"I didn't say that everyone should not pursue it? Feng Xiao, you are right. People need to pursue, to pursue the greatest value of life. What I mean is that we should not be too cautious in the process of pursuit.
Value temporary failure or success, and treat everything about yourself with a normal attitude. Some people suddenly get rich, and then they buy a Mercedes-Benz, BMW, etc., and some people become officials, so they become successful.
.This is not good. Don’t you think so? None of us will always be successful in this life. Success and failure are like scores and percentages in math problems. Some people have a high success rate, and some people have a high success rate.
But they always fail, and some people even die without getting out of the shadow of failure. Then you say that such people should not live? No. So the topic is back to the beginning, people are living at all times.
Be happy and keep yourself normal at all times. If you think about it in reverse, you will feel happy: Why did I fail? Oh, it turns out that my requirements are too high, oh, it turns out that my method is wrong, and so on, the problem
Many people don't think like this. They always try to get the best of their abilities, but in the end they still fail, and then they start to blame others and resent the world. In fact, I talked about it for a long time, but in the final analysis, it comes down to two words: mentality." My father said slowly.
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I was silent for a moment. However, I felt that what my father said seemed right and wrong, but I found myself unable to argue. At the same time, I suddenly became a little strange: I actually started to refute what my father said today. This was something unimaginable before.
You know, I have always been very afraid of my father. Let alone refute him, I don’t even have the courage to express my opinions casually in front of him. After thinking about it carefully, I suddenly understood: self-confidence is what gives me self-confidence.
Such courage and courage.
Just as his father finished speaking, Azhu suddenly said from the side: "I don't think your classmate is very good."
I didn't react for a while, because I talked about Kang Demao earlier. My father was also surprised, but he just took a look at Ah Zhu.
I immediately reacted, "Azhu, why do you think he is not good?"
"This classmate of yours is so upset. I hear him talking about work during dinner. It's annoying. I think he's fake. Can't we talk in the office? We have to talk at the dinner table, and he's very servile.
, I hate it when I look at it." She pursed her lips and said.
I was stunned for a moment, and after a while I said: "Why is he so servile? He is a subordinate, so of course he has to speak to Secretary Lin respectfully. Also, what's wrong with discussing work at the dinner table? Didn't I say that?
Is there a reason? We are doctors, and he is an official. Their working atmosphere is completely different from ours. Ah Zhu, to be honest, I really admire him in my heart. You don’t know, when he was in high school, we were
The head teacher felt that he was poor and was disgusted with him. One time, he picked up his quilt and wiped the floor. Later, not long ago, our head teacher suffered from a brain tumor. In the end, Kang Demao personally went back to his hometown to bring him here.
Treatment. Although our head teacher eventually passed away due to a failed operation, it can be seen from this how broad-minded he was. Don’t you think so?"
"Your high school teacher is dead?" my father asked me.
I nodded, "I've been feeling a little uncomfortable since talking about this matter. Originally, he was staying in our hospital, but because there was no single ward, Teacher Kang had to transfer him to another hospital, which almost made me unable to get out of the hospital. After the transfer, although
I was admitted to a single ward, but died because of a failed operation. I thought that if the operation was performed in our hospital, it might not be like this. So I sometimes think that sometimes in life, people have to believe in fate.
"
"I know that your head teacher is just competitive in the final analysis. Hey! Isn't this? It goes back to what I said before. Why bother?" the father sighed.
"Yes. Why bother?" I also felt deeply.
"But that classmate of yours is really good. There are not many people like him nowadays who repay evil with kindness." The father sighed.
"Yes. That's why I made him my friend." I said.
"But such people are not necessarily suitable for officialdom. People in officialdom must be thick-skinned, and honest people often suffer." The father added.
"I think he has learned through experience." I said.
"The Secretary Lin you are talking about is your former patient, right?" my father asked.
I nodded, feeling suddenly panicked in my heart.
"Then you should speak kindly to your classmate in the future. It is necessary for a person to do more good deeds, not for reward. But when you really need to repay, for example, if you are in difficulty in the future, what you do
Those good things work," the father said.
I smiled and said, "I didn't think that way. I just thought Kang Demao was a good person and sincere, so I thought I should help him. Isn't that right? Secretary Lin specially named him to be the secretary-general."
