'll take your tea cup out."
I nodded and immediately went to the balcony of his house with him. The balcony of his house was so big, at least nearly twenty square meters. I looked at it carefully and found that he had opened up a small room to form it.
I wanted such a big balcony because I found that the balconies of other residents nearby were not that big. I smiled and said, "You are so willing to use your room as a balcony."
He smiled and said: "There are only a few people in my family, just the two of us and one child. The child is in school and does not come home at noon. This house was bought the year before last. It is too big and the structure is not very good. I like to drink on the balcony.
Tea, reading, and children can play here. I like such an open place."
I smiled and said: "Not bad."
His words made me understand: In fact, he is not satisfied with his current life or work, so he is particularly eager to have such a big balcony. Such a place can at least relax him some emotions. In addition, this person's thinking should be relatively
Openness. You know, few people are willing to change the room in their home into a balcony, because in many people's hearts, they feel that the practical value of the room is greater. This is not just a matter of values, but more about a person's view of himself.
Are your needs bold enough to be met?
I analyze this issue from a psychological perspective.
We all sat down, and I immediately said to him: "Chief Yu, do you know about the recent establishment of an industrial park in our city?"
He nodded, "I seem to have heard someone talking in the past two days. I heard that you will be responsible there, right? Mayor Feng...you came today, do you want to transfer me there?"
I have to admit that this person is relatively smart, and he is not the kind of person who is too reserved and honest, because other people would not ask such a question directly like him even if they have guessed it. But I like it
With a personality like his, the person I am looking for must be independent in the future and must find ways to solve many problems by himself, so he must be outgoing in character. Of course, intelligence is the most important thing.
I smiled and said: "That's right, someone recommended you to me, but I don't know you at all, so I took this time today to find out about you. Chief Yu, I want to ask you a question first.
:What do you think is the most important thing to run a business well? I am referring to state-owned enterprises.”
He was startled for a moment, and then looked at me, "State-owned enterprise?"
I said: "In this way, it is equivalent to me giving you a test, or an interview. The questions I ask you are just assumptions, and you only need to answer them according to the questions I asked. I hope to hear
Give me your most authentic answer and show your most authentic level for me to see. Is that okay?"
He smiled bitterly and said: "Mayor Feng, to be honest, I feel like I'm dreaming now. For people like me, the leaders in the bureau don't dare to reuse me, let alone you, the mayor."
I shook my head and said: "You are wrong. I looked at your information and found that you are only thirty-six years old this year, but you are already a full-time cadre. From a local perspective, your age is not too low for such a level.
.And your current position is very important in the Municipal Land and Resources Bureau, which shows that your bureau leaders still value you very much."
But he still shook his head and said: "There is basically nothing to do in our area where I am in charge, so I spend most of my time looking at some theoretical things, and sometimes I also go to see what is happening in other places.
How to deal with and operate issues such as land replacement depends on the data. But I believe that our Shangjiang City will definitely use these things in the future. After all, the development of our city is too slow. I think there will always be