Chenchen said: "This person can't be controlled. It all depends on consciousness."
Kang Demao also laughed, "Xiao Li is absolutely right. Ding Xiang, look at me, I don't need you to worry about me. I've always been very self-conscious."
Ding Xiang pursed her lips and said, "Come on, I'm too lazy to talk to you. I often come home drunk. Do you think I've ever taken care of you?"
Kang Demao was also a little embarrassed at this time. I hurriedly interrupted, "De Mao, it's better for the two of us to chat. We'll only drink half a catty and then go home."
The waiter quickly brought a half-pound bottle of Jiangnan Special Qu, and Kang Demao and I shared half of it each.
I said to him: "Demao, let's go next week. I'll call Governor Huang next week and I'll tell you as soon as the time is confirmed."
He nodded, "Then I should go to Shangjiang City next week. That way I can come back in time."
After dinner, we said goodbye to Kang Demao and Ding Xiang. When we left, Ding Xiang whispered to me: "Brother Feng, you have a good girlfriend. I mean, why are you always so picky? It turns out you
The requirements are so high.”
I smiled and said, "It's not about being demanding, okay? It's about being able to make me feel excited."
Ding Xiang immediately laughed, "Aren't you asking too much?"
Chenchen, who was standing next to me, was already blushing. I didn't dare to say anything more and said goodbye to them both immediately.
"Do I really make you excited?" Chenchen asked me with a charming smile after getting in the car.
"Of course, haven't I told you before?" I said shamelessly. Then I asked her: "So, Chenchen, are you attracted to me?"
She blushed and said, "My heart has moved even if it doesn't move, so will I still be alive?"
After she finished speaking, she couldn't help laughing. I was overjoyed because I knew that although what she just said was a joke, she had actually answered my question in the affirmative.
Chenchen drove out of the parking lot of the restaurant and asked me: "Do you and your classmate only talk about work when you are together?"
I smiled and said: "If we don't talk about things like that, what else can we talk about? We have talked about those things when we were studying many times. We are classmates, and of course we exchange some work experiences with each other. The most important thing between parents is
Are you women talking well?"
She pursed her lips and said, "You guys are really tired. But let me tell you, he is the director of the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee. It's not good if you always talk about your ideas in front of him, right?"
I looked at her in shock, "Chenchen, what do you mean?"
She shook her head and said: "I don't know much about your things, but I feel that conflicts are most likely to arise between classmates, especially for people like you who are both relatively good. When one person thinks that another person is better than himself,
, and when you show that kind of excellence in front of me, you will definitely feel uncomfortable. I didn’t know before, but now I understand why Doudou and the others separated from me. In the end, they still felt that I didn’t have it.
Pressure, or that I am better than them."
I was silent for a moment. I knew what she said was very reasonable, and I had been trying to avoid some things, but every time I was with Kang Demao, I felt guilty about him in my heart. Because of this
, I always try to help him with something.
Now I suddenly realized that I might really be wrong. As a woman, Chenchen is more sensitive and intuitive than us men on some issues. Maybe she has really seen the essence of the problem. In other words, it is very likely that Kang Demao
Ever since that incident, I have become particularly low-key.
What about me? I seem to have undergone some changes in my mentality recently. Perhaps my current title as director of the industrial park management committee has made me like this, because my current position is only one step away from the deputy provincial level.
One step away. And it is probably because of this mentality that I have a condescending attitude in front of Kang Demao.
I am showing kindness to him. What is giving kindness? In the final analysis, it means standing on a high place and looking down on other people.
It was very dangerous for me to change like this. I suddenly realized this in my heart.
After I thought about all this, I suddenly felt uneasy in my heart, because I understood more clearly that what Chenchen said was right. I remembered when Kang Demao showed that sense of superiority in front of me a few years ago.
At that time, I felt really uncomfortable.
And I know Kang Demao quite well. He is actually very proud.
I sighed and said, "Chenchen, I was too careless. In fact, I wanted to help him, and he took the initiative to ask me some things."
She nodded, "I don't know much about your classmate, but you should still pay attention in the future. The feelings between classmates are relatively pure. If they make each other unhappy because of work matters, then it is not worth it.
Am I right?"
I nodded, "Yes. Now it seems that the best way is to communicate less with him in the future. However, I'm afraid this is not easy. Forget it, I will try to keep a low profile from now on."
She glanced at me and said, "Smile. Maybe things are not that complicated, maybe I am too sensitive. However, I feel that your classmate and Ding Xiang are not the same kind of people. I never thought that they could become a couple. Laugh, how did you do it in the first place?"
Introduce Ding Xiang to him?"
I smiled bitterly and said, "How can we explain things clearly between two people? Wasn't Dingxiang my patient at that time, and Kang Demao had just divorced. By the way, Dingxiang was also divorced at the time, so I introduced them to each other.
They did have a lot of conflicts after they got married. As you just said, their personalities and many concepts are very different. Their family environments are also completely different, so it is inevitable for them to have conflicts.
Already.
At that time, I also felt that I should not have brokered the matter for them. But now it seems that the two of them have gotten along very well.
You have also seen today that the relationship between the two of them is still very good. Therefore, it is difficult to explain clearly about marriage. Only they know whether it is suitable or not."
She nodded and said, "That's true." Then she came to look at me and said, "Smile, what do you think of us? Will we get along well in the future?"
I couldn't help but laugh, "Aren't we getting along now?"
Her face turned red again, "I won't run in with you. The word "run in" is too vulgar."
I was startled and laughed immediately. But at the same time, I suddenly felt a strange feeling in my heart. (To be continued)