The food stalls along the river are the favorite places for people in Jiangnan Provincial City. It is very cool in the summer, and you can also enjoy the night view of the river. When a ship passes by and the whistle blows, you can't help but
A moment of excitement.
It's late winter now, but people still habitually like to come here to have late-night snacks and drinks. Maybe it's because of habit, or maybe people are still remembering the summer that has passed with time.
The wind along the riverside in winter is very biting. The owner of the food stall knows how to find a solution, so he draws the curtains there to prevent the cold river wind from blowing directly on the diners. And there are some that look like yurts.
The tent reminds people of a private room in a restaurant. This is really a unique scenery.
"Which tent should we go to?" I asked Shangguan Qin with a smile.
Her face immediately turned red, "If you don't go, just go outside. There are many people outside and it's lively. I like it."
I felt a little strange: Why are you blushing? Are you excited to see such an atmosphere?
I never imagined that there would be so many people drinking in such a cold night, and the place could be said to be bustling with people. But since she said she liked to be outside, she would do it outside.
After sitting down, I asked her to order. She said that you have already ordered today and I will eat whatever you order.
I smiled bitterly and said, "What if you don't like eating? Do you want to eat supper or drink?"
She looked at me and smiled in a very cute way, "I have midnight snacks and drinks. I seem to be the one taking the orders when we are together, right? You should know what I like to eat."
I shook my head and said, "How could I know? Even though you ordered food every time before, you were always considering other people's tastes and preferences. Moreover, I found that you rarely used chopsticks every time."
She looked at me with a touched look on her face, and then she said softly to me: "Brother Feng, you are so attentive."
Her touching look touched my heart and made me feel unbearable, "Shangguan, you are a good girl. I feel very lucky to have a friend like you."
Her face was already flushed, and she whispered softly: "How can I be so good?"
I suddenly felt that her current appearance was very attractive, and I suddenly felt a kind of throbbing in my heart... I hurriedly wanted to break the random thoughts that suddenly rose in my heart, so I hurriedly said, "Shangguan, I didn't expect that you also have
When are you embarrassed?"
Her face turned even redder, and she suddenly stretched out her hand and lightly hit my arm, "Brother Feng, why are you so annoying?"
I laughed immediately. My laughter covered up the inappropriate thoughts that had just arisen in my heart.
Then I ordered the dishes. The dishes I ordered were very simple: a plate of boiled peanuts, a brine platter, tofu mixed with spring onions, stir-fried spinach with minced garlic, and a pot of spicy and sour crucian carp.
"Brother Feng, you are very good at ordering. I like everything you ordered." Shangguan Qin said happily while looking at the dishes on the table.
I was also very happy, "Really? Then I'll be relieved."
She looked at me and said, "Brother Feng, do you feel nervous when you are with me?"
To be honest, I really have a little bit of that feeling in my heart, every time I'm with her. But I won't admit it, not only because saying it will make her unhappy, but also because I won't admit it.
It's more because I'm a man: How can a man be nervous in front of a woman? What's more, she is Lin Yi's subordinate.
I said: "How is it possible? We are friends, so I am so casual? Shangguan, you are really a good girl, and I have always been very grateful to you in my heart. Come, let me toast you with a glass of wine, thank you
You have always helped me, and I hope you will continue to help me in the future."
But she said: "Brother Feng, just don't blame me from now on."
I asked her in surprise: "How could I blame you?"
She looked at me and smiled, "What if some of the advice I give you is incorrect and you make the wrong decision?"
I laughed, "Your suggestion is just a suggestion. I have to make my own decision whether to do it or not. So, even if something goes wrong, it is my own responsibility."
She made a face at me, "Then I'll be relieved."
Then we started to eat and drink. The food here tastes good, especially the spicy and sour crucian carp, which tastes very authentic. I didn't feel very hungry at first, but after eating a little, I suddenly developed an appetite.
While eating, he said to her: "Shangguan, you are responsible for my gain."
She smiled and said: "Okay, I'm responsible. Tomorrow is the weekend, let's go hiking so that you can burn off the fat you gained tonight."
I shook my head and said, "No, I have to go to the office tomorrow. I have just arrived at a new unit, and I need to understand the various conditions there as soon as possible."
But she said: "Brother Feng, haste makes waste? I think you should not be so anxious now. Many problems are not discovered by others, but emerge slowly by themselves. This is like making tea.
