There are very few updates every day, but there are still recommendations and comments, which is very touching.
There are some very good people in the book club, and some of the funny comments from readers can make me laugh. I am a clumsy person and don’t know how to speak, but thank you all the same.
I don’t ask for votes for a single chapter. The author said it was deleted last night. Many good book friends posted questions and asked. I would like to share my personal experience with you here.
I live in Beijing, a typical ordinary family. The legendary six wallets can afford a house. This is my home.
I am a vain person, but I have high ambitions and low abilities. In the name of doing good for my family, I spent money to do some private work and lost the money, twice in total.
And it was all hidden from my family. They forgave me the first time, but the second time the hole was bigger, my wife’s family helped to fill it up.
People in their thirties don’t understand that no one else is alive.
The purpose of divorce is to provide a guarantee for your children. If you tell too many lies, no matter whether your original intention is good or bad, no one will believe you. They are afraid that I will poke holes again and harm the children.
I agreed.
From now on, I will be down-to-earth, not seeking wealth and wealth, but work hard and strive to return to my wife and children.
My lover and I spend more time together than each other's parents, and we have a deep relationship. I also understand the difficulties of my family and do everything for the sake of my children.
The so-called war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is what I say for the sake of face. You see, I have told too many lies and I can’t stop them. I am working hard to correct them.
Summarized some lessons. Book friends will enjoy reading:
1. If you don’t use online loans, even if you borrow money from Huabei, it will be much higher than a regular bank loan. Try to avoid installments with Huabei.
2. Don’t lie to your family, especially if you don’t want them to worry. I am reflecting on some things. I can treat people sincerely outside, but why do I hide it from my family?
3. Assess your abilities correctly and don’t do things that are higher than your abilities. The current economic situation is very bad, and too many people who are better than me are gritting their teeth to survive. Why should I think that I am better than others? The lesson is profound.
The hole was patched up, I left home cleansed, and I was left with a trace of thoughts about my wonderful wife and family.
My parents are over seventy and they are still worried about me, which is very unfilial.
This chapter is just for chatting, without asking for votes or rewards. If my story can be of some reference to some book friends, that would also be great. Of course, I believe that book friends are very powerful people.
The above is some nonsense. Sometimes I have a very bad and philistine mentality, that is, when I see others being unlucky, I will be very happy, haha.
I hope you are happy, and I wish you happiness, a harmonious family, and a bright future.