She smiled and said: "I was joking with you just now. How can I have time to do hand beauty? But now I pay attention, that is, I must wear plastic gloves when washing dishes, and then apply it to my hands morning and night.
Hand cream.”
I said, "Oh, you should have done this before."
"Where did I have such thoughts before? I always felt that my hands were just for doing things, so I didn't pay attention to it. If you hadn't come to see my hands a few times before, I still wouldn't have noticed."
she said with a smile.
I smiled bitterly and said, "Maybe it's because I'm an obstetrician and gynecologist? I always pay attention to the details of you women."
Today, I have not asked her what she wants from me, because what happened last night has taught me a lesson, and I still believe that since she has found me, she will definitely tell her.
After arriving at the hot pot restaurant she mentioned, I discovered that this place was at the bottom of Binjiang Road, far away from the places where I used to eat. However, this place was not as quiet as she said.
, there were already a lot of people inside when we arrived, and it was noisy. From this, I can tell that the taste of this place should be very good. Good wine does not need to be deep in the alley, as long as the taste is good, no matter how remote the place is, it will be crowded with people.
of.
"I have already reserved a seat. I asked for a private room. I used to come here to eat here often, so I left my phone number here." She said to me with a smile.
I think women are just different from men. They do things much more delicately.
After entering the elegant room, he closed the door and immediately blocked out the noise. The room suddenly became clean. After Jordan ordered the food, he said to the waiter: "You don't have to worry about the wine and food after they are served. We are going to
Talk about things."
The waiter agreed repeatedly and went out.
The taste of this place is really good, and the spicy taste is very authentic. Jordan asked for beer, and she said: "The hot pot tastes too spicy, and drinking white wine will hurt your stomach."
After drinking the first glass of beer, she said to me: "Feng Xiao, actually I have nothing to do with you today, I just want to talk to you."
"Go ahead. I'm a good listener." I said with a smile, not caring about it.
But she looked at me in surprise and asked: "Don't you think it's strange? You haven't thought about why I want to come here to talk and chat with you? You are a man."
I smiled and said, "What's weird about this? When I went to your house last time, I found that you actually don't have many friends, because you should be someone who reads and writes articles in the study room at home for a long time, and you just
In our hospital, you and I are relatively casual, so you thought of talking to me to express your feelings. Of course, there is also the most important reason, that is because I am an obstetrician and gynecologist, and I am a doctor in our hospital.
In my eyes, a male obstetrician and gynecologist like me is the one who is most willing to listen to women. Maybe you think that as an obstetrician and gynecologist, I am a little less male. Haha! Is that so?"
She suddenly laughed and said, "You are right about everything you said before, but the last sentence is wrong. Feng Xiao, although we have not been in contact for a long time, I can see that you are actually very kind at heart, and you are always considerate.
Others are thinking about you. So I think you are a completely trustworthy person. Also, last night, you rejected my husband's matter in person. I think you are more sincere. Because many people will not do what you do.
If it were other people, they might not refuse it face to face, but they would ignore it for the rest of the time. So, I think you are very different."
I couldn't help but feel ashamed, "It's mainly because of my lack of experience in doing things."
She shook her head and said, "It's not like that. I think it's because you are more sincere."
I laughed "haha", "You, if you praise me again, I will have to find a crack to get in right away."
She also laughed, and then said softly: "Feng Xiao, do you know? I have been a widow for many years..."
I was shocked and almost dropped the chopsticks in my hand to the ground.
I never expected that she would say such a thing. You know, I am a man after all, and she and I have not yet reached the point where we talk about everything.
Immediately, I suddenly remembered the words she said to me that night at her home. At that time, she was hesitant to speak, and she also revealed that she was not satisfied with her current life. By the way.
, and...the photos in her bedroom also made me feel strange at the time, because all I saw at that time were photos of her when she was young.
I felt a little strange that day because I couldn't understand why she was so unsure of her current appearance.
At this moment, I seemed to understand: It turned out that what she was not confident about was not her current appearance, but her current life - she had already mentioned it just now, she said that she had been a widow for many years.
People's behavior is always controlled by their own psychology. I have always completely believed this.
"Why is this?" I couldn't help but asked in silence, and then I thought of a possibility, so I asked: "Is it because he drinks too much? As far as I know, alcohol can affect a man's ability in that area.
