I hurriedly said: "No, I really like to listen. In fact, every time I talk to you, I feel that I have gained a lot invisibly, and it has also played a huge role in me. You continue to talk,
I really enjoyed listening to it.”
He poured out the tea in the teapot and said: "This first tea is too strong and contains pesticides, so it must be poured out. This is like the first time we think many times,
Being impulsive makes our thinking seem radical. This kind of radicalness is often harmful, so we need to give up completely after thinking for the first time and think calmly for the second or even third time. Feng Xiao, what I mean is
do you understand?"
I nodded, "I understand. But... this may need to form a habit."
He smiled and said: "That's it. In fact, habit is a kind of nature. Doing it deliberately will make people feel tired, but as long as you form a habit, you will do it naturally. This is just like when you are a doctor.
Similarly, when you encounter a more complex disease, you will naturally think about, what kind of problem does this patient have? Are there other possibilities besides this diagnosis? What other examinations are needed? And so on.
Questions like these will appear in your thinking very naturally, and you don’t need to think about it deliberately at all. Therefore, it is not difficult to develop a good thinking habit, as long as you are willing.”
I nodded and said, "That makes sense."
He added: "Li Ka-shing is the businessman I admire most. In fact, he has not read many books, but he is good at thinking about problems, so every investment he makes is accurate and his vision is very unique. And his kind
To be precise, his unique vision comes from his different thinking from ordinary people. He believes that, first, if you have high ambitions and low abilities, you will achieve nothing. This means that a person needs to do things according to his own abilities, and only those who fully understand their own abilities will achieve success; second,
Second, don’t be as fragile as glass, but as transparent as crystal. Some people always stare at themselves, so they cannot grow taller and cannot see far; they always like to blame others and make others extremely bored. Without bitterness, there is no sweetness.
Sweet in the middle? Be as brilliant as the sun and as strong as the wintersweet. Since you open your eyes and enjoy the coolness of the wind, don't complain about the tiny grains of sand in the wind. Control your mouth. Third, don't talk about yourself, let alone others.
Talking about oneself often leads to arrogance and hypocrisy, and one loses oneself in a name that is not worthy of the name. Talking about others often gets entangled in trivial right and wrong. It is not a good thing to drink and chat with your colleagues and friends after work every day, because in the meantime, you often get confused.
Talking about colleagues and friends is the topic. It is always bad to talk about people behind their backs, especially talking about other people's shortcomings, which will reduce your personality. Fourth, buy an alarm clock to wake you up on time. Avoid snoozing and being unpunctual.
, will become a stumbling block in your work and career, the same at any time. Not only must you learn to be on time, but you must also learn to be ahead of schedule. Just like when you go somewhere by car, the scenery along the way is so beautiful that you can't help but get out of the car and take a look.
, later, although you still arrived somewhere, you didn’t arrive on time. The alarm clock is just a simple sign and reminder. Really flexible and practical time is in everyone’s heart. Fifth, if you don’t like your current job,
Either resign and quit, or keep silent. Many people tend to have high ambitions and low ambitions, and are arrogant. They are unable to do big things and are unwilling to do small things. Don't develop the habit of being picky. Don't bother holding an umbrella or not carrying an umbrella on rainy days.
I am also afraid of getting caught in the rain, and I show dissatisfaction everywhere. Remember, if you don’t do something, it’s okay, but if you do it, you have to do it well. Sixth, everyone is lonely sometimes. You must learn to tolerate loneliness, so that you can mature.
Don't be impetuous, learn to meditate, and learn to endure loneliness. Think in loneliness, mature in thinking, and sublimate in maturity. Don't be confused by loneliness and do boring and useless things, wasting precious time. Chapter 2
Seven, this is very important. When you are lucky, you must be prepared for unlucky times. There is a fable like this: One day, a fox walked outside a vineyard and salivated when he saw the juicy grapes inside. But there was a fence outside to block it.
It couldn't get in. So it went on a hunger strike for three days. After losing weight, it finally got into the vineyard and had a full meal. When it was satisfied and wanted to leave the vineyard, it found that it was too full and couldn't get out of the fence.
