I felt slightly surprised in my heart, "Dad, am I not doing well? What are you worried about?"
My father said: "From my long-term experience, people in the middle position are the happiest. They neither have to engage in hard physical labor like the lower class people and still live in poverty; nor do they have to live in poverty like the people in the upper class who are arrogant, extravagant and ambitious.
In fact, many people were very envious of this middle status. Many emperors lamented the unfortunate consequences that their noble birth had brought to them, and wished they were born in the middle class between poverty and nobility.
Wise people have also proved that people in the middle class can achieve real happiness. As long as you observe carefully, you will find that people in the upper class and lower class are in trouble, but the middle class has the least disaster. The life of the middle class will not be like that of the middle class.
The rise and fall of honor and disgrace are like those of the upper class and the lower class, and they are ever-changing. Moreover, the middle status will not suffer from physical and mental illness due to extravagance, corruption and depravity like the rich; nor will they suffer from physical and mental illness like the poor due to working all day long and lack of food and clothing.
It makes them haggard. Only people in the middle position can enjoy all the happiness and comfort in the world. Middle people live a stable and prosperous life all year round. Moderation, moderation, self-restraint, health and tranquility, making friends, entertainment, and all kinds of fun in life are all
The blessings of middle-class people. This kind of lifestyle makes people calm and happy, and they can live a life of peace and contentment without the pain of hard work. They neither have to work for daily livelihood, nor be forced by difficulties that hurt their body and mind.
; Nor will they become irritable and restless because of jealousy or greed. People in the middle class can spend their lives peacefully and fully appreciate the sweetness of life without any hardships or hardships; they feel happy, and as time goes by
In the past, I have experienced this kind of happiness more and more deeply. Feng Xiao, do you understand what I mean?"
I smiled and said, "I understand. But, Dad, why do I feel so familiar with your words?"
The father immediately laughed, "I recently read this in a book and thought it made sense. You must have read this book. I recently found this book on the bookshelf at home.
I bought it for you when you were in middle school."
I laughed too. At the same time, I suddenly had a warm feeling of traveling back in time.
The father asked again: "Do you still remember the name of the book at that time?"
I really can’t remember it, “I just remember seeing something like this in some book, but I can’t remember which book it was.”
My father suddenly laughed, "The very beginning of "Robinson Crusoe". I just read it recently, and I think the most realistic part of this book is this passage. Feng Xiao, I went to the provincial capital during the Spring Festival.
Take this book with you when you go, and you can let your children read it carefully in the future."
I smiled and said, "The child is still young, and he must be at least twenty years old before he can understand such a text. When I read this book in middle school, I still vaguely understood it."
The father said: "This book is one of the books that is very suitable for children to read. French educator Rousseau strongly recommended it. This book is very helpful for children's future growth because it can teach them how to deal with the most difficult situations.
If you face reality, you can overcome difficulties and solve all problems."
I found that my father was very talkative today, maybe because he was in a good mood. However, there are still many things waiting for me to do in my heart. The Spring Festival is approaching, and there are many issues that need to be considered by me in the past few days. "Dad
, Okay. Bring that book with you when you come. I have something else to do now, can we talk about it later?"
He said: "Well, I actually have a lot of things to tell you. Let's talk about it after we meet. There are some troubles in the company now, and I also want to meet with your father-in-law."
I don't think this should be a big thing, "Okay. I'll talk to him then, or we'll have a meal together as a family."
My father said: "Then you get busy. Being a hospital director is not that simple. You will face many temptations. You have to control yourself at all times."
I quickly said: "Yes. I will pay attention to it."
He then hung up the phone.
I held the receiver for a while. At this moment, I suddenly felt that my father was old. Only when a person gets old will he have so many unnecessary worries.
I shook my head with a wry smile, and immediately went outside the office. I planned to talk to Yun Tiancai this morning. Now, I just had to communicate privately with the deputy.
As for Shen Zhongyuan, he doesn't seem to accept some of my ideas, which means that my conversation with him was a failure. But I don't think it matters, because I believe he will change in the future, if he doesn't have too much selfishness
if.
Yun Tiancai's office is open. He came very early today.
As soon as I arrived at the door of his office, he saw me. He raised his head and said to me: "Dean Feng, please wait for me for a moment. I'll finish what I'm doing before talking."
I smiled at him and immediately went to sit on the sofa.
He then said to me: "Dean Feng, is there something urgent? If it is urgent, I can put aside what I am doing temporarily."
I waved to him and said with a smile: "You go about your business first. Work is important. I just want to talk to you."
He said to me apologetically: "Then, or I will come find you later?"
I still waved to him and said, "It's okay. Just go ahead and do your business."
But he immediately stood up from his seat and said to me with a wry smile: "How can I have the nerve to let you wait for me here? I'll just let go of what I'm doing."
Immediately, he walked to the sofa and sat down opposite me. "Dean Feng, tell me. I know you have already talked with several other vice deans individually, and I thought you would definitely come to me."
I smiled and said, "Dean Yun is quite well-informed. In fact, there is nothing special. After all, I just came here, so I want to communicate with you individually and hear your thoughts on my recent past."
Do you have any suggestions for work?”
He shook his head and said: "Dean Feng, if it is just this matter, then I can express my position to you right away. I have no objections and will definitely support your work."
I said, "I'm talking about suggestions. Director Yun, I'm new here and I'm not particularly familiar with the hospital's situation, so I really want to hear more of your suggestions."
He was stunned for a moment and then said: "If you have to ask me for any advice, there is only one: Dean Feng, I think you are too impatient."
I looked at him, "Oh? Tell me."
To be honest, I didn't expect him to be so direct, and his directness seemed to have no malicious intent, it seemed that it was really just a suggestion.
