Don't forget that Hong Yanwu is so busy every day, running around in the small canteen, the "Haifang Song and Dance Ensemble", the crew of "Sunset Street", and the handicraft factory.
But during this period, there was someone who was actually more tired than him, and that was Shui Qing.
First of all, it was tiring work. Less than a year after joining the factory, Shui Qing had made the league work and publicity work prosperous, and was unanimously recognized by leaders and employees.
Especially the people from the company have visited the factory several times to inspect the work and are very satisfied with relevant aspects.
So the company ignored the meetings and kept praising the "polar bear", which made even the factory leaders feel proud.
And the more this happens, the more important tasks the factory office and labor union will entrust to Shui Qing.
Shui Qing is also a responsible person and strives to do his best no matter what kind of job he does.
So I worked tirelessly and worked very meticulously. The more I worked, the more tired I became. I often had to take some work home to do.
To put it bluntly, it’s really a bit of a self-inflicted disaster, but it’s something that got itself into its own hands. It’s somewhat similar to Lu Wenting’s situation in “Middle Age”.
Secondly, being a mother is not easy.
Under such circumstances, Shui Xiaoying, a naughty child, loves to be naughty when she has nothing to do, which is really disturbing.
For example, this child will pick up a pencil sharpener and change the desk at home from a square edge to a round edge.
It's a pity that the skills are not good enough, and the carpentry work is uneven.
When Shui Qing returned home and sat down at the table, she looked so angry that she didn't pay attention while writing, and her arm was scratched with blood on the edge like a dog gnawed it.
For another example, this child fell in love with the eraser and red ink pad in the drawer one day.
When Shui Qing returned home and wanted to continue working, he found that the rubber had all turned into small pieces of foam, and the red ink pad had recorded the prisoner's small handprints on the paper on the table, and many of them had been folded into paper airplanes.
This kind of paper definitely cannot be used again, and we can only wait until dawn to rush to the work unit early to do it.
But when Shui Qing got up early the next day when she went out, she bumped into Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan face to face.
On the way to the work together, she would inevitably have to complain to the two of them.
She talked about her child's "great feats" and lamented that she really didn't know how to take care of her.
Because firstly, the elders in the family are partial and always protective. Secondly, the children are still young and don’t even have a sense of shame, just like cats and dogs.
He completely forgets to eat but not to spank. After being spanked, scolded, cried, and done again, he will do it again next time. It’s really a headache.
Hong Yanwu naturally wanted to persuade him.
He said that when he was a child, he was more mischievous than anyone else. So he knew best that his children were definitely not kittens or puppies.
The things they do, no matter whether they are good or bad, may seem unreasonable to adults, but in fact they have their own logic and thoughts.
And attitudes towards these things often vary from parent to parent.
He also cited his own personal experience.
He said that he remembered that when he was in elementary school, one day at noon, he and Chen Liquan were playing matches in the classroom, and accidentally set the paper basket on fire.
As soon as the fire burned, many children were frightened and ran away to call for help.
But fortunately, by the time the school teacher ran in despite the trouble, he and Chen Liquan had already gathered several children and collectively used urine to douse the paper basket.
Of course, this incident was criticized and even punished. When Chen Liquan's father, Chen Deyuan, found out, he also beat them both.
But the strange thing is that Chen Deyuan bought them two rice sausages afterwards.
Qingqing Chen Deyuan believes that punishment is punishment and reward is reward, and said, "I beat you because you played with fire and did dangerous things. I have to make you remember. But I give you rice noodles because you calm down in trouble."
Don't be angry. At such a young age, you can come up with this trick to put out fires. You are quite smart and look a bit manly."
This made him lose all his resistance at the time, and he never went overboard again.
He also asked his teacher Chang Xianzhang, because when he was a child, he always liked to draw little people on paper when he was reading at Chang's house.
Chang Xianzhang felt that this was quite a waste of paper, but he couldn't bear to deprive him of his nature and fun, so he simply set aside a wall in his study room to paint according to his temper.
The feeling of being able to stretch freely and express oneself at will is something he will never forget and feel grateful for.
And that wall is still used for the same purpose now. There are already many cute little houses, chickens, and rabbits graffiti on it.
It's just that the "painter" is no longer him, but has become Chang Xianzhang's son Chang Yuan.
Hong Yanwu's words gave Shui Qing considerable spiritual inspiration.
Both Chen Deyuan and Chang Xianzhang's actions opened her eyes.
She clearly felt that she had made a mistake. She felt that compared to these two people, she was completely inferior to them in terms of knowledge and open-mindedness.
She had to admit that she was not a clever parent yet. Perhaps her simple and crude ways had become the source of the child's resistance.
Maybe she hasn't really learned dialectics yet, maybe her understanding of children's behavior is too one-sided, maybe she should look at her children from a different angle.
Think about it, it was okay for Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan to set fires when they were children, but Shui Xiaoying had to be beaten for doing such a thing. It was a bit pitiful. She must be nicer to her children. Definitely!
That day, this thought of regret lingered in Shui Qing's mind for the whole day. Even when she was riding her bike home from get off work, she kept thinking about it.
But the ideal is very full and the reality is very basic, but things just go against expectations.
When she opened the door and saw everything in her room, she no longer had any "poor" thoughts.
In her house, the newly painted walls became painted faces, all blue.
Damn this afternoon, Shui Xiaoying was naughty again and spilled most of a bottle of blue ink on the table.
Hong Yanwu chose to use urine to put out the fire. Shui Xiaoying's idea was to use paper to put out the water.
Needless to say, the ink-blocking paper was readily available, so the other pages with text in her drawer were sacrificed one by one.
Not to mention, the paper soaked in ink is extremely blue.
Then the little guy suddenly had a whim and remembered that there was a paper-making program on TV, and began to change from passive to active.
Simply pour all the ink in the bottle onto the glass plate and start making blue paper one by one.
The wet paper still had to dry, so I followed the ancient method and stuck it on the wall...
So, just put in the scenario.
After a day's work, I was so exhausted that my bones and muscles were weak, and my heart was boiling with anger. I looked at the miserable table, the winking flower wall, and the diaries and manuscripts that I no longer knew the true face of Lushan. How could Huo'er be able to
Doesn't it come up like a "buzz"?
Is it possible to treat such a cowardly child without beating him? Beat him!
The "criminal" is young and has no consciousness of confessing his crime. His only ability is to cry to win sympathy and leniency.
And Aunt Shui didn't want to see this. She couldn't even hit him twice before running to protect him. The old man and the young man simply forced Shui Qing's teeth to itch.
After she was forced to throw the child away, she could only point the broomstick at Shui Xiaoying and shout angrily.
"Why are you crying? Is it wrong to hit you? Do you have the nerve to cry? Stay with me! Stay with my wall!"
Shui Xiaoying rubbed her butt and howled, "In the future...I will earn money to...buy you a new one...can't you do that?"
Aunt Shui said, "Look, the child is sensible and the pain is not in vain. Why don't I buy you a new one? Even after beating and scolding, what else do you want?"
Shui Qing was so angry that she couldn't help but slap the table. "So what? What about my manuscript? Are you going to accompany me?"
Aunt Shui rolled her eyes and looked at her daughter, and immediately stopped talking.
But Shui Qing only came here, and she really couldn't help it.
Because if we continue talking, Aunt Shui will definitely be involved in an even more troublesome issue for her, which is to urge her to start a family.