.I believe that no one wants to be such a fox. The retreat is equally important. Bring dry food when you are full, and an umbrella when the weather is sunny. Accumulate bit by bit, and things will fall into place. Some things may seem worthless today, but one day they may be worth a hundred times. Eighth, opportunity
You will never lose it. If you lose it, others will get it. Don't wait for the chance, let alone put your hope in opportunities. Opportunities are only for those who are fully prepared and good at creating opportunities. Maybe,
When you are regretting and complaining about losing an opportunity, the opportunity is being seized by the same "unlucky guy" opposite you. If there is no opportunity, you must create an opportunity. If there is an opportunity, you must seize it skillfully. Chapter 2
Nine, write down the things you want to do in your life, put the list in your wallet, and take it out to read often. This means that you must have goals, plans, reminders, and a sense of urgency in life. One after another
When goals are strung together, they become the big goals of your life. As your life becomes richer and your environment improves, don’t forget that seemingly thin list in your wallet. Last but not least, if the phone keeps not ringing, you should call it.
.Many times, the phone will bring you unexpected gains. It is not a vase, it just becomes a decoration. When you make new friends, don’t forget the old friends. The more friends you have, the easier it will be to travel. One of the secrets of communication is to take the initiative.
Good popularity and good reputation often help your career to reach a higher level. Feng Xiao, these things are the experience of successful people. I have told you before, if such things can be absorbed and digested by you
If you lose, you will definitely be a successful person in the future. I very much hope that you will be such a person in the future. Now, the door of hope has been opened for you, and you must grasp it. Maybe I said too much today, but
I sincerely hope that you can take the step towards success."
I said gratefully: "Of course I know, but I'm still worried that I can't do it well. I always feel that I am more suitable to be a doctor, and I am very anxious about my new job in the future because I have never done such a job before, and
We will face so many complicated things in the future.”
He smiled and said: "You may have had this kind of fear when you first started studying medicine, right? At that time, you knew nothing about medicine except a little mathematics, physics and chemistry, right? When you heard that studying medicine required dissection of cadavers,
You must have been scared or disgusted when you were a child, isn't it? Now you have adapted to and liked this profession in the same way? People are like this. They are always trembling about what they want to do in the future. In fact, I am also like this.
Ah, every time I start a new, large-scale project, I worry about it, but I always force myself to do it, and I also ask myself to do everything perfectly. At present, the domestic real estate industry is in a state of decline.
It is a period of vigorous development, so I must seize such development opportunities. At the same time, I also know that things must be reversed at the extreme. No industry can continue to develop at such a rapid pace forever. One day it will return to its rational state.
At the position of
We still don’t know exactly where that point is.”
I asked: "Wouldn't it pop suddenly like a balloon?"
He shook his head and said: "That is a situation that can only occur in a Western free market economy."
I asked in surprise: "Aren't we also a market economy?"
He laughed and shook his head, "We are a socialist market economy. This is a very clever term, and the economy under this system is completely different from the real market economy in capitalist countries. Although it has a market economy aspect, you should
We all know that our country's state-owned economy always occupies the main body of the economy and controls the main lifeline of the national economy.
Also, our political system is completely different from that of Western countries. Under centralized power, the country can mobilize all resources to maintain normal economic development and prevent a large-scale economic crisis like that of capitalist countries. Our country’s population base
So big, as long as everyone shares a hundred yuan, a big problem can be solved, and what does one hundred yuan mean to each of us? Even the poorest people will not do it for this one hundred yuan.
Are you taking desperate risks with your money?
Although this system setup of the Communist Party has many problems, it has advantages that cannot be replaced by other systems. A political party not only firmly controls the military, but also completely controls the political power and economic lifeline. This is why our country cannot
The key to the occurrence of a large-scale economic crisis. As for our real estate industry, the most the country can do is control it instead of destroying it, because the real estate field not only solves the housing problem of ordinary people, but also allows the government to obtain huge fiscal revenue."
I sighed: "However, real estate has saddled most of us with debt for a lifetime. The people are suffering too much."
He laughed again, "Your way of thinking is wrong again. We Chinese are different from other nations. When people are too rich, they will become lazy and have wild imaginations. China's history tells us that every prosperous age is different.
It will last for too long. The main reason is that the prosperous times have created people's inertia and created the entire nation to be greedy for pleasure and not enterprising. Only when there is pressure and hope can such a nation have a sense of urgency and make the country truly