.In "Water Margin", the non-womanizing heroes often drink. Although it is a novel, I think it makes sense."
She looked at me and said quietly: "Feng Xiao, thank you, I thought you would laugh at me...Thank you!"
I was startled for a moment, and then said to her gently: "How could I laugh at you? The kind of thing between husband and wife is a family relationship. Without that kind of family happiness, life would be very lacking. This is worthy of sympathy.
Oh, I'm sorry, maybe I shouldn't use the word 'sympathy', but you and I are both obstetricians and gynecologists, and one thing we all know is that women's beauty needs hormones to maintain their married life.
Harmony is an important factor in the normal secretion of female hormones, so your situation is a tragedy for a woman like you. By the way, have you tried it? Ask him to go to the hospital for a checkup or something."
She shook her head, "He refused to go, and said he had no problem, but that he might be tired of aesthetics."
I know that the aesthetic fatigue she is talking about only refers to her marriage. Aesthetic fatigue is originally an aesthetic term, and its specific manifestation is that the excitement for the aesthetic object weakens, no longer produces a strong sense of beauty, and even expresses disgust for the object. In fact, aesthetic fatigue is
This is a common problem for couples who have been together for a long time. In fact, the scope of this term should be far more than just marriage. For example, if you lose interest in something in life, or you are annoyed by something, you can declare that you have encountered aesthetic problems.
Fatigue. The itch after seven years of marriage is aesthetic fatigue; the sameness of Hollywood blockbusters is aesthetic fatigue; repeating the same life every day is aesthetic fatigue... As long as people feel tired or depressed, this word can be used to describe it.
I once had a patient who also told me about her marital situation -
They have been married for seven or eight years, and they were deeply in love. At the beginning of their marriage, the husband was absent-minded about work every day. What he looked forward to most was to get off work early and rush home. There, he was greeted by the beautiful smiling face of his newlywed wife.
After they walk into the house, they will first have a passionate hug and kiss, and then the two of them will make dinner together. Such nights are often shrouded in tenderness and sweetness.
A year later, my husband started his own company, and his work became more and more busy. He began to come home very late, and even when he came home, he would fall asleep and fall asleep.
The wife still insists on waiting for him to come back every day, but she can't wait for his hugs and passionate kisses. The husband is too busy, and this kind of love ritual has been ignored by him. Also ignored by him is her love for him and her love for him.
He inquired about her every day. He began to be unwilling to get close to her, and his sexual life more than twice a week became less than once every half month. His temper became anxious and irritable. Sometimes when he returned home, he would just lie on the sofa and watch a movie.
TV, or smoking in silence, his heart began to close to her.
She didn't know why. She sympathized with his hard work, and sometimes even thought that he might be too tired. Why should she force him for the sake of this family?
But one day, he came home and asked her for a divorce. His reason was that he could no longer feel the passion in this relationship. He was tired of it and wanted to live again. Of course, he declared to her that this did not mean that he
There is someone outside.
After listening silently, she agreed to his request and made only one request to him. She would come back to formally discuss divorce in a month. During this month, he must insist on going home early every day and give her a hug after returning home.
Or a passionate kiss - this was her only condition for agreeing to a divorce.
He didn't understand why, but he agreed anyway.
At first, he was a little uncomfortable because he hadn't hugged or kissed his wife for a long time. So when he went to complete this task, he even dodged a little, but when his wife closed her eyes, the familiar feeling gradually disappeared.
When he came back, he remembered their first love. At that time, when he kissed her, she would always close her big eyes habitually. He even kissed the tears overflowing from his wife's eyes, which made him heartbroken.
trembling.
He found that he still loved her, but this love was covered up by the busyness and self-righteousness in the dusty years. Now, when the state of mind became clear and clear, this love became unstoppable and unstoppable. There was no waiting.
A month later, one night, he came home early. He who never cooked usually prepared a table of meals. When his wife came back, he opened the door for her, stepped forward and hugged her. No need to say anything else, everything was said without saying a word.
…
She was a smart and happy woman. The reason why she told me her own story was because she saw many patients and couples quarreling in the ward, so she was very moved and then told me about herself.
story, and I hope I can tell it to other patients.
Therefore, the patient is also a woman with a philanthropic heart. And she is also relatively beautiful. (To be continued)