"What is this?" She took it and immediately became happy, "Feng Xiao, I didn't expect that you were thinking of me and gave me such an expensive gift."
"It's just a little thought of mine during the Chinese New Year." I smiled at her and said.
"Feng Xiao, if your little junior sister wasn't here, I really want to kiss you hard." She said in a low voice, and then let out a chuckle.
"Don't be like this." I suddenly panicked.
"I won't. Sister Lin told me about your mentor before we had dinner. Hey! You're such a pitiful little junior sister. Feng Xiao, when are you going to take her down too?" She asked me with a smile.
.
"Don't talk nonsense. I am now...hey! You don't know about my family's affairs. Now I regret my past things. Forget it, let's not talk about it. I am going home. I wish you a happy Spring Festival." I suddenly
Feeling embarrassed, I wanted to tell her not to be like before, but I found that I couldn't say anything in this situation.
But she suddenly stopped me, "Feng Xiao, I have decorated your villa for you. When will you go and take a look? Don't blame me for making my own decisions? This is a task assigned to me by Sister Lin herself."
"How much? I'll give it to you tomorrow." I said hurriedly. But I was a little unhappy in my heart: I can decorate it in a way that suits my own style. But now that it's like this, I can't say anything else.
"Don't talk to me about money. I must do whatever Sister Lin asks you to do," she said.
"This won't work. Although we are friends, it's better to settle the accounts clearly. Don't you think so? Otherwise I will always feel like I am taking advantage of you," I said.
She chuckled and said, "Have you taken advantage of me yet? All my people are yours. Come on, you can come and see me tomorrow."
I left in a hurry because I found that her words moved me a little.
"What are you talking about? Why did it take so long?" Azhu said to me dissatisfied.
"It's okay. Let's just talk about some business matters." I said hurriedly and perfunctorily.
"What kind of business do you do with her? I thought your father-in-law gave you all your money." She asked me in surprise.
I couldn't laugh or cry, "Azhu, do you think I'm a freeloader?"
"Eating soft food? What do you mean?" she asked.
I couldn't help but smile bitterly and muttered: "You don't know this? It means relying on women to support you. Do you think I am that kind of person?"
Azhu said: "So what? Being able to eat soft rice is also a skill."
I was immediately dumbfounded, "Azhu, do you think anyone can talk like this? Does it sound so unpleasant?"
"Isn't it? You have to have the capital to be a free man, right? Unless the man is excellent, why would the woman like him? Do you think this is true?" she said.
I shook my head, "Azhu, that's good. Because you don't understand men. Men all have self-esteem. Who would be willing to eat soft rice? If a man is eating soft food and is complacent at the same time, it means that the man himself
There is a problem. A man without self-esteem cannot be called a man at all. Do you understand?"
"I don't understand." she said.
I couldn't help but sigh, "Azhu, after all, you are still too naive."
"Feng Xiao, I don't like you talking about me like this. Why do you always call me naive? Unless you explain the truth to me clearly." She said dissatisfiedly.
"Azhu, you have to understand that today is a patriarchal society, and men are the masters of society and families. Men who are free-loaders must give up their careers and take care of women and families. This requires men to put down their dignity.
, while having the courage to accept others’ ridicule, he must also possess the following qualities: First of all, a man who eats soft food must have a high IQ, know how to manage his own emotions and be aware of his wife’s emotions, and be good at creating happiness so that his woman can be happy and devoted every day.
Go to work and career. Second, a man who eats soft food must be able to endure loneliness, be able to reject the temptations and traps of the colorful world outside without thinking, and be willing to do meticulous behind-the-scenes work for his woman. Third, eat
A man who is a soft-boiled man must be versatile. He can do laundry, cooking, squeezing juice, wiping the floor, picking up the children, and going to school in an orderly and impeccable manner. It is best to also give massages. Of course, you can hire a nanny for these, but the meaning and results are absolutely different. Excellent work
To master these trivial matters in life, you need to understand operations research, nutrition, psychology, parent-child communication skills, financial management, etc. The nanny fulfills her duties, and the family unites with love and affection to create a harmonious atmosphere. Fourth, men who eat soft food must have high emotional intelligence.
To have good sexual ability and skills, he must be sentimental and able to flirt. So that his woman can be pampered and cared for in every possible way when she comes home after a busy day, and subtle care is everywhere; superb sexual skills can make love more
Wonderful, harmonious, healthy and sexual love not only strengthens the body and reduces stress, but also achieves the joy of life and makes the body, mind and soul of the couple perfectly integrated. Fifth, a man who eats soft food always knows how to keep pace with the times.
For self-growth, although you don’t have to be an expert, you should try your best to maintain the ability to talk to your wife in the interaction of knowledge and information. First, be respected by your wife, and then be loved by your wife. Ah Zhu, think about it, this is a man’s job
?" I said with a smile.
"Feng Xiao, why did you say anything about sexual skills in front of me? Are you going too far?" She glared at me and her face suddenly turned red.
