But it happened that the eldest grandfather and his wife were able to look at their eldest daughter with such a calm and rational look, which was almost mean. Their so-called calm was a calm that turned their hearts to one side. In their opinion, they
Her heart was completely for the sake of her younger daughter, and she had no plans for her eldest daughter. Even because of neglecting her for a long time, it seemed that they could
It is a great gift for the eldest daughter to have food to eat and live in this family. Now, if the eldest daughter is still so naughty under their fresh care, it is really hopeless and she is simply born.
Rather than letting him bring harm to the whole family when he grows up, it is better to let him leave the family at a young age to avoid harming them.
And their so-called objectivity is just because some servants came to them and started to slander the eldest lady. They thought that these servants were not them and they were not their little daughter, so they should be objective from a third party's perspective.
to look at these things. But how could he not,
A person's heart is naturally biased, and when it doesn't concern himself, people tend to see interests more clearly. How can they look at a thing truly objectively, not to mention that these servants are counting on them?
If they live according to their preferences and rewards, how can they stand objectively?
And reason is not even mentioned. Since you brought this child into the world, you should be responsible for him. No matter whether it is good or bad, you should do your best to take care of me and educate him, and try to
Educate him into a healthy and complete person.
What's more, in their era, as long as a girl is raised to ten years old, she is ready to find her husband's family. What happens after she gets married directly has nothing to do with their family. Even if the emperor wants to go to the Nine Clan and the married girl, he will not have anything to do with it.
relationship, it would not affect them. However, at this time, the eldest grandfather and his wife felt that they could not accommodate such a little girl in their home. Maybe they had some feelings in their hearts except at the beginning.
, Gradually, all their feelings were occupied by the little girl and the younger daughter, so they were really unable or incompetent to give any of them to the eldest daughter, so that early on in their hearts, the eldest daughter may have already
A family member who does not belong to them is like a piece of white or a plant planted in their home. As long as they give it enough water and fertilizer, it is up to them to decide what it will look like.
And now it has been proven that this plant will have side effects in their home and will poison his real family. At this point, they cannot tolerate it, so the most direct way is to uproot the plant and throw it directly outside the door.
, no longer care.
But that is a living little girl after all, not a plant that no one really cares about. If they just throw the little girl out like a plant, they can accept it, but depending on other people, they must accept it.
Can't.
After having the idea of letting this scourge leave home, the couple also discussed for a long time, not knowing how to deal with the next thing. Of course, those who have ideas are very simple, and they come out in a row in their minds. As soon as the couple combined
The other party agreed with their approach, so there was nothing to say. The specific operation was indeed necessary, and the two of them thought about it carefully.
Let's just throw the children how old they are out of the house. Not to mention their relatives and friends, even the neighbors will not let them go. No matter what, the two of them still regard themselves as scholars and enjoy the kind of things that everyone sees.
Of course, they cannot allow such a stain to exist on themselves with reverent eyes. By then, let alone the treatment they are receiving now, even ordinary people will point fingers at them, which is extremely unacceptable to them.
So what method can be used to send the children out so that they will not be criticized by others, or the children will not cause any serious consequences, or even hidden dangers that will affect them again in a few years or decades?
As for their family. In the end, the couple discussed it and the result was that they could only send the child to a relative's wife. They gave up everything first. Maybe our family can't do it, and you can't either.
To know which of the relatives in our family are not profit-oriented, just look at the dowry they gave me. You can see that these are all evil-hearted and none of them are good. If you throw the child to them to raise, of course it is
It's a good thing, but I'm afraid that they will use this child as an excuse to keep reaching out to us. By then, things will be even more troublesome than raising this older child or daughter, waiting for us.
Grandpa nodded in agreement with what the eldest lady said. In his opinion, most people are good at everything, but the driver's license they brought with them was too little. Compared with their own home, it was simply a wife.
Yuan Zongzong always makes him feel that he is supporting the family, or that he has suffered a big loss. In his opinion, the husband and wife have almost the same assets, so they can make up a family. In that case,
Neither of the couple suffers.
Just like the eldest lady, the dowry may seem decent to others, but in fact, compared with her own family property, and the monthly salary she has to bring back from the academy, she is simply at a loss.
Dafa. If it weren't for the fact that the eldest lady had read a few books and could talk to him, he would have quit long ago.
Although he said this, in fact, the great grandfather said in his heart that if he quit, he didn't know what he could do. Anyway, in his heart, no one was worthy of him. It was rare for him to
Being able to tolerate the other party is a sign of condescension.
The eldest lady's dowry seems to have wronged him to the eldest grandfather and the eldest lady, but the actual situation is not the case. The eldest lady's dowry can only be collected for him with the help of several brothers from his mother's family.
It is already a very good dowry. Otherwise, it is impossible that almost ten years later, the eldest lady can still attend various family gatherings with the clothes from her parents.
But no matter what, the dowry that his natal brothers put so much effort into, in the eyes of the eldest lady and the eldest old man, is far from enough. In their eyes, the best situation is of course for the parents.
It all belongs to them, and if that doesn't work, then the vast majority should also belong to them. This is completely and thoroughly implemented by the eldest grandfather. After all, the eldest grandfather accounted for the vast majority of the family property when they split up.