I had no choice but to stop the car. If I chose to escape in this situation, it would make her man think that our relationship was abnormal.
Then she heard the man say to her: "I'm waiting for you to come down."
Zeng Yufang scolded him: "It's so cold, how uncomfortable are you outside? You, it's true. Oh, by the way, this is Director Feng of our department. Today we had a meal together after discussing work, and then
He sent me back."
I hurriedly got out of the car, then went over to the man and said enthusiastically: "Hello, my name is Feng Xiao."
The man's expression was very indifferent, "Hello. Thank you for sending her back. Yu Fang, let's go back."
Zeng Yufang came to look at me and said, "Thank you."
I was a little embarrassed, then I smiled at her and got in the car and drove away. I wasn't angry with the man because I thought he was very pitiful. However, he loved his wife and what he did just now
This has been fully explained.
I sighed in my heart for a long time, but I was very happy. At least I withstood Zeng Yufang's temptation today, otherwise I would definitely feel guilty about this man.
He is a weakling, at least in marriage. If I really did something like that, my conscience would definitely feel bad, because I am not a person who bullies the weak, unless I don't know the situation. No
, I am different now and can no longer do what I did before. Since I don’t know the situation of Zeng Yufang, I shouldn’t do such a thing.
On the way back, I called Lin Yi and said, "I want to talk to you one more time before going abroad. There are some things that I'm not sure about right now."
He asked me: "Where are you now?"
I said: "I just came out of the Medical University. Today I had dinner and drank some wine with the people in the department. I wonder if you are at home?"
He said, "Maybe I'll go to your house?"
I said, "I'd better come over. I just want to see the child."
He said: "That's okay. I'll go home in a while."
I immediately knew that he might be talking about something outside at this time, and I couldn't help but feel apologetic and grateful to him.
I arrived first, and when the child saw me, he rushed towards me like crazy, followed by a burst of laughter. The child's laughter was clear and sweet, which made me happy in my ears. Shi Yanni said to me
The child was drooling very much. After thinking about it, I said, "Maybe he is about to grow teeth?"
So I looked at the gums in the child's mouth, and immediately found two small white spots in the middle of the child's lower gums. I then gently touched it with my hand and felt, "Teeth are really going to grow."
Shi Yanni smiled and said: "Great, this child is finally growing up."
I smiled and said, "It's still early to grow up. At least you have to be in elementary school before you grow up, right?"
Shi Yanni glared at me and said, "He has grown up when he learns to talk and walk." Then she smiled, "This child is so cute. Now I sleep with him every day. This child is very strange.
He always likes to touch my face with his little hands."
I suddenly thought of Chen Yuan. I remembered that she had never seen the child after giving birth, let alone slept with the child. I also remembered the scene when Chen Yuan woke up that day. At that time, she did not say that she would see him soon.
After seeing the child, I suddenly remembered something: maybe she didn't even expect to leave this world right away. What's more likely is that maybe she still thought that she had just given birth to a child until she left this world.
She thought that she would wake up immediately after sleeping for a while, and then she could see the child. Therefore, maybe she knew nothing about her coma for nearly a year. In other words, she had no idea that she had ever been in a coma.
The pain I have suffered. Thinking of this, I can't help but feel a mixture of sadness and joy.
At this time, I heard Shi Yanni saying: "Poor Xiao Nan, it would be great if she could see this child now. Feng Xiao, thank you for giving me the child. Now I think of what happened when I left Xiao Nan like that."
, I can’t help blaming myself, I really did something wrong, how could I do that? Fortunately, Xiaonan left me this child... Feng Xiao, I really like this child so much, I like it so much
From now on, when my child grows up, I will let him go to the best school, and then take him to the best university in the world. From now on, I will follow him wherever he goes and never let him go.
He left me."
When I suddenly raised my head to look at her, I found that she was crying. I completely understand her current mood: her daughter is gone, but she still has this grandson, so she transferred all the apologies she had for her daughter to this child.
This is human nature. It's all Chen Yuan's fault. However, the fact that the child she left behind can enjoy more favors may give Chen Yuan's spirit a sense of comfort in heaven.
Lin Yi came back. As soon as he entered the room, he said to me: "I made an appointment with President Chang and just finished negotiating the next loan."
I was secretly surprised, because it was Chang Bailing who originally invited me to dinner today. I didn’t expect that she would still talk to Lin Yi about the loan even after being rejected by me. Moreover, judging from Lin Yi’s tone and expression, it seemed that she
It went very smoothly, and I couldn't help but be secretly grateful to her. I didn't expect that she was so generous.