I was extremely embarrassed and said with a smile: "You are already a big girl, and you are also studying medicine. I am just talking about things because of the circumstances, and there is no other meaning." After saying this, I thought to myself: I will be able to speak in front of this girl from now on.
Be careful, otherwise you will cause trouble.
I found it so tiring to be with her.
My father was surprised, "You came back so early?"
I smiled and said, "We just had a meal and chatted for a while." I kept thinking in my mind: Should I tell my father about the villa, but what if he asked me where I got so much money?
In fact, anyone who is a son wants his parents to see his success, because it is a matter of pride. The fathers have the mentality of "hoping that their children will become dragons", but the younger generations have not shown that they have become dragons.
What about pride? Of course I also have this mentality. However, I found that I didn’t dare to show my so-called proud side at all, because I knew that the money to buy the villa was not completely clean.
.The reason why I think so is because the money ultimately played a role in power, Lin Yu’s power.
It is precisely because of his ignorance and over-realism that my father has been a clerk in government agencies all his life. He hates all kinds of corruption. Sometimes when he talks about certain officials in his hometown, he will be immediately filled with righteous indignation.
Some people say that he is the kind of person who does not conform to the trend of the times. I think so too, and I used to dislike him a little, but now I seem to understand: everyone has their own way of living, and outsiders cannot change it.
.My father has lived like that all his life, so it’s impossible to ask him to change anything before he retires, right? That would be meaningless and impossible.
"Why don't I remember the classmate you mentioned at all?" my father asked.
"His family is from a rural area. When he was in middle school, his family was very poor. Later he was admitted to university and then studied as a graduate student at Renmin University. Then he was directly assigned to the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee. Now he has just moved to the edge of the provincial capital.
In my last prefecture-level city, I was the Secretary-General of the Municipal Party Committee Office. I admire this classmate of mine very much, because everything he has now is achieved entirely through his own efforts. It is not easy for him to get to where he is today," I said.
"Today's young people are just different. They are all so capable." His father sighed, "But Feng Xiao, I think it's better for you to be a doctor. You have a skill in your hands and don't have to ask anyone for help. No matter this
No matter how society changes, no matter how leaders change, there will be no problem finding a bowl of food to eat."
This sentence expresses my father’s truest inner thoughts. He is a person who seeks stability. However, I do not agree with his view. “In today’s society, is it not easy to find a bowl of rice? The key question is to
Find a bowl of delicious and easy rice, and if you have that condition, it’s best to share some with others.”
"Human desires are difficult to satisfy and can never be filled. How good would it be to live a normal life if we are stable and have a bowl of food to eat? Life is like this. No matter how much we pursue, it is just a dream in the end.
." said the father.
Azhu next to him suddenly laughed, "Uncle Feng spoke like a monk."
"Religion actually talks about the meaning of life. Anyone who plays Go knows that any point you place on the chessboard has meaning, just different sizes. In fact, all people are equal and are equal.
It is a molecule that lives for a common goal. Newton has the value of Newton, and Einstein has the value of Einstein. Similarly, farmers have the value of farmers, and workers have the value of workers. Even further, Sitler has the value of
Hitler's value is a negative value. Life is like this. We all live for our own different values. Just like when we look at ants, the world of ants is also a complete world. Every ant has its own value.
Work. So, don’t take yourself so seriously. You are you and I am me, just a tiny part of this world. Feng Xiao is a doctor and A-Zhu is a staff member of the radiology department. You each perform your duties, there is no hierarchy.
There is no need to be arrogant or complacent. Maybe you still don’t understand these issues, and you haven’t even had time to think about them. Religion says
The prophet actually talks about the wisdom of the old. When a person reaches a certain age, you will naturally understand it, because you can't help but look back on your life and naturally summarize your past. Only then will you discover
, Life is just like this." My father said, with a desolate look on his face.
I shook my head, "Dad, I think you are wrong. I think the meaning of life lies in pursuit. From ancient times to modern times, if everyone did not pursue and struggle, society would not develop to what it is now. Modern civilization will always
Is it better than slash-and-burn farming? This is the result of the struggle of generations of people. Do you think so? I don’t agree with some religious statements, such as Buddhism’s claim that the five elements are empty, and that human life is miserable and miserable.
We come out to save all sentient beings. We wish that all people in this world were Buddhists. Just imagine, if all people became monks and nuns, who would have children? Wouldn’t this world have perished long ago? In fact, human society
The most fundamental thing we uphold is still the characteristic of animals, that is, competition. What is the point of view put forward after the reform and opening up? Isn’t it competition? Because competition can make the mechanism more flexible and make the world more dynamic, and only competition can
It can reflect the value of a person. For example, my classmate Kang Demao is the winner of the competition among our classmates. His family is so poor, but he refuses to admit defeat and is not content with that kind of poverty. In very difficult times,
He finished college and then went to graduate school under the circumstances. It was this desire to pursue that brought him to where he is today. If everyone is content with the status quo and lives inaction, then this society will not progress." (