Not all snooping desires for privacy stem from the need for growth and maturity. There are also a very small number of people who satisfy a twisted and perverted primitive desire through the process of snooping into other people's privacy. The more typical one is nymphomaniac.
A sexual deviant psychological disorder.
People with this kind of nymphomaniac tendencies are more interested in collecting and snooping on other people's sexual privacy. They focus on the details of sexual privacy, and even exaggerate it to make the plot and content of the privacy full of pornography and sadism.
When they describe sexual privacy to others, they appear to be elated, lively, salivating, and extremely intoxicated, as if they have experienced it personally. They will carefully and repeatedly read all the details of sexual privacy, even to the point of reciting it word for word.
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This kind of person, after publicizing other people's sexual privacy in a big way, will gnash his teeth and denounce those people as adulterers and sluts. In this way, it seems that he is a defender of morality, defending the purity of sex and love.
Selflessly clearing away the mud and muddy water in human nature.
In fact, these people have severe sexual repression deep in their personalities. Sexual and aggressive desires have been accumulated for a long time and are waiting to be released. They will subconsciously project their repressed desires onto others, especially those whose sexual privacy is exposed.
On other people's bodies, through other people's bodies, relying on one's own imagination and thoughts, to vent one's sexual desire and desire for aggression.
Therefore, when he read the details of other people's sexual privacy and described the process of other people's sexual privacy, he had integrated himself with the protagonist of sexual privacy, and even subconsciously identified himself as the protagonist of sexual privacy.
The protagonist.
In this way, his process of snooping into and describing sexual privacy actually became a process for him to mentally vent his suppressed sexual desires, as if he was completing a complete love process, and his emotions would change accordingly.
It changes with the changes in the content of sexual privacy, and will enter your own lustful sexual climax with the climax of sexual privacy.
Therefore, such a person will be particularly focused on erotic, sadistic, and crazy sexual privacy, because only in this way can he arouse his hidden and suppressed sexual desires. He will even use his rich
Imagination processes all kinds of simple sexual privacy into dramatic, erotic and provocative sexual content.
The prevalence of incredible sexual privacy in street tabloids is a product of the existence and need for nymphomaniacs.
Ironically, it is these people who are full of repressed erotic fantasies who will vow to make moral declarations and devote themselves enthusiastically to the suppression of promiscuous life and the exposure and condemnation of sexual privacy.
In fact, their anger and hatred towards desires come from their condemnation and anger towards themselves. On the one hand, these people are full of repressed sexual desires, and on the other hand, they have excessively strict moral standards in their personalities.
These two completely different forces will constantly fight. When the sexual desire is at its peak, he will use other people's sexual privacy to vent his sexual desire. When moral restraint is at the peak, he will condemn sexual intercourse.
To avoid chaos, build a harsh moral wall in your heart to prevent your strong sex desires from being exposed.
As long as the personality is not yet mature, people will still be keen to pry into other people's privacy; as long as there are people with deeply suppressed desires, there will still be people who go out of their way to expose other people's privacy and use other people's privacy to vent their own desires;
Human nature still has flaws, and the desire to pry into privacy will never end.
I admit that I also have the habit of snooping into other people's privacy, and this habit has a huge and irresistible attraction to me. Because I had the same childhood as most people.
From this, I remembered two things. The first thing was when I was in college.
Students at the Medical University used to be in separate colleges for boys and girls. I don’t know if that’s still the case now. When I was in college, boys lived in the lower floors of each building, and girls lived in the upper floors. In the summer, the senior students lived across from our dormitory.
Some girls would take off their clothes when they go to bed every day at noon and evening, wear three-point styles to go to bed, and deliberately show off their figures to us across from them, which made us watch with bloodshed.
Several boys in our dormitory hardly slept at noon, just to wait for the moment when the lady opposite got out of bed, just for that brief glimpse. As a result, we dozed off every day in class.
So he cursed the girl opposite angrily while continuing to wait like that every day.
The second thing happened when I was in college. One day, a classmate in our dormitory found a group of girls pouring into the bathroom on the ground floor. It was probably because the water pressure was too low and they couldn't take a shower upstairs. So the classmate ran away
Went outside the bathroom on the ground floor and took a peek.
When I came back from self-study, I found him there. I hurried over and asked him what he was doing. He whispered to me: "Look inside."