"How much are you prepared to borrow this time?" I asked.
"This time, three banks jointly gave my company a loan, totaling nearly 2 billion." He said, with a very happy look on his face, "Now it's better, half of the problem in terms of funds has been solved. Feng Xiao, let's go.
Let’s go to the study to talk about things, don’t interfere with your Aunt Shi’s family happiness here.”
Shi Yanni smiled and said: "I hate it! What are you talking about?"
I also smiled, and then followed him to the study. After entering the study, he asked me to sit down, then boiled a pot of water, and then started to rinse the tea set with the pot of water, over and over again. His movements were very elegant.
Leisurely, those tea sets steamed up and became moist and fresh under the rinsing of boiling water. Yes, they were fresh. When I saw these tea sets just now, I thought they were cold, but now, they are being watered by the owner.
Then it seemed to be rich and full of life.
We didn't talk while he was rinsing the tea set. He was so attentive, but I couldn't help but admire the process.
"Don't underestimate this process. It is the most necessary process for making a pot of tea. Everything is like this. If you want to do something well, you must make various preparations in advance." He put down the teapot and spoke in his mouth.
said.
I said with shame: "Unfortunately, I don't have such leisure. This is not a job that ordinary people can do. In fact, enjoyment requires patience."
He shook his head and said: "Actually, this is not a matter of patience. Drinking tea is also a symbol of life. Drinking tea is not just about tea, but about the taste of life. Haha! Maybe this sentence is a bit loud,
However, drinking tea can calm yourself down and enter an almost Zen state, so that you can calmly analyze whether there are any mistakes in everything you do. You have to know that sometimes a little
A single mistake may cause huge losses, so everything needs to be thought over and over again.”
I smiled bitterly and said, "This is not something ordinary people can do. Otherwise, wouldn't everyone be able to succeed?"
As he put tea leaves into the teapot, he still shook his head and said: "Feng Xiao, there is something wrong with your thinking. Your way of thinking is the same as that of ordinary people. If a person wants to become the best, he must have the ability to
Ordinary people have different ways of thinking. If I were to say what you just said, I would not say that. I would say: This way of thinking is what successful people must have. A person should not classify himself as an ordinary person first.
Being a member of the society will make you unconsciously think about problems in a way that is not ordinary people's."
The water in the kettle next to him was already boiling, but he was not in a hurry to pour the boiling water into the teapot. He continued to say to me: "Making tea is very knowledgeable, and it actually also includes the knowledge of being a person and doing things.
Therefore, learning how to make tea is a state. In the final analysis, this state is a way and method of thinking. I have not read too many books, but I think that my thinking is no better than that of some people with Ph.D.
Poor. Why is this? In the final analysis, it is a question of method. In fact, people with advanced degrees like you should have this feeling. Take the learning processes you have had as an example. Do you feel that the learning method is worse than the previous one?
Everything is important? You are studying medicine, so it will definitely not work if you memorize everything by rote. Am I right?"
I nodded.
He continued: "The way a person does things comes from his own way of thinking. Smart people, especially wise men in officialdom, always have a way of thinking that is completely different from ordinary people. Just like playing chess, ordinary people can at most see
By the next three or five moves, a master can see the direction of the entire chess game in advance. The truth behind this is self-evident. In addition, a person must be good at waiting and not be anxious when doing things. Just like when I make tea, when the water has just
If you pour boiling water in when it is boiling, the tea will lose a lot of fragrance and be more bitter. Only when the water temperature drops to eight points will the best taste be achieved.
Yes, it is best to pour in a small amount of water at the beginning, soak the tea leaves first, fully moisten the contents of the tea leaves, and then dilute it with fresh water. This is just like our life, we need to first
See how much self-connotation you have, and then adjust the concentration you need according to your needs. What is this concentration? In the final analysis, it is a kind of display, how much of yourself needs to be shown on a certain occasion. In short, the content of this tea
Knowledge is so vast, it can include all the philosophies of our lives and the way we deal with the world. Of course, I’m not asking you to learn how to make tea like me, because everyone has their own way of thinking about problems. For example, some people like
Go to the riverside, sit alone on the embankment and watch the slowly passing river water, which makes you realize something. Some people may be used to going to the busy city to see the flow of people, and then they can see the eyes and faces of all living beings.
You can realize what you need. This is just like the learning method when you are studying. Not everyone will be the same. In a word, whatever suits you is good. Haha! Feng Xiao, what happened to me today
We had a good conversation, so I seemed a little excited and talked a lot. You don’t think I’m too trivial, do you?” (To be continued)