Gradually, he has been able to ignore the complaints and complaints his parents have made about him, and even those malicious words of accusation are all reflected in his memories now. Generally, he is completely unaware of it, but is more focused on wanting to be better.
Find something meaningful in your parents’ words.
The little girl could instinctively feel that there must be some important information contained in the parents' eager expectations for their little sister and their careful plans for her future.
In the end, he finally found what he cared about, which was that his mother once mentioned that his youngest daughter must study. Their discussion at that time was more about the father's future life, while the mother had to consider
More specifically, he felt that what he considered most was the influencing factors of his little daughter’s own thoughts and feelings.
Therefore, the father thinks more about how to leave all his future property to his younger daughter to ensure that he can settle down, while the mother thinks more about how to find a reliable support for his future, and it is even difficult to predict what will happen in the end.
When things happened, the mother said again that in the future, the little daughter must be educated and sensible, and accompanied by books and pictures. I believe that even if the little daughter cannot find her soul, or the other half of her life, it will not be a pity.
one thing.
After all, his sister's behavior in the past can be said to have left her parents with the feeling that she might not pass away at any time. Therefore, the couple often considers him the most thoughtfully, and they wish they could give everything to the world.
All the things were given to the little girl.
After the mother mentioned the matter of studying, the father was silent for a long time. Then he also agreed with the mother's decision. Indeed, letting his little daughter study was so that he could find a way to be completely independent.
My mother also read some books, but after meeting my father later, he thought that his life was complete and no longer needed any comfort from other places, so gradually my mother stopped reading and instead
My whole heart was focused on my father and family, and later on my little daughter.
But even so, every time my mother puts forward suggestions, my father is likely to adopt them, and he even respects every word his mother usually says. This is probably the benefit of studying.
Li Xiucai's wife was only 16 or 17 years old at the time. He could not imagine or think about deeper things, but I saw something a little deeper. Indeed, at his age, he had already
One skill is to be mastered in advance. Of course, another skill is the ability to observe words and emotions.
For this ill-fated girl, precocious puberty is the only way for him to protect himself. In this world, he does not have anyone he can rely on and can place his sense of security on. It can be said that in his opinion, there is no one who can
Help yourself.
If his life at home was not easy, the little girl didn't think too much about it at that time. She was just uncomfortable with the unfair treatment she received. She was even very angry and aggrieved by the bad mistakes she had carried.
He didn't understand why his parents couldn't listen to him properly. What he said was true, but his sister was often full of lies or pretentiousness, which made him feel uncomfortable.
She had suffered one bad mistake after another, but her parents seemed to be blind and unable to see the truth. Later, the little girl finally understood a little bit. It turns out that everyone's heart is crooked.
So their hearts are naturally biased to one side, but the parents in each family prefer different children, and the degree of bias is also different in each family. This situation in their family is considered a relatively extreme phenomenon.
It can be said that partiality is common, but it is extremely rare to be partial to this extent. When he understood this, Li Xiucai's wife was already married. At that time, he had suddenly become enlightened about these things. Regarding what he once was,
He has no expectations, or in other words, longing for his original family.
This may be the reason why Li Xiucai and his wife have never had children. One is that they have a strong impression of their father's parents, so they have no confidence in raising their own children. After seeing too many failed examples, they simply have no confidence in raising their own children.
A child develops fear.
The other one was discouraged by his biological parents early on. In his opinion, since people's hearts are God's, they will inevitably have their own preferences and preferences for everything, so after having children, they will inevitably have their own preferences.
This problem will arise, and in the current form, if you have one child, you will have more children. This is also a knot in the heart of Li Xiu's wife that can never be opened.
As long as he has more than one child, or as long as he has children, it is impossible for his heart to maintain its original peaceful attitude. A person's heart cannot be controlled by himself. He has his own will, and he is completely
You can directly move to the other side according to your own ideas. It would be okay if he only has one child, but if he has more than two children, he will inevitably have a comparison in his heart. By then, Li Xiucai's wife does not want to have experienced it.
The things that happened in the past reappeared in his children.
Of course, many people will persuade him that you can maintain a neutral attitude and stay rational to treat your children equally, but Li Xiucai's wife would like to ask those who say these things, can they guarantee that they have truly done so?
Is it fair? Can they ensure that their attitude towards their children is consistent? No one needs to answer this point. Everyone knows that there is no way for a person to do this, and there is no absolute for a person.
Justice and fairness are things that people pursue throughout their lives but can never get.
As I said before, everyone has their own thoughts, which cannot be completely overridden or even corrected by your rationality. A preference for one of your children, or a strong dislike for one of your children, this is
This is definitely something that is extremely difficult to correct and change once you realize it.
As far as Li Xiucai's wife is concerned, she and her sister are almost identical in appearance, but they are completely different on the inside. And because of this difference, their parents' attitudes towards them are completely opposite, and even one of the coordinates of their efforts is fueling the fire.
Under this circumstance, the parents' love for their eldest daughter can be said to be extremely stingy, and they even put all their love on the younger daughter. This caused the tragedy of Li Xiucai's wife, and in fact, indirectly caused the tragedy of their family.