"Things in the hospital are not that simple. I think you may know something about it." He said calmly.
I nodded, "That's right."
He looked at me, "Then why are you so anxious to change?"
I said, "It has to change, doesn't it? What do you think?"
He nodded, "It should be changed, but you shouldn't be so anxious."
I couldn't help but laugh, because I found that after going full circle, we were back to the previous problem. No, it was still different. At least he told me that the hospital must change its attitude.
I smiled and asked him: "So Dean Yun, when do you think it is appropriate to start changing?"
He sighed: "I don't mean when to start the change specifically, but I think it should be implemented step by step. For example, regarding logistics, I think your plan is very good, and it is good to start implementing it now. After all, you
It is my first time to come here, and it is necessary to give all the staff of the hospital a new atmosphere and new hope, and I also believe that the results will be very good. But other things... Dean Feng, please forgive me, anything that involves personnel arrangements and previous financial affairs
Regarding institutional matters, I think it should be more secure."
I nodded. In fact, I don't think there is any problem with what he said, but...I then said: "Dean Yun, I didn't want to be in such a hurry, but have you thought about it? Human Resources and Finance
The problem is closely related to this logistics reform. If it is not carried out at the same time, the logistics reform will not proceed at all."
He shook his head and said: "Dean Feng, you don't understand what I mean. It doesn't matter if you want to take action on personnel and financial matters now, but if you are too specific, it will be out of consideration. What do you think?"
It suddenly dawned on me, and at this moment I felt that I really lacked consideration on this matter. What he said was right. The key to the problem is not that I should change anything, but that I should not let others think that I am too
Be targeted.
For me, although I have said verbally more than once that I will not retaliate against someone, and I try my best not to do that, but in my heart I am very disgusted with certain people, and
The things I did also reflected some of the resentment in my heart. It was obvious that my resentment had been sensed by others, and some of the things I did were taken as a matter of course as a form of revenge.
Another point is that I am actually disgusted with my actions that amount to revenge, so I try to correct them, such as talking to each deputy. This is actually a confession to show that I have no personal selfishness.
, of course, including my conversation with Jiang Mei. But I know that the revengeful mentality deep in my heart does exist.
What Yun Tiancai just said made it very clear. I was too impatient. I shouldn't be so eager to retaliate, or I shouldn't be so eager to let others think that I am retaliating. So, I immediately felt that he didn't mean anything to me.
Malicious.
Would a person who pointed out my shortcomings face to face be malicious? No, his words should be a kind reminder. From this, I seemed to understand why he had that attitude during the dean's office meeting.
Now, I have to declare again that I don't have that kind of revenge mentality. Even if it makes me feel false, I have to say those words to him because I don't want others to spread that view of me.
Moreover, I can also feel that he may not have finished what he just said, such as financial matters, and he must also think that what I did was aimed at someone, or certain people.
Regarding this point, I really don’t have that idea, so I think I should make it clearer.
However, I found that I couldn't explain it in detail at all. I have already said it a lot, and it was just for the future of the hospital. If I said it now, it would be ridiculous.
So, I smiled helplessly and said: "Dean Yun, I believe one thing, that is, time can tell everything. But I am very grateful to you, because I think your reminder is right. After all, some of my actions may be easy for others to
misunderstanding."
He looked at me, "You're not going to change your mind? I mean, are you determined to keep doing this?"
I didn’t quite understand what he meant, but I still thought he was referring to work-related matters, so I nodded and said: “Yes, I very much hope to change the current situation of the hospital as soon as possible. I am an obstetrics and gynecology clinician.
I am well aware of the serious deficiencies in our hospital, and I can't just watch a good development opportunity be lost like this, so I will stick to my own ideas, and at the same time I hope to get some of you and the hospital leaders.
Supported by the majority of employees.”
He said: "Of course we will support it because you are the number one."
I was not satisfied with his answer, "But what I hope is that we can have the same understanding. I think this kind of support will be more powerful and effective. What do you think, Dean Yun?"
He smiled faintly and said, "As long as I support you, support means not going against you. Isn't that enough?"
I smiled bitterly and said: "Maybe my requirements are too high, or more likely my ideas are too naive. But I am very satisfied with Dean Yun's attitude. So I want to thank you."
He shook his head: "You don't need to thank me for anything. I am a deputy, and it is my responsibility to do my job well."
I suddenly had the feeling that I didn't want to talk more than half a sentence, so I stood up and said, "Okay, Dean Yun, let's communicate more in the future. You are busy first."
He suddenly said to me: "Dean Feng, your greatest advantage is that you have no airs and are very tolerant. This is the most basic quality of a leader. So, based on this alone, I admire you very much."
I was stunned for a moment and then said to him: "Thank you. We will talk again when we have the opportunity in the future."
After coming out of his office, I couldn't help but think about a question: What kind of person is this? Every word he said seemed to be so real, and there is another thing that makes him different, that is, he is not like other people.
Several deputies made such vows in front of me, and at most they said they would not go against me.
Maybe such a person is more trustworthy?
In the afternoon, Chu Dingnan came to my office. Behind him was a beautiful woman.
"This is Mr. Tong from Jiutong Pharmaceutical, the largest drug supplier in our hospital." He introduced this woman to me.
I sat there without moving, but with a smile on my face, "Mr. Tong, right? Please sit down."
Chu Dingnan accompanied her to sit down on the sofa, and then went to pour her a cup of tea from the water dispenser in my office. Although I clearly knew that Chu Dingnan was the way to treat guests, I still felt that
Awkward, because I feel that Chu Dingnan is too attentive in front of this beautiful woman. (To be continued)