"Why do I say that the most easily overlooked thing is family affection? In order to let everyone see this problem more intuitively, let's do an on-site survey. Come on, how many people live with their parents? Let's raise your hands..."
After Zhang Fan finished speaking, there were only a sparsely less than a hundred people in the 500-person audience.
"Eighty-eight people. There are 500 of us. We live with our parents. Less than one-fifth of us can stay with our parents every day. Okay, let's continue. If you can go back to see your parents once a month, please raise your hands.
Let me see how many there are..."
Zhang Fan asked again. This time the number of people was still very small, only a little over 100 people out of 500.
"If you can see it once every two months, please raise your hand..."
This time, it was still less than two hundred.
"I can go back once every six months..."
There were more this time, but only about half. Seeing this result, everyone fell silent.
"Now I will do another survey. Those who go home less than thirty days a year, please raise your hands..."
This time, almost a third of the people raised their hands.
"Less than twenty days per year..."
"Less than ten days a year..."
"Less than seven days a year..."
At the scene, Zhang Fan's investigation shocked everyone.
"Based on the survey just now, we can draw a conclusion. That is, after working, about 30% of people can go home to stay with their parents for no more than 30 days a year, 28% can stay with their parents for less than 20 days, and 24% can stay with their parents for no more than 30 days.
The time is only 7 to 9 days, and 22% of people spend less than 7 days with their parents. And less than 20% of people can really stay with their parents."
When Zhang Fan showed the statistics he had just collected, everyone fell silent.
"If you feel that this data is okay, let's calculate another math problem. This math problem is very simple, that is, excluding sleeping, socializing, and having fun. You can really sit next to your parents every year and talk to them.
How much time is there.”
"If you live with your parents, how much time can you spend with them? Excluding entertainment, work, sleeping, etc., you can spend an average of 2 hours with your parents every day, which is about 730 hours a year."
"And what about people who work in other places? Many people only go home during the Chinese New Year. The Chinese New Year holiday usually lasts about 7 days. Excluding time spent traveling to and from home, visiting friends, sleeping, etc., in fact, they can spend less than 24 hours with their parents a year.
.”
When Zhang Fan told this set of data, everyone shuddered.
"Suppose your parents can live another thirty years. How much time will you have with your parents? Many people only have one month, one month."
"We stayed in our mother's belly for 10 months, in her arms for two or three years, in her hands for another five or six years, in her eyes for more than ten years, and then, for the rest of our lives,
Ten years of living in my mother’s ears..."
"Think about the time when I was just croaking and crying, to mumbling and calling my parents for the first time, to stumbling around with my bare feet for the first time, to walking to school with my schoolbag on my back for the first time, to
After getting my test results back, I left my parents to study far away for the first time... We have always been in our parents' hearts, but we are getting further and further away from them."
"The greatest kindness in this world is the nurturing kindness of parents. Sheep kneel down to breastfeed and crows feed back. Although our parents never ask for anything in return from us, we rarely do anything for them.
, cannot even provide the most basic companionship.”
The deep piano sound sounded, and Zhang Fan's words were like knives, piercing everyone's hearts. At this moment, no one could control their emotions. Many people at the scene covered their mouths and started crying.
"We are always very busy, busy at work, busy socializing, busy falling in love, and busy getting to know the outside world."
“We put off plans to spend time with our parents over and over again, and take everything for granted. However, we don’t realize that they are aging rapidly in such neglect.”
"How long has it been since you went home? How long has it been since you called them? Do you know what your parents do every day when you are not at home? Have you ever told your parents what you are busy with every day?"
"
"We always say that we are grateful for the contributions of our parents, but we are grateful too much and take too little action. As the saying goes, "children want to be raised but relatives are not waiting for them", the limited data of family affection is constantly decreasing, and one day
All will be cleared and disconnected, and do you still have something unfinished?"
“The biggest regret in life is that when we finally realize our dreams and succeed in our careers, we don’t have that person who can truly share our joy with you; when we finally have the ability and time, there is no one who can let you spend your time.
The person who spends time with you.”
"Don't tell your parents I love you after their hearing has declined, don't take them on a trip after their parents have lost their legs and feet, and don't regret it after your parents are no longer alive."
"Woooooooooo..."
Countless people cried at the scene. And those watching the show were even more in tears. Whether they were young people or middle-aged people, their emotions were completely broken at this moment.
The music started, the stage dimmed, and a photo appeared on the big screen behind.
"Wow, wow, wow..."
From the stereo, the sound of a child falling to the ground was heard.
Mom, I want to tell you
The words came to my lips and I swallowed them again
Mom, I want to smile at you
There are some tears in the eyes
Oh mother, mother in candlelight
Your black hair is covered with frost
Oh mother, mother in candlelight
Your cheeks are printed with so much care
Zhang Fan started singing, and along with the music, photos were constantly changing on the big screen at the back. The mother was holding the baby, the mother was carrying the child to see a doctor, and she was taking the child to school...
The child has grown up little by little, but the mother has become older. Her youthful appearance is no longer there, and her head is already covered with white hair...
Oh mother, mother in candlelight
Your waist is no longer straight and straight due to fatigue
Oh mother, mother in candlelight
Why have your eyes lost their brilliance?
Mom, the baby has grown up
I don’t want to hold your lapel
Through spring, autumn, winter and summer
Mom in the candlelight
Your black hair is covered with frost
Oh mother, mother in candlelight
Your cheeks are printed with so much care
Oh mother, mother in candlelight
Your waist becomes less straight
Oh mother, mother in candlelight
Why have your eyes lost their brilliance?
Mom, the baby has grown up
Can't hold your lapel
Through spring, autumn, winter and summer
Mother
mother in candlelight
Your waist becomes less straight
Mother
mother in candlelight
Don't let your eyes lose their brilliance
Mom, the baby has grown up
I don't want to be with you
How can we go through spring, autumn, winter and summer?
"Woooooooooo..."
"mom……"
"Mom, I miss you..."
The song "Mother in the Candlelight" made everyone burst into tears. Even Zhang Fan's face was filled with tears. At this moment, everyone's emotions completely collapsed and they could not control themselves at all. The scene was once out of control.