But Mrs. Jia, who came in late, refused to play with those children or girls of about the same age as him. After all, in his opinion, isn’t it okay to play anytime? Isn’t it possible that he is not here today?
Is it so important for adults to join in the fun and say more compliments, or to get two more candies? For him, of course, learning more is the most important thing. He has realized that marriage is definitely the first priority for a woman.
2 reincarnations.
By the way, he heard this from one of his aunts, but he agreed very much in his heart. Just look at when this aunt said this, all the girls and daughters-in-law around him were
He nodded hurriedly and knew that he was taking what grandma said
It is absolutely a truth, and this little girl has firmly remembered it in her heart. Since marriage is so important, she should watch more and see what other people's marriage is like, so that she will not worry about it when she gets married.
There is nothing wrong with being so panicked.
It is indeed absurd and good. No matter how much, Mrs. Jia, who entered the family late, was able to realize when she was a little girl, these new ladies were actually very panicked and at a loss in their hearts. No matter how well they married on the wedding day,
If you marry badly, no matter how many guests come or how much dowry they have, each of them will feel very uneasy. For this, the little girl is full of disgust.
He doesn't think getting married is so scary. Anyway, it's just moving from this yard to another to get along with another family. So far, he hasn't met anyone who doesn't like him.
He has a sweet mouth and can please people, so the adults liked him very much after seeing him. In fact, the neighbors who didn't like him at first were all taken under his skirt one by one. Anyway, those people now see him
He is always smiling, and of course his sweet mouth is the most important reason.
Smile first when you see people, say hello when you see people you know, and smile when you don't know them. At the same time, carefully observe the other person's words and deeds, and realize what aspect of the other person's attention, then the little girl will immediately run to the side, oops
, Auntie, are you tired? Auntie, are you thirsty? Oh, today is really hard. I still have to thank aunties for their hard work on such a hard day. We children should learn more from you.
Sometimes he didn't know what he meant by those words, but that didn't stop him from saying those words, and the women and men on the other side who were originally not very happy, or didn't express much, listened.
After hearing these words, a smile of relief appeared, which made him feel much more harmonious.
So gradually the little girl knew that what she said would make others treat her well, and he took advantage of this to the extreme. Anyway, so far, he has never seen anyone he can't deal with, so for him
For me, changing the environment and interacting with strangers is nothing
The difficult thing is that he also believes that he has the confidence and charm to conquer everyone and make everyone like him, so for him, getting married is really not a particularly difficult thing. He really can't understand those things.
Why is the bride so anxious and uneasy?
Of course, later on, through her own observations, conclusions, extraordinary understanding, etc., the little girl finally found the reason for those people, that is, these people were not like herself. They started doing it early and were prepared to know that people like this
There are many things in life that need to be taught by others. He is very young.
At that time, he knew that listening to the private discussions of his elders made it very clear to him that people really have many masks. These elders look one way in front of others, but they look another way behind their backs.
Their speech, behavior, expression, and even cognition may be completely opposite attitudes.
In the eyes of the little girl, the faces of these people on the outside are really dull and boring, but in fact when they are doing things in private, their faces are vivid and real, so for the little girl
For a girl, she prefers to listen to those in private. Alas, because of her young age, she has heard a lot of gossip, so gradually she has mastered a lot of people who are quietly eavesdropping next to her.
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The little girl thinks that it is because she has heard enough of these things, her knowledge of this matter is broad enough, and she has thought about enough things that her knowledge and understanding of life are beyond ordinary people.
He seems to have a clearer understanding than the new godmothers who are getting married.
He knew that for these new families, the husband's family was a completely unfamiliar area, but