I asked the child: "You studied piano with Aunt Chenchen. How are you doing now?"
The child answered me: "I originally liked the piano, but my hands hurt."
I said to him: "It is not easy to learn anything well. There are still many things you need to learn in the future. The important thing is to persist. Do you understand?"
Chenchen immediately laughed beside her and asked her child: "Yuanyuan, did you understand what your father said?"
The child replied: "I didn't fully understand."
Chenchen immediately smiled and said to me: "Smile, look at you, how can you talk to your children like you are giving a report?"
I smiled bitterly, "Then tell me, how should I talk to him?"
Chenchen smiled and said, "Let me show you." Then she started to ask the child, "Yuanyuan, you actually like playing the piano, right? I think you have made great progress."
The child said: "I like it. But the music I play is not good. It is not as good as the music played by you, Auntie Chenchen."
Chenchen smiled and said: "I didn't know how to play when I was your age. I practiced every day to play as well as I do now. So, if you want to play as well as I can, then you have to
Study with me every day. Do you understand?"
The child said: "Aunt Chenchen, I understand."
Chenchen looked at me, looking very proud, and I gave her a thumbs up.
Chenchen drove the car to the city center, found a garage and parked the car, and then we arrived at this pedestrian street. This is the most prosperous area in our Jiangnan provincial capital. The pedestrian street is surrounded by hotels and department stores of various grades.
I held the child's hand and walked in front. Chenchen followed a few steps and immediately went to hold the child's other hand.
Chenchen said with a smile: "I used to always think that after I get married and go shopping with my man holding my child's hand, I will definitely feel very happy. I didn't expect that I will hold my hand now. It feels so good."
Her words have conveyed a very clear message to me: she has regarded me as her man, let alone my child as hers. In fact, I know that it is often difficult for a woman to treat other people's children.
Treat him as his own, unless she really likes the father of the child.
I thought that maybe the lecture that night allowed her to get to know me better. Maybe she finally discovered that I still have a lot of content. The term "talented man and beautiful woman" is very reasonable. What many women really value in their hearts is
Men's talents.
Research shows that men are not as picky as women when it comes to choosing a spouse. During a date, almost all men can make a decision after taking one look at a woman's appearance, but women need to go through a discriminatory selection process.
The story of a talented man and a beautiful woman has been circulating for thousands of years, and now researchers have confirmed it from a scientific perspective. A study from Indiana University Bloomington in the United States shows that when men choose a date, appearance becomes the decisive factor, while women pay more attention to the other person’s overall appearance.
strength.
The researchers selected twenty-six men and twenty women living in Munich, Germany, as subjects of observation. Their ages ranged from twenty-six to more than forty years old. The research team arranged for them to participate in a popular "speed dating"
, that is, men and women talk one-on-one and exchange conversation partners every three to seven minutes. After all participants complete a round of conversation, they select the person of the opposite sex they want to meet again. If there is a mutual consent, they can arrange a second meeting.
date.
Before dating begins, participants fill out a questionnaire about the criteria for choosing a mate, including wealth and status, family and responsibilities, appearance and temperament, health and attractiveness, etc. Most of the answers are, I want to find someone who has the same goals as me.
people.
Through careful comparison, the researchers found that the final choices of the subjects on dates were very different from their pre-commitments on the questionnaire. Most men chose women with beautiful appearance, while women were attracted to women who were rich and able to bring people
A man who feels safe.
The study also showed that men are less picky than women when it comes to choosing a mate. Half of the twenty women were chosen to date again, but only a third of the twenty-six men were so lucky. Almost all men looked
You can make a decision after just one glance at a woman's appearance, but women need to go through a discriminatory selection process.
In fact, humans' views on mate selection are similar to those of most mammals, and Darwin's theory of "picky females and competitive males" also applies to humans.
The theory of psychological evolution shows that men and women will exchange certain characteristics of themselves. Women use their beauty to attract men with high overall quality, and men will choose beautiful women who are devoted to them. This is beneficial to the reproduction of offspring, and the number of benign offspring will be greatly increased.
Increase.
At this time, I could already truly feel Chenchen's true feelings for me. I felt that this was enough.
I asked Chenchen, "Which one should we go to?"
She smiled and said to me: "Just find a sporting goods store. There are all brands of sportswear there."
I said, "Okay. Let's find a house and check it out first."
As I was talking, I suddenly heard someone calling me from behind: "Feng Xiao!"
The voice was very familiar, it was Tong Yao. I turned around immediately and saw her and Fang Qiang right behind us. Fang Qiang was looking at me and smiling, but Tong Yao's eyes looked a little strange.
I immediately felt a sense of embarrassment because Fang Qiang was here. After all, Tong Yao and I had that past. Also, Tong Yao knew me too well, and Chenchen was with me at this time.
The child was very happy. He called Tong Yao loudly, "Hello, Aunt Tong. You haven't been to our house for a long time."
Tong Yao smiled and touched the child's head, "You have grown taller again."
I quickly calmed down and immediately said to them with a smile: "Why are you here too? Are you out shopping?"
Fang Qiang smiled and said to me: "Today is the weekend, we are all free, so we went out for a walk."
Tong Yao looked at Chenchen, "Who is this?"
Although I was still nervous, I could only introduce her hurriedly, "This is Chenchen. Chenchen, these are Officer Tong and Officer Fang, my friends."
Chenchen looked very generous, "Officer Tong, I heard Feng Xiao talk about you."
Tong Yao's face suddenly became embarrassed, but she still smiled and said, "Really? Then you can play slowly, we have other things to do."
Fang Qiang said hello to me, and then left with Tong Yao. Chenchen glanced at me and said softly: "Let's go."
I could hear a kind of unhappiness in Chenchen's voice.
Regarding the matter between Tong Yao and me, I once told Chenchen, but it was not in detail. I told her that I really wanted to fall in love with Tong Yao, but she rejected her. (To be completed.)