In today's society, only rich and powerful men can live with only one woman for the rest of their lives. For them, as long as they have a lot of money or power, raising a few more women is simply a waste.
A very direct way to prove your ability.
Take businessmen with extremely low social status as an example. They do not have the right to have concubines, but they still have another way to raise more women. Anyway, the more women they raise, the more beautiful they are.
On the contrary, people seem to prove that their abilities are higher, or that their qualifications are stronger.
For the children of official families who can blatantly or confidently keep concubines, Xiaoqian is a symbol of misunderstanding in their lives. Giving concubines to each other in the officialdom is also a good talk, which seems to lead to
Being a close friend may be a sign of special appreciation for the other person. In such a social atmosphere, how could Mr. Jia say that he only lives by his wife?
But it was obvious that what the official lady who married Mr. Jia was really looking for was the realm of two people for life, so he nipped Mr. A's idea of marrying a wife in the cradle early. Even
For some official entertainment, people gave it to Mr. Jia
The woman is also controlled by this wife. Even though she has a title, it is only in name only. This fake lover actually has two sides on the surface, but in fact he cannot have it.
What's in the mouth, just looking at it is more worrying than not having it at all.
So after the official lady passed away due to dystocia, the family was like a wild horse that had escaped the reins, sleeping with concubines, raising maids, etc., and he did it all over again, as if to make up for himself in the past few years.
The injustice he suffered. But fortunately, he still knew the basic truth, or in other words, he was still afraid. He knew that he still couldn't figure out the numbers. This was very important to him.
His reputation was damaged. No matter what, even if he didn't sleep with those girls, outsiders would think that he had slept with them. They were basically his women in name, so of course it was natural for him to sleep with them.
, but soon after his wife passed away, if the figures were revealed, it would simply damage his long-standing glorious image.
And later, he felt that children were too troublesome. He didn't care much about the child left by his wife, but there were also many things. He was really impatient to find him here.
So he is not willing to give birth to a child at all.
.Doesn’t having more children mean that he has more things to worry about, so he really hasn’t produced any dedicated children. Of course, it is also spread in the provincial capital that this fake adult is particularly affectionate and clean.
This kind of message or reputation is also an unexpected blessing.
But even with such a good reputation and good care in the officialdom, it is basically impossible for this fake person to marry an official lady before leaving. He has known it from the beginning.
For this reason, when he renewed his marriage, the candidates he chose were all daughters of merchants.
The main reason why I chose this new lady to be the new lady is that this young lady had a very good reputation when she was in the boudoir, and she still looks like her name when she wears it. This is also very rare among young ladies from merchant families.
Since you can no longer choose a woman who is helpful to you, then directly find an obedient and sensible woman so that you can worry less about taking care of the children in the backyard. These aspects are also a good choice. In the end, Jia was chosen.
After settling on this virtuous young lady, and after marrying him, his sense of this woman has gotten better and better, so much so that now he really feels as if his second love is more perfect than his first wife.
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Although this woman has not given him any help in his career, she may need her own protection and help. This is also very important to his natal family.
You need to know this woman's natal family, that is to say, this fake single's current Le family has demands from him, so their attitude towards him is as respectful as possible. Comparing this comparison, the fake adult seems to feel that before
It was really hard to look up when I was crossing the river.
It's such a shame. This is the attitude that I should have towards myself. It's no wonder that those real aristocratic families are all about marrying a high-ranking family with a high profile and a low-status wife. It can be seen that marrying a wife with a lower family background than your own,
It seems that I receive a lot of treatment from my husband.
He was very clearly aware of the difference in attitude between the two yogas towards him. After all, he was originally pursuing his own yoga and had no place in the officialdom. He also had to rely entirely on Lejia's promotion.
He can only hold an official position, but in terms of his temperament, he does not have much confidence when facing the previous wife's natal family. If his own backbone is not straight, it will inevitably make people look down on him.
But now he is completely overlooking his Xinyue family. Of course, he does not regard this woman's natal family as his Le family in his heart. In his heart, his Le family is still the natal family of the deceased wife.
, that is the place that is truly useful and beneficial to you
Fang, and now he really enjoys the feeling of being held up and respected by others, that is, he treats this woman's natal family as a poor relative. Of course, the poor relatives mentioned here do not mean
Poverty in terms of money, but poverty in status.
Originally, all he wanted from his new wife was to be gentle, obedient and sensible, which meant he was very satisfied, but this woman indeed gave her an unexpected surprise. Not only did he have control over everything in the backyard, he even handled it.
Just being organized does not allow him to have any distractions, such boring things in the backyard
In fact, for his parents, they are also very satisfied with the attitude and care this woman has given them after entering the house, and his son was originally the biggest problem on his mind. After all, this son is different from other children.
In other words, this son is still very important to Mr. Jia.
After all, this son is the only connection he has with his ex-wife's natal family. The woman would have died and gone directly to the underworld to seize the Qing Dynasty, but her connection with that family cannot be broken. Otherwise, he will be as big as sesame seeds and mung beans.
Sooner or later, a small official will be scolded to death. Who will he cry to at that time?