In his opinion, taking good care of the children throughout their lives is what parents should do. As mentioned just now, those people force their children to study, beat them if they don't obey, and punish them at every turn. In this grandfather's opinion,
It is absolutely not advisable to come here, but these children often go back and watch obediently after they have made trouble, cried, and been punished.
It can be said that when I see those children who are obviously unhappy, unhappy and do not want to study, but are still forced to study for various reasons, crying and shouting, but still not giving up books, seeing such an ending, this
The old man's eyes almost jumped out of his sockets. He didn't expect that this could be considered an effective behavior. Anyway, this time when picking up the child, he returned to studying.
On the way, there were even a few children who later discovered the benefits of reading and really studied with their heart. Of course, most children read under forced circumstances, so naturally they cannot get a good taste in reading, and they are still poor at reading.
I still had the same resistance I had when I was young, so in the end I was mediocre in reading, not to mention taking the exam for scholar, I didn’t even have the voice of a child.
But it is because there are still a few children who have transformed from these children who were not willing to study at all and turned into people who love reading and even achieve success in reading, so this is why this child
The father seriously reflected on whether he had really done something wrong. Should he insist on his sister forcing him to study when his son was crying? At this point, the father felt that he could not do anything, but he also
Think about it, can't he be such an inferior father? Can't he still be such a superior father?
Originally, in his opinion, his father was definitely very qualified. In his opinion, his father could be said to have considered everything about his child, and then for his life, his future, and even his
He has given him careful consideration of all the issues such as raising children in his old age, working hard to make money, and increasing his family property several times, just to allow his son to live a comfortable life, but now he can't
Make sure that this approach is really the best choice.
Anyway, in his opinion, the kind of parents who can reason with their children when their sons show reluctance to study, worship the facts, and make their children understand the importance of studying no matter what, may be better than themselves.
Be a wise father.
Especially when he was a businessman with a similar status to him. It should be said that he was a businessman with the same status, but businessmen were divided into different sizes. There were not many big businessmen like this master in the provincial capital. And
Some small businessmen usually flatter these big businessmen, one after another. After all, in their opinion, they can live a good life and get better goods, which are all exposed through the fingers of these big businessmen. They
Only then can we take advantage of it and take advantage of some variation.
Therefore, even though the status of businessmen may not be high in other places in society, they are naturally divided into three, six, and nine grades in the business circle. This gentleman was originally praised and complimented in the business circle. Those small businessmen must not be here
Around these mountain people, I try my best to please and compliment these people, hoping that they will be in a better mood or think more highly of themselves so that they can get better prices and better goods.
, I get better benefits.
Therefore, this grandpa is surrounded by many people all year round, hoping to make this grandpa give out more profits when he is happy. Anyway, these things and money are just a drop in the bucket in the eyes of this grandpa, but
It is an extremely important source of wealth for them.
This is also the reason why this grandpa does not attach so much importance to studying. On the one hand, he is unwilling to study. So when he saw that his son was unwilling to study, he also thought of the pain he had experienced.
Instead of being tired for a long time,
In the end, I still couldn't read anything and wasted my time. It would be better to let my son live a happy life and do what they want him to do. And because he has his own experience, so when it comes to his son's reading, he originally
This gentleman takes it very lightly.
In his opinion, even the status of a businessman is relatively low in the eyes of other people in society, even inferior to farmers. But compared with those mud-legged people who only face the loess and back to the sky, when pulling out of the soil,
For those farmers, the life of the businessmen was actually very good.
Talking about these farmers who are digging rocks in the soil, even the old man looks down on those poor scholars. After all, only you know best what your life is like. Even if a businessman has a low social status, everyone will look down on him.
, but who doesn’t envy the merchant’s rich wealth in his heart?
Although there are still many restrictions on dressing, businessmen are not allowed to wear them due to their social status, but the flexible silk and satin on their bodies is something that ordinary people may not be able to earn and wear on themselves in their lifetime. They
Although the food and food used every day are not as good as those of those with lofty ideals, they are much better than those of ordinary people. There are many things that ordinary people may have never seen, touched, or used in their entire lives.
In addition, he is highly respected in the business circle, and he is surrounded by many people who are waiting to flatter him, and he does not know himself. Therefore, this businessman naturally feels that his life is very happy, so in
Under such circumstances, he certainly didn't think that his son needed to rely on studying to become a scholar in order to live a superior life.
But his idea was broken one day, and his original sense of superiority suddenly fell into the dust. It was a small businessman who was originally following this grandfather to flatter him. Originally, everyone had no idea about this kind of thing.
The small businessmen who flattered the big businessmen were just like looking at ants, but one day suddenly an alien appeared among these ants.
It was as if one day suddenly, everyone's attitude towards this small businessman suddenly changed drastically, and he no longer surrounded him and said some flattering words, but stood up straight, with his head held high and his chest held high.
There, a large number of businessmen gathered around him, congratulating and blessing him, and even said familiar and unfamiliar flattering words to this young businessman who had just turned over.