I looked inside through the gap and was shocked: inside were all the beautiful bodies of women! They were washing their bodies shamelessly inside, showing us their beautiful figures in all directions. My breath took my breath away
I almost suffocated and actually forgot to leave that place.
Later, after those girls took a shower and left, I suddenly heard heavy breathing sounds from around me. I quickly turned around to look, and was shocked to find that there were quite a few boys around me.
And they are all acquaintances.
What’s very funny is that at that moment, everyone awkwardly said the same thing: Are you there too?
Therefore, I think that men’s preference for peeping at women is not a matter of moral corruption, but a kind of nature. This is true for us in medicine, not to mention other people?
Now, Lin Yi used a story like that to remind me, and I can't help but be wary. Human nature must be restrained, otherwise why do we need ethics? A person's desire to explore other people's privacy needs to be restrained, otherwise he will face unpredictable dangers
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Lin Yi must have met with Principal Zhang that night, and the two of them probably had a good conversation, because Lin Yi called me the next day.
"It's the company owned by Mr. Zhang's ex-wife. I've asked my superior to take time to talk to her. She will contact you then. Please cooperate with her," he said to me on the phone.
Although it is very difficult, I can only agree.
Shangguanqin called me just after I got to work in the afternoon, "I have made an appointment with that person. We will have a preliminary discussion about the matter in a teahouse in the afternoon. Please come over."
I smiled bitterly and agreed.
But I felt a little strange about one thing: Principal Zhang and Kang Zhixin had already talked? Did they still meet?
When we went to the teahouse, the two of them had already arrived, and I deliberately set off later.
After entering, I found the two of them sitting in a seat by the window. There was a pergola outside the window. The pergola was green and the windows were bright and clean. They were both so beautiful. Kang Zhixin's beauty was graceful and luxurious, but Shangguanqin's was not.
She is dignified and full of youthful vitality. The Kang Zhixin in front of me now is so beautiful that I almost forgot everything she did to me.
To be honest, I really didn’t want to come here today because I really didn’t want to see this woman again. But I had no choice but to bite the bullet and come here because I promised Lin Yi.
Shangguan Qin saw me, she got up and came over to greet me, but Kang Zhixin was sitting there smiling sweetly at me.
My heart was pounding, but I could only follow Shangguanqin and sit down, and I had to keep my expression normal.
They drank chrysanthemum tea.
"What are you drinking?" Kang Zhixin asked me, her eyes were full of charming charm, but I knew what was hidden behind her charming charm, so I just looked at her and moved away immediately.
His eyes said, "Green tea."
The tea leaves in this teahouse are fresher than those in other places. When the tea is brewed, the inside of the glass is a refreshing green color, and the fragrance has already hit your face.
"Feng Xiao, we meet again." Kang Zhixin started to talk to me.
I smiled lightly, "Yeah. How was your talk?"
"My company's business volume is there, and it is well documented. So my price of five million is not high." Kang Zhixin said immediately.
Shangguanqin said: "I don't know much about the situation of pharmaceutical companies, but I went to take a make-up class yesterday, and now I have a general understanding of the operations of pharmaceutical companies. Indeed, as a relatively large pharmaceutical company like you, the price is five
One million is not high. But what I am worried about is that once you leave, the sales chain will be broken. In other words, what we bought may be a shell company. What is the use of such a company? "
I couldn't help but be surprised by Shangguanqin's intelligence. She knew the most critical thing about a pharmaceutical company so quickly.
"My company can develop to this day because of my many years of hard work. Now that we have such a foundation, even if I don't do it anymore, as long as you maintain the relationship with me well, it should be very good. You
"Say yes, Miss Shangguan?" Kang Zhixin said calmly.
Shangguanqin nodded and said: "That's true, the key depends on how we manage it in the future. But as far as I know, the profits of pharmaceutical companies now seem to be not as good as before, right? And I have also heard that many pharmaceutical companies are
We are facing a loss situation because the profits of drugs are getting thinner and thinner, while the costs of intermediate links are still increasing. Dr. Feng should be very clear about this, right? Are your monthly rebates getting higher and higher? "
Originally, I really hoped that I could just say nothing and just sit back and watch, but now I was asked directly by Shangguan Qin, so I had to answer. I nodded and said, "Yes. As a doctor, of course my appetite is getting higher and higher.
There are so many pharmaceutical companies now and the competition is very fierce. They all use high rebates to stimulate doctors to promote their products. This is a natural thing." (To be continued)