She said to me: "Feng Xiao, then go ahead and pretend to be this illusory person. You must tell me the situation when the time comes."
I nodded.
Then I noticed that her mood seemed to be much better, because I saw that the worried expression on her face was slowly reducing. So, I started to ask her: "Sister, didn't you say you wanted to talk to me about something today?"
She looked at me, "Feng Xiao, tell me, how are you going to be the leader of this hospital? Tell me the truth, I don't represent the organization, hehe! So you don't need to give me those empty words, be real.
Tell me your truest thoughts."
I smiled bitterly and said: "Sister, to be honest, I don't know what I am going to do in the future. I have thought about this issue, but I always feel that the number one position is too far away from me, and it is still illusory. So,
I really don’t know what to do in the future. So I said to myself: Let’s talk about it when the time comes, and deal with it when something happens. After all, I don’t know anything about the situation in that unit before I leave.”
She nodded and said, "I can understand your idea."
I smiled bitterly and said: "There is no other way. After all, as you said, I still lack experience in administrative work."
She smiled and said: "But I don't want you to be like this. A person should prepare everything in advance when doing anything, because only in this way can he handle all affairs calmly in the future and be able to do it with ease."
I hurriedly asked her: "Sister, can you tell me? Tell me what preparations I need to make in advance?"
She smiled and said: "Okay, let me tell you. Being a good leader is actually not difficult. You just need to do a few things: first, you need to establish authority, second, you need to keep a distance from your subordinates, and third, you need to be kind.
The fourth is to make full use of one's social relations to do some practical things for the unit. On this basis, we should consider the issue of reform."
I think what she said makes sense... Of course it makes sense, after all, she has been the leader for so many years, and she won't hide anything from me. Isn't that right? She didn't use clichés to answer my question...
...However, I still feel that it is a bit general, "Sister, can you tell me more specifically?"
She smiled and said: "I will explain it to you one by one. First of all, you must know that the position of top leader is appointed by the organization. This is your strong backing. At the same time, the position of top leader also represents what you have.
Strong background... Haha! Feng Xiao, do you think so? If a person has no background, is it possible to become a leader? Therefore, the majesty of a leader in a unit is something that most people dare not touch. Of course, there are some leaders who cannot be
The good results made it difficult for him to come back to Taiwan, and in the end the organization had to transfer him."
I nodded, "What I'm most worried about now is that I will also encounter such a situation. That's why I'm terrified in my heart."
She smiled and said: "Feng Xiao, I know you very well. Although you are modest, you have a kind of arrogance in your heart. This kind of arrogance is very important for a man, and it is very important for a leader.
It’s even more necessary. That’s why I dare to suggest that you become the leader.”
I know something about myself, so I think what she said is somewhat right. But I was a little embarrassed, "Sister, right?"
She smiled and said: "Okay, let's get back to the topic. Feng Xiao, do you know what you need most now?"
I asked blankly: "What?"
She said: "Confidence. You must have the confidence to be the leader. Although you have opportunities that others do not have, this idea can only exist in your heart, because you cannot always think that your position was given by someone.
Yours, but more importantly, you must firmly believe that you have the ability to do that job well. This is what you need most now. Only when a person has such self-confidence can he bring his abilities and creativity into full play.
To the extreme, you won’t be able to do the work you need to do with trepidation. Do you understand?”
She is absolutely right. What I lack most now is indeed self-confidence. No, to be precise, while I lack self-confidence, I also have a kind of fear, because in my heart I always feel that I am not in the right position.
road.
"Feng Xiao, this is how society is now. People with connections and backgrounds can get opportunities very easily. There is no need for you to feel abnormal. Therefore, you should have a mentality that takes it for granted. Only after you have such a mentality
Only then can you do your job as the top leader." She looked at me and seemed to understand my inner world at the moment.
I nodded, "Sister, I understand."
Yes, I already understand: there is nothing abnormal about this matter, because this is how society is today.
I have to admit that I am still very simple from the bottom of my heart, but reality has forced me to change this simplicity. Moreover, the simplicity in my heart will make others find it ridiculous. Even, I myself feel that I am ridiculous.
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Lin Yu continued to say to me: "Feng Xiao, it seems that you have accepted my point of view. Haha! You don't know, I am most worried that you cannot accept such a thing mentally. Because you intellectuals are in front of
Many people are angry youths. Of course, they only become angry when they see something they think is unfair. However, when they encounter such an unconventional opportunity to be promoted, they will be frightened and uneasy. In fact, this is also the comparison among intellectuals.
What a lovely place... However, there are fewer and fewer such intellectuals now. There is nothing we can do about it, times are changing. Feng Xiao, I could see just now that you are feeling anxious and uneasy."
I smiled bitterly and said, "Yes, sister. Do you think I am naive sometimes?"
She shook her head and said: "In fact, why is it not a good thing that a person can always maintain such innocence? Feng Xiao, sometimes I wonder: Is it because of me that you are no longer so innocent?"
I didn't expect her to think like this, so I hurriedly said: "Sister, what does this have to do with you?"
She sighed: "I sometimes still think that a person's life is actually very short. It would be a pity if you don't fight and work hard to realize your ideals or dreams. But sometimes another kind of thing appears.
Thoughts: How tiring is life? Why bother?"
She is very conflicted, and why don't I have such conflicts like hers? From this, I can completely believe that many people should have such an ambivalent mentality.
In fact, life is like this. Conflicts always run through each of our lives. Some people say: Life is to live after birth, and living is the most basic foundation of life. Zhao Menglei, Su Hua, Chen Yuan... they, hey
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I don’t know why, but I suddenly thought of them at this moment.
Perhaps, when a person is on the way to success, he will always recall some unforgettable sadness that happened to him. (To be continued)