The only fly in the ointment is that when people mention his identity and the identity of his wife, they will inevitably look at each other with clear meaning. After a few colors pass between each other, everyone roughly understands the meaning, which makes him often appear in social situations.
It was a bit embarrassing.
Although this subtle atmosphere only lasts for one or two seconds, for Mr. Jia, it is like a year. This one or two seconds is like one or two seats to him.
It was a mountain that he would be unable to overcome in his entire life. A hurdle weighed him down and made him unable to breathe.
After getting angry, sometimes even when meeting officials for the first time, he would be a little very nervous. He was afraid that others would communicate with each other with that kind of eyes, and he was afraid that people would look at him with that kind of meaningful eyes.
, afraid of the slightly invisible smile of contempt pulled from the corners of people’s mouths.
But the message conveyed by Tiantian is correct. It is true that he relied on his wife to gain a foothold in the officialdom, and it was also with the help of his wife that he achieved his current official position. All of this
And when people introduced him, they said he was a young man with good fortune. It would be better to say that Mr. Jia is the son-in-law of a certain family.
This situation actually makes Mr. Jia very conflicted. On the one hand, he is very successful. He is very happy that he can find such a good musician. If he works hard, he can directly save a lot of money.
, it can be said that he took a shortcut,
But at the same time, he is afraid that others will accuse him of taking shortcuts in the officialdom and not relying on his own efforts. He feels that he is actually able to achieve what he is today, but it is entirely based on his own efforts. You must know that Hanchuang studied hard for ten years.
, which cannot be replaced by anyone.
Being able to stand out from a certain kind of businessmen, and being able to surpass them and achieve light, is in itself proof of one's abilities and extraordinary qualities. However, this is not what these people saw when they introduced themselves. It was just that they stood out.
His efforts were not to develop intelligence and abilities that were higher than those of others, but to become a capable and powerful Lele family. This made him feel very ashamed while feeling complacent at the same time.
But in front of his wife, he did not dare to show any dissatisfaction, or any dissatisfaction or embarrassment about this situation. He still relied on his monthly leave to find a better future for himself.
After all, if you don't advance in the officialdom, you will retreat. He doesn't want to be a man who retreats under the rapids. He hopes that he can move forward bravely and be an everlasting pine in the officialdom. He can always take root in observation and flourish.
Mao De allowed his son to build his own family business.
Therefore, this fake adult treats his wife with utmost care and attention. Although he has a lot of dissatisfaction with his wife's strength, he is unable and does not dare to express it at all.
He was not talking about how harsh the official lady that the fake man married for the first time was to him, or how badly she treated him. After all, they were the two people that the young lady liked, and
Of course he cherished the marriage he had worked hard for, not to mention that Mr. Jia was as gentle, as caring, and as obedient to him after marriage. This was also very satisfying to this lady, but
As a woman, she must have a common problem, that is, she is unwilling to share her husband with others.
In today's society, only rich and powerful men can live with only one woman for the rest of their lives. For them, as long as they have a lot of money or power, raising a few more women is simply a waste.
A very direct way to prove your ability.
Take businessmen with extremely low social status as an example. They do not have the right to have concubines, but they still have another way to raise more women. Anyway, the more women they raise, the more beautiful they are.
On the contrary, people seem to prove that their abilities are higher, or that their qualifications are stronger.
For the children of official families who can blatantly or confidently keep concubines, Xiaoqian is a symbol of misunderstanding in their lives. Giving concubines to each other in the officialdom is also a good talk, which seems to lead to
Being a close friend may be a sign of special appreciation for the other person. In such a social atmosphere, how could Mr. Jia say that he only lives by his wife?
But it was obvious that what the official lady who married Mr. Jia was really looking for was the realm of two people for life, so he nipped Mr. A's idea of marrying a wife in the cradle early. Even
For some official entertainment, people gave it to Mr. Jia
The woman is also controlled by this wife. Even though she has a title, it is only in name only. This fake lover actually has two sides on the surface, but in fact he cannot have it.
What's in the mouth, just looking at it is more worrying than not having it at all.
So after the official lady passed away due to dystocia, the family was like a wild horse that had escaped the reins, sleeping with concubines, raising maids, etc., and he did it all over again, as if to make up for himself in the past few years.
The injustice he suffered. But fortunately, he still knew the basic truth, or in other words, he was still afraid. He knew that he still couldn't figure out the numbers. This was very important to him.
His reputation was damaged. No matter what, even if he didn't sleep with those girls, outsiders would think that he had slept with them. They were basically his women in name, so of course it was natural for him to sleep with them.
, but soon after his wife passed away, if the figures were revealed, it would simply damage his long-standing glorious image.
And later, he felt that children were too troublesome. He didn't care much about the child left by his wife, but there were also many things. He was really impatient to find him here.
So he is not willing to give birth to a child at all.
.Doesn’t having more children mean that he has more things to worry about, so he really hasn’t produced any dedicated children. Of course, it is also spread in the provincial capital that this fake adult is particularly affectionate and clean.
This kind of message or reputation is also an unexpected blessing.
But even with such a good reputation and good care in the officialdom, it is basically impossible for this fake person to marry an official lady before leaving. He has known it from the beginning.
For this reason, when he renewed his marriage, the candidates he chose were all daughters of merchants.