Father nodded, "During the Cultural Revolution, the secretary of the county party committee of our county was criticized. He was a good man, very honest, and had a very down-to-earth work style. I was young at that time and did things without considering the consequences, so I quietly took him to the countryside.
I hid it. Fortunately, it was the late period of the Cultural Revolution, and he quickly resumed work, so he promoted me to the position of deputy director of the office. This could be regarded as his repayment of gratitude to me. But not long after he resumed work, he
I contracted liver cancer and died, so my boss later found an excuse to remove me from my position. At that time, I felt very uncomfortable and couldn’t think about it all day long. Later, an old comrade in the office said something to me, and I finally
He suddenly came to his senses. He said, you helped others and they rewarded you, who are you going to blame? With your character, it is easy to suffer losses when you are an official. It is hard to say whether it is a blessing or a curse. Not to mention, he
It turned out to be true. The deputy director who filled my position later was implicated in accepting bribes from his superiors and ended up in jail. Although I no longer had a position, I was happy and free and respected. This is how people live their lives.
Just take it lightly."
In fact, I know about my father's situation. He has been unsuccessful all his life and has been depressed. Maybe he really figured it out now that he is old. But I can't expose him, so I think this is fine. It's rare that he finally figured it out.
In fact, what he said is right, being in a happy mood is the most important thing.
After thinking about it, I asked: "Dad, what do you most want to do after retirement?"
"Go to the countryside to find a piece of land, feed your own pigs, raise chickens, and grow some vegetables. I long for that kind of life," said my father.
I couldn't help but laugh, "Dad, that's just your imagination. If you really live like that, you may not be used to it. There is almost no cultural life in the countryside, and the sanitary conditions are also very poor. No one can talk all day long.
There is no one. You can't be with your mother every day, you look at me and I look at you, right? How boring is that?"
"After experiencing the bustling city, a person will think of returning to nature. You don't understand now." My father said with a smile.
I shook my head, "Maybe. But I do have an idea. I don't know if you and mom agree."
"Tell me." My father looked at me in surprise.
"I think it is not easy for a person to come into this world. Medically speaking, it is completely accidental. Of course, I don't want to talk about this issue. But I do think that since God wants us to come into this world,
Then we should take a good look at the world. Therefore, I suggest that you take your mother to travel around the world to see every beautiful scenery and every corner of the world. I think this will not
It's a pity to come to this world. Don't you think so?" I said.
"How much will it cost?" my father asked dumbfounded.
I immediately laughed and said, "Don't think about money now. Please tell me whether you agree with my point of view."
"What you said makes sense. But..." his father shook his head and said, "Feng Xiao, you are just a doctor, and you only earn a few thousand yuan a month. You have to eat, drink, and defecate. How much money do you have left?
By the way, I don’t want to spend your father-in-law’s money.”
"To be honest, the house I live in now and the car I drive were indeed bought by him for us. I didn't say anything. After all, Chen Yuan is their daughter. But I am not a doctor as much as you said.
Money? I should have at least 20,000 yuan a month. Also, our department has recently launched an inspection project, and we are planning to launch several more in the future, so it will be hundreds of thousands a year. You and your mother are going out to play,
After all, it is just my annual income, which is completely enough. How about it? As long as you and your mother are willing to go out for a walk, I will sponsor you." I said with a smile.
The father shook his head, "You young people only know how to make money but don't know how to save money. Your child is still so young, and Chen Yuan is in such a situation. You will spend a lot of money in the future. No, I can't agree."
"I have other income." I said hurriedly, "I have shares in Chen Yuan's father's company. He didn't give it to me directly. I invested in it. Those shares have been invested as the project progresses.
It’s become a lot of money, so dad, don’t worry.”
The father shook his head, "Hey! It seems that I am really old and can't keep up with your thoughts."
I was overjoyed, "Do you agree?"
"Let's wait until we retire to discuss this matter. Feng Xiao, what will happen to your family? Have you ever thought about it? If Chen Yuan keeps doing this..." his father said, looking worried.
I couldn't help but feel sad, "What else can I do? I will always protect her. I have arranged for someone to take care of her. I think she will wake up one day. If she really can't wake up, I will always accompany her."
Follow her. Dad, this is my fate, I accept it."
My father sighed and stopped talking for a long time.
The child suddenly woke up and cried loudly in the bedroom. My mother and I immediately ran inside. (To be continued)