It can be said that partiality is common, but it is extremely rare to be partial to this extent. When he understood this, Li Xiucai's wife was already married. At that time, he had suddenly become enlightened about these things. Regarding what he once was,
He has no expectations, or in other words, longing for his original family.
This may be the reason why Li Xiucai and his wife have never had children. One is that they have a strong impression of their father's parents, so they have no confidence in raising their own children. After seeing too many failed examples, they simply have no confidence in raising their own children.
A child develops fear.
The other one was discouraged by his biological parents early on. In his opinion, since people's hearts are God's, they will inevitably have their own preferences and preferences for everything, so after having children, they will inevitably have their own preferences.
This problem will arise, and in the current form, if you have one child, you will have more children. This is also a knot in the heart of Li Xiu's wife that can never be opened.
As long as he has more than one child, or as long as he has children, it is impossible for his heart to maintain its original peaceful attitude. A person's heart cannot be controlled by himself. He has his own will, and he is completely
You can directly move to the other side according to your own ideas. It would be okay if he only has one child, but if he has more than two children, he will inevitably have a comparison in his heart. By then, Li Xiucai's wife does not want to have experienced it.
The things that happened in the past reappeared in his children.
Of course, many people will persuade him that you can maintain a neutral attitude and stay rational to treat your children equally, but Li Xiucai's wife would like to ask those who say these things, can they guarantee that they have truly done so?
Is it fair? Can they ensure that their attitude towards their children is consistent? No one needs to answer this point. Everyone knows that there is no way for a person to do this, and there is no absolute for a person.
Justice and fairness are things that people pursue throughout their lives but can never get.
As I said before, everyone has their own thoughts, which cannot be completely overridden or even corrected by your rationality. A preference for one of your children, or a strong dislike for one of your children, this is
This is definitely something that is extremely difficult to correct and change once you realize it.
As far as Li Xiucai's wife is concerned, she and her sister are almost identical in appearance, but they are completely different on the inside. And because of this difference, their parents' attitudes towards them are completely opposite, and even one of the coordinates of their efforts is fueling the fire.
Under this circumstance, the parents' love for their eldest daughter can be said to be extremely stingy, and they even put all their love on the younger daughter. This caused the tragedy of Li Xiucai's wife, and in fact, indirectly caused the tragedy of their family.
tragedy.
Of course, when the little girl seemed to have suppressed her timidity and probably used all her courage to put forward the most urgent wish in her heart like that uncle who, in his opinion, really wanted to compensate her.
, he had no idea that from that moment on, it could be said that his destiny had undergone earth-shaking changes.
And sure enough, as the little girl observed, his uncle really wanted to make up for the little girl, so when he heard the little girl come up with such a proposal that was beyond his expectation, it was beyond everyone's expectations.
When I made the wish, I didn’t hesitate for too long and agreed happily.
That night, his uncle mentioned this matter to his aunt, and at that time, Already Le finally took care of his child, watching him grow day by day, looking forward to him becoming the little princess in his mind.
The matron of the house really didn't pay too much attention to this matter.
After all, considering their family background, it is not particularly difficult to support a child to study, not to mention that this is a girl. She does not need to take the imperial examination. She only needs to be able to read and learn words, and to know the words and understand them by herself.
After reading the book, there won’t be too many problems. During this period, it will take about
It will take two or three years, and it is not too difficult to find a wife with a very average level of knowledge. Fortunately, the girl is still young, so she can just find a husband at random, and there is no need to worry about finding that one.
Raising a female wife who can read and write has already reduced the price a lot.
Just find an older scholar among those poor scholars who have landed or have given up the imperial examination, and come back to teach this little girl. And because this kind of person is older and does not have any
There are other ways out, so the prices are often cheaper than those of really young masters, so after calculating the cost, you can save a lot.
It can be said that the head matron has indeed managed the backyard very well. At least he has chosen masters for his sons to educate them, so he is very familiar with these things. For him, it only takes one or two periods.
He had already calculated clearly how much it would cost and whether they could afford it, which was a drop in the bucket for them, so he nodded quickly.
It's just that after she promised her husband, the lady seems to have blurred her face when she looks back on that girl. The things he once did and the things that once aroused her strong disgust have also faded a lot.
So now when he talks about this child, he feels a little bit pitiful. After all, not being able to live with his biological parents at such a young age is a very pitiful thing.
Of course, the husband didn’t feel like saying anything directly and lazily. I think your opinion of him a few years ago was wrong. On such a topic that definitely loses points, he just said, well, it’s not easy for him either.
He left his parents at a young age. Even if we, as uncles and aunts, couldn't take better care of him, our biological parents couldn't, so my sister thought of asking him if he needed anything.
This answer really touched the motherly feeling of the lady in charge. Indeed, he nodded. This child is indeed very pitiful. Our eldest brother and sister-in-law are also too partial. Now the little one is here
They grew up and were raised to be very squeamish, and they can't stand what others say. Anyway, I will not educate my daughter in this way. Although daughters need to be educated, they must also have teaching rules.