To be honest, when she first moved out with her children to live alone, Shui Qing didn't really care too much.
Because the child has been weaned. Thanks to the "Polar Bear", her salary is not only enough to support the couple's expenses, but they can also eat three meals a day in the public cafeteria.
She takes her children to daycare at work and takes her children back after get off work. She just washes and washes them and sleeps in a small room.
What could this mean? After doing these things, she could coax her child to play without being disturbed, read stories to her child until she fell asleep, or happily take her child to the park on the weekend.
Because of these beautiful ideas, she even felt a warm sweetness in her heart.
Her heart was no longer divided, and being able to be with her child forever filled her from head to toe, and every cell in her body was filled with happiness, which made people tremble with happiness.
That is my child! I will make it up to her and train her to be a talented person!
But in order to achieve this great goal, the process is far more complicated than Shui Qing expected, and happiness is also mixed with a lot of pain.
She began to feel this on the first day she moved into her new residence.
Although the child is very excited because he is in a strange environment and plays happily on the bed, it is not a good thing if this excitement continues when it is time to go to bed.
Shui Qing told stories and sang songs but it still didn't work, Shui Xiaoying refused to sleep until ten o'clock. But Shui Qing himself was so sleepy that his eyelids were chattering, he was shaking, and he wanted to fall on the bed.
But considering the need for emotional connection, she still insisted on meeting all the children's requirements.
When the child was asked to rub his back, she rubbed his back. When asked to rub his belly, she rubbed her belly. Then the little man was asked to rub his legs, arms, hands, forehead, and nose...
It's definitely boring to push the envelope, but she always obeys orders.
She finally coaxed the child, but she didn't know why she couldn't fall asleep again. That night, she yawned until the early morning before she fell asleep.
As a result, I got up early the next morning despite being tired and it was time to go to daycare, but the child was in trouble again.
It was probably because Aunt Shui described the nursery as the underworld. Shui Xiaoying stayed in bed refusing to submit as if she was going to the execution ground.
In order to resist, while Shui Qing was packing her things, she deliberately peed on the bed and pooped hot feces.
In this way, when Shui Qing got everything in order and wanted to concentrate on dealing with the child, he was dumbfounded as soon as he lifted the quilt.
She subconsciously raised her hand to slap her, but suddenly realized that there was no place to slap her.
Because the child's buttocks and body are all covered with feces and urine...
Shui Qing had encountered such a scene for the first time in her life! Her mind was buzzing and it exploded!
Why should we walk now? It was useless to say anything, we had to clean up quickly. She first took the child out of the pile of feces and urine, let her stand on a chair with her butt naked, freed her hands, and then boiled water to wash it.
Although it's not too cold in November, it's already freezing at night.
You can imagine the feeling of taking a bath in a bungalow with a small stove that is not tightly sealed.
Shui Xiaoying shivered with the cold, like a chicken that had been soaked in the rain. Even after changing several basins of water, the smell could not be removed.
Shui Qing, on the other hand, was so filled with hatred that after washing the child, he washed the sheets, took off the quilt cover, and took off the mattress... After everything was cleaned, he ended up with a beating.
Just like that, on the first day of going to the nursery, Shui Xiaoying was beaten for the first time and howled like a pig, but she still had to go in the afternoon. She had never experienced this in Furu, and she was extremely wronged.
It was Shui Qing's first time to spank a child. It didn't feel good at all. The more she was spanked, the more angry she became, but she immediately regretted it after the spanking.
Afterwards, she remembered that she should have made it clear to her children that no matter what, they were not allowed to poop in the bed. It would be so dirty and smelly, and it would cause so much trouble to their mother.
And I realized that the child did this because of fear of day care, and the child cannot be entirely blamed for this.
But she acted impulsively and punished her without teaching her. When she thought about the child's biological mother, the feeling in her heart was even worse than being beaten herself.
The worst thing is, perhaps because of this incident, Shui Xiaoying's psychological shadow and resistance to the nursery became even more serious. From the time she left the house at noon, she began to cry loudly and kept tossing and turning in Shui Qing's arms.
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It's not possible to buy candied haws. The soothing effect is only temporary. Halfway through eating, she will no longer be her. She took it with her little hand and shook it, which stuck to Shui Qing's head and face. She still cried.
So from that day on, it was completely difficult for Shui Xiaoying to go to daycare.
This child has fully demonstrated her stubborn nature. As soon as she sees the "Polar Bear" factory gate from a distance, she starts to change her face and grin. When she reaches the gate, she will say "Wow", which is more accurate than the hands of a watch.
Shui Qing's reasoning didn't make sense at all. She tried to communicate patiently many times. "Don't you want to have company? There are so many children in the nursery. It would be great to play with you."
But Shui Xiaoying always gave the same answer: "They are not fun at all."
Not fun? I don’t know where this standard came from.
But think about it, with Shui Xiaoying being so weird and crying, probably no children would consider her "fun".
Similarly, it is obvious that most aunts don't like Shui Xiaoying.
Shui Qing discovered many times that during nap time in the nursery, her Shui Xiaoying never slept. Instead, she often stood alone in the corridor outside and cried hard.
But even so, she gritted her teeth and delivered the photos every day. As long as she didn't get sick, she let Shui Xiaoying cry. Because she was sure that this would be a good thing for the child's future, she didn't believe in Shui Xiaoying's bad temper.
Don't come!
Fortunately, Lan Zhaodi also entered the factory together, because the factory infirmary was not far from the nursery. Lan Zhaodi would often take Shui Xiaoying to the infirmary when she cried too much and give her some medicine.
Coax him to play with a bottle or something.
Only in this case will Shui Xiaoying temporarily stop crying during nap time. What’s wrong!
However, although Lan Zhaodi had a good relationship with Shui Qing and she also liked Shui Xiaoying, she still had one worry.
She said to Shui Qing, "Everything is fine for this child, except that it's hard to drink water. It must be warm, and you can't use a cup, you can only feed it with a spoon. A spoonful of water has to fly like a big airplane.
She will only drink water if it flies by, otherwise she won't open her mouth. But it's a waste of time? She can't feed her more than a few mouthfuls, and the water is cold, so she has to change it."
Lan Zhaodi was helpless, and Shui Qing was also helpless.
In fact, Shui Xiaoying is also like this at home, and can even make people vomit blood.
But this helplessness cannot be avoided, and it will obviously continue for a long time.
Only then did she realize how hard it was for Aunt Shui to take care of the children every day, but she had already fallen into a vicious circle of unpleasure from both ends.
Speaking and thinking about it, I feel unspeakably aggrieved and sad.