Similarly, if you pour too much boiling water into the cup at once, the tea brewed will not be strong. If you use a small amount of boiling water to brew the tea leaves, wait until the tea leaves are almost soaked, and then add water all at once.
Full, the tea is fragrant and strong at this time. The same is true for you now. If you go to the work even on weekends, people will definitely think that you care too much about the problems in the work. Instead of doing this, it is better to take it easy.
It makes people think that you don't care about those issues at all. This will make everyone feel that you are shrouded in a sense of mystery. Isn't the creation of a sense of mystery in the previous god-making movements also one of the ways? So
,Brother Feng, I think there is absolutely no need for you to do the "three things that make a new official a new official" as soon as you arrive at a new unit like others do. It is best to wait until the problems are exposed one by one. Of course, you have to advance
Be prepared to deal with those problems in the future. If you wait until those problems are exposed, your ability and courage to solve problems can be fully demonstrated. Don't you think so?"
I immediately felt convinced, because at this time I also felt that I was really impatient: wasn't it? How many problems could I solve if I went to the hospital on the weekend? Maybe as she said, just wait for the problem to be exposed.
is the best way.
"Okay. Let's go hiking tomorrow." So I agreed.
She was very happy, "Brother Feng, you will be a good leader in the future because you can accept other people's opinions with an open mind."
I couldn't help but smile bitterly, "Shangguan, I'm being pushed out of my way. In fact, I really don't know how to be the dean. I'm still feeling uneasy until now."
She looked at me and said to me sincerely: "Brother Feng, you can do it. You believe me."
I asked her: "Shangguan, why do you think I can do it?"
She smiled and said: "You are actually very strong, but you are not good at showing your strength. Also, you are very kind and have a good heart. You won't make too many enemies this time."
, these are all factors that will allow you to develop smoothly in the future.”
I sighed: "Actually, I'm worried that I will have problems with poor management in the future because of my soft heart."
She smiled and said: "No. Once a person sits in such a seat, his heart will gradually harden. It's not because of a change in personality, but because there is no other way, because the situation at that time can only let you do it.
Make that choice.”
I suddenly laughed, "Really? Shangguan, you seem to be a prophet."
She also laughed, "This is common sense. Most people will do that. A few people can't do it, so they can only be eliminated. I said, you are actually very strong inside, so you won't go there in the future.
Choose the path of elimination."
I sighed and said, "How can a person be so tired in his life? To be honest, I am really scared about my future."
She looked at me, "Brother Feng, my mother used to scold me with one sentence. When I was a child, I liked to cry every time I encountered difficulties. My mother would scold me: This is how you are as a human being. Otherwise, you can
Don’t be a human being! Just be a pig, eat and sleep every day, eat after you sleep, how comfortable would that be?!"
I immediately laughed and said, "What your mother said makes sense, whether it's rude or not. What your mother said is right. In fact, that's the truth."
She also laughed, "I will always remember the two stories my mother once told me. One is: A Jew stayed in an inn. At night, he heard music and dancing coming from next door. So he
He thought: they must be celebrating a wedding. The next night, he heard the same sound again. On the third and fourth days, it was still the same. At this time, he thought again: How can there be so many weddings in one family? So
He went to ask the owner of the inn. The owner replied: Oh, that house is a wedding hall. Today the wedding will be held at this house, and tomorrow it will be at another house. The Jews immediately understood: Ah, this is just like the way we live.
In this world, people are always enjoying happiness and joy, but sometimes it is these people and sometimes it is other people. No one can be happy forever. After telling me this story, my mother said to me: Our world is a wedding saint.
Tang, but we can't get married every day. A person's happiness and success are the same, don't expect forever."
I thought her story was really well told, and at the same time I was a little surprised, "Shangguan, your mother is really a philosopher! What kind of job does she have?"
She did not answer me, but continued: "My mother once told me another story: a man had a dream, and dreamed that he was walking on the beach with God. And in the dream
Some scenes of life flashed across the sky, and he noticed that in each scene there were two sets of footprints imprinted on the beach. One belonged to him, and the other belonged to God. When the last set of scenes disappeared, he looked back and stared at those footprints.
, he was suddenly surprised to find that there were only one set of footprints in many places. And that scene happened to happen at the lowest point in his life. He asked God: God, you once said that once I decide to follow you, you will accompany me all the way.
I walked on, but why was there only one set of footprints at the worst time in my life? Why did you abandon me when I needed you most? God answered: My child, I love you! And never will.
Leaving you. When you were going through the test, you only saw a set of footprints, which were left behind when I carried you." (To be continued)