But it's too late to talk about anything at this time. After all, his status in his son's mind is no longer the upright one it was when he was a child, nor can he decide everything about his son with just one sentence. Now even if he
He pulled his son in front of him and spoke earnestly.
When he talked about life, about Shi Ye, about starting a family, etc., his son could wave his hand and completely ignore his existence. He even said that his son could turn around and leave if he was anxious. Although he would not contradict him, he would still
Completely ignoring his status and authority as a father in the family.
At this time, the father had to start to reflect on whether his method of educating his son was very biased. Why could other people's sons be well educated, and this time they could inherit their father's business and keep the family business? But when it came to him,
How did my son's place become like this? He thought hard but didn't feel that he had made any mistakes. However, he realized that the method he had chosen in the past was probably problematic, so he
I began to slowly observe how other families educate their sons.
He wouldn't know if he didn't observe it. Once he observed it, he was really shocked. Only then did he realize that it was common for children to be tired of learning when they were young. There were very few children with outstanding talents who could show their prominence in reading early.
Children like this can start studying hard on their own without any urging from adults.
A child is basically a child whose parents are in high school or in other words. They probably owed debts in their previous life, and they are here to pay off their debts in this life. Such good children are not found in every family, and it is even said that such children are definitely rare, and they can
Parents who meet such children must have accumulated a lot of money in their previous life.
But generally speaking, everyone is still like their own sons. When they were young, they would complain and say things like not wanting to study. But obviously, since most families have the ability to provide for their children to study, they don’t have the ability to do so.
It is said that because of a few complaints from the children, the children will be stopped from studying.
Of course, some sensible parents will persuade their children to reason with them, let them understand the importance of reading, and then slowly guide their children's interest in reading. This method is of course the best policy, and such children will continue to study in the future.
Achievements in this aspect are also expected. Anyway, according to this grandfather’s survey, a higher proportion of children in such families can achieve success in reading.
On the other hand, it may be due to limitations of their own construction or education. Some parents simply cannot persuade their children how to study, or tell them that only by studying can they have a future.
, but they will also adopt another method, that is, high-pressure methods, whether it is beating or scolding, or methods, they are all methods to force their children to continue studying.
In this man's opinion, this is definitely a bad idea. In his opinion, the behavior of these parents is worse than his own. What does it mean to bully children like this? Parents and children came into this world tired of these things and did not ask for help.
Parents' consent, on the contrary, it is because of their parents' selfishness, or some ideas, that they came into this world. Since they appear in this world as their children, they
As a parent, you should take full responsibility for them and work hard to take care of their daily life and their whole life. In his opinion, this is what parents should do. But as mentioned just now, those people force
In the eyes of this grandpa, it is absolutely undesirable for children to be beaten when they are disobedient while studying, and punished at every turn. However, these children have made troubles and cried, and after being punished, they can often go back and watch obediently.
It can be said that when I see those children who are obviously unhappy, unhappy and do not want to study, but are still forced to study for various reasons, crying and shouting, but still not giving up books, seeing such an ending, this
The old man's eyes almost jumped out of his sockets. He didn't expect that this could be considered an effective behavior. Anyway, this time when picking up the child, he returned to studying.
On the way, there were even a few children who later discovered the benefits of reading and really studied with their heart. Of course, most children read under forced circumstances, so naturally they cannot get a good taste in reading, and they are still poor at reading.
I still had the same resistance I had when I was young, so in the end I was mediocre in reading, not to mention taking the scholar exam, and I didn’t even have the voice of a child.
But it is because there are still a few children who have transformed from these children who were not willing to study at all and turned into people who love reading and even achieve success in reading, so this is why this child
The father seriously reflected on whether he had really done something wrong. Should he insist on his sister forcing him to study when his son was crying? At this point, the father felt that he could not do anything, but he also
Think about it, can't he be such an inferior father? Can't he still be such a superior father?
Originally, in his opinion, his father was definitely very qualified. In his opinion, his father could be said to have considered everything about his child, and then for his life, his future, and even his
He has given him careful consideration of all the issues such as raising children in his old age, working hard to make money, and increasing his family property several times, just to allow his son to live a comfortable life, but now he can't
Make sure that this approach is really the best choice.
Anyway, in his opinion, the kind of parents who can reason with their children when their sons show reluctance to study, worship the facts, and make their children understand the importance of studying no matter what, may be better than themselves.
Be a wise father.
Especially when he was a businessman with a similar status to him. It should be said that he was a businessman with the same status, but businessmen were divided into different sizes. There were not many big businessmen like this master in the provincial capital. And
Some small businessmen usually flatter these big businessmen, one after another. After all, in their opinion, they can live a good life and get better goods, which are all exposed through the fingers of these big businessmen. They
Only then can we take advantage of it and take advantage of some variation.
Therefore, even though the status of businessmen may not be high in other places in society, they are naturally divided into three levels in the business circle. This gentleman was originally praised and complimented by others in the business circle.