Yang Weifan was able to pick himself up from the mud where he fell and continue moving forward as if nothing had happened.
And be able to completely put it in the back of your mind without complaining or resenting.
This is a state, a kind of generosity, and a rare kind of reason and self-control.
With such a broad mind, he is already considered a mature and outstanding man.
But not everyone has a strong heart like him.
Some people, even if the matter has nothing to do with them, still fail to care about it.
Instead, I worry about other people's affairs, feel depressed, and feel aggrieved.
Like "Cerion Plum".
As the only insider in China who knew that "Tang Xin'er" was not dead, "Cier Mei" began to feel upset from the day she received the invitation to Hong Yanwu's wedding.
It's a pity that they haven't contacted each other since "Tang Xin'er" left.
Even she doesn't know the specific whereabouts of "Tang Xin'er".
So what can she do?
It was impossible to tell the truth, and it was difficult to stop Hong Yanwu's marriage. He couldn't even notify "Tang Xin'er".
So I can only hold the birth in my stomach with fear and uneasiness.
Step by step, I watched this matter change in the most unfavorable direction for "Tang Xin'er".
The most uncomfortable thing is that "Ciermei" knew very well that Hong Yanwu had nothing to blame for this matter, and he was completely kept in the dark.
People can still bury "Tang Xin'er" like his deceased wife and pay homage to her every year, which is already the most benevolent and righteous thing to do.
No one can make too many demands on him.
However, "Tang Xin'er" made this choice out of sheer helplessness.
Because if you think about it, if a woman encounters the situation of "sugar heart", no matter who she is, she will be disheartened and hopeless.
I am afraid that it is difficult for anyone to overcome the psychological obstacles and endure the great mental pressure to accept this friendship.
Apart from dying, perhaps the only option is to stay away from a foreign land and live in peace and quiet.
This is called God's will to trick people, and they eat their own fruit by themselves.
So no matter how uncomfortable she felt, no matter how much she thought it was nothing, she could only watch in real life, similar to the fateful regrets between Huo Yuanjia and Zhao Qiannan in the TV series.
Furthermore, he had to pretend to be happy and wish Hong Yanwu another marriage, and drank this unpalatable wedding wine.
Even after the incident passed, her sadness lasted for a long time.
Sometimes my eyes get wet when I think about it, and I feel a little cynical without even realizing it.
I feel that I can’t control myself in this life, so what’s the point of making more money? It’s just running around in vain.
As a result, even doing business feels a bit boring.
But what's even more unexpected is that a month has passed and she will feel a little better.
On July 3, 1983, movie actor Liu Xiaoqin became the first person to publish an autobiography of a star.
Today, the famous saying "It's hard to be a man, it's hard to be a woman, it's even harder to be a famous woman" was quickly known to the general public through her first autobiography "My Way".
In life, "big jokes" appear that force people to hit the wall.
At that time, "Ciermei" was watching TV at home and taking cucumber slices to apply on her face. Suddenly she heard someone at the door asking her to answer the public phone.
She thought it was a business matter, so she went to the next door yard to answer the phone in her pajamas and with cucumber slices on her face without taking it seriously.
As soon as she said "Hey", the cucumbers on her face were scattered all over the floor, and she screamed in fright.
"What? It's you! Really you? Where are you? Where are you?"
Who else could make her so excited?
Naturally, the voice on the phone was "Tang Xin'er".
The hearty laughter immediately started on the other end.
"What? Sisters, please be shocked..."
"Tell you, I'm in Japan, yes, I called you from Tokyo..."
"I'm living a pretty good life now. I'll shock you if I talk about my wealth. I've already become a millionaire. Let me tell you good news. I've found a hospital. Japan's medical technology is very advanced. There is a plastic surgery hospital that can do it.
My face has been completely restored, but the medical expenses are sky-high..."
But before she could finish speaking, "Ciermei" on the other end of the phone had turned completely pale and her hands were shaking.
Unable to help but shout out, "You are a living ancestor. Why didn't you contact me earlier..."
Then he burst into tears.
The "Tang Xin'er" on the other end of the phone immediately became anxious.
"Hey, why are you crying? What's wrong with you? Don't be sad, okay... Don't cry, don't cry. I'll find you something good. Really, let's make a fortune together... Just listen to me..."
Hi, but the more she talked, the harder "Ciermei" cried.
Any consolation was completely ineffective, and "Ciermei" didn't hide her sadness at all, crying profusely.
Even the neighbor's aunt who made the phone call couldn't be persuaded by her side. What can the "sugar heart" on the other side of the ocean do?
And she didn't know that the "Ci'ermei" she felt sorry for was not sad because of her own fault.
People cry like this because they feel pity for her.
Alas, fate is such a nasty person who loves to torment people.
In most cases, when faced with its teasing, people often just cry.
What to do if you are not convinced?
You have to make money on your own! You have to make wise choices on your own!
Take "Da De He" as an example. Now he has encountered obstacles in his life, but he is doing well.
Since the Spring Festival, "Da De He" has brought Tian Xianghua back to his residence and started thinking of ways to accommodate her.
To be honest, he really had no idea at first.
I just plan to find a serious job for this girl and show others a way to survive, which can be regarded as a sign of good deeds.
But in fact, they are all lonely people longing for warmth, and "Da De He" once saved Tian Xianghua's life.
After getting along like this day and night, the two people's emotions easily sparked and they came together.
But it's a pity that this era happens to be an era where household registration is important and the thinking is very conservative.
Not only did "Da De He" fail to help Tian Xianghua solve her work problems, it was even difficult for the two of them to get a marriage certificate.
Moreover, "Dadehe" himself has no serious career, and because of his criminal record, he is subject to strict control by the police station and the street.
The fact that they lived together gradually aroused the vigilance of the streets.
Every now and then the "Little Foot Detective Team" from the neighborhood committee would come and take a walk.
Some people also made false pretences and deliberately tried to trick Tian Xianghua when "Da Dehe" was not at home.
Obviously, it was already suspected that there was something wrong with her identity as a relative who reported to the street.
But at this time, what was even more serious was that Tian Xianghua started vomiting again.
I went to the hospital for another check-up and found out, okay, I'm pregnant.
So all the difficulties came together, forcing "Da De He" to find a way to solve them.
Otherwise something will happen.
To be honest, "Da De He" is truly a gentleman, and he made the wisest decision without hesitation.
He wanted to take Tian Xianghua back to her hometown to get a marriage certificate and give birth to a child.
As for the movie theater business here in the capital, no more.
Anyway, Hong Yanwu warned him that the situation outside this year would be difficult and advised him to avoid it.
Then he simply listened to the advice and simply passed it on to his subordinates.
But Tian Xianghua became anxious when he heard this, because he felt that the sacrifice of "Da De He" was too great.
What's more, their family had moved away from the village long ago, and she was left alone at home. The house and land were given to relatives.
In her situation, I'm afraid she won't be taken care of when she goes back, but will be in trouble instead.
Unexpectedly, "Da De He" said, "It's no pity. I do this outside every day. Aren't you always worried about something happening to me? This is good. I will be a father in the future. I just washed my hands and went ashore to do business thoroughly."
Give birth."
"Don't worry about life. With my wealth and wealth, I can't support you? I've thought about it. Now that those guys outside are making money by selling clothes, I might as well do this in the future.
We have the capital, and I have also saved some money in the past few years, which is always much better than others. I will not just sit back and have nothing."
"As for returning to your hometown, don't worry. As the saying goes, wealth has distant relatives in the mountains. As for your village, a poor place, we will not move back to settle down. We will carry money in our waists and bring the gifts we should bring. Go back to visit relatives.
If we have something, we will pay for whoever lives in it, and all the people in charge of the village will be hired. Who can make things difficult for us?"
With that said, Tian Xianghua no longer had any worries.
Without further ado, she packed her things at home that day.
As for "Da De He", he goes out and recruits all the people below him.
After a meal of wine, he announced that he had washed his hands in the golden basin, and divided the theater among several brothers headed by "You San" in public.
Then he returned to his residence with more than a thousand yuan improvised by these boys as a final "filial piety".
In this way, early the next morning, he took Tian Xianghua to the train station to buy tickets and embarked on the road back to Anhui.
Naturally, the coming severe storm was completely avoided.
This cannot but be said that people's fortunes and misfortunes are indeed determined by their hearts.
The key to the door of happiness and misfortune actually lies in your own hands.
Mindfulness is the key. If you have a broad mind, the world will be at peace, and if your mind is at ease, everything will go smoothly.
Only by making the right trade-offs and choices can you step into the door of happiness.
Otherwise, it will only cause regrets or disasters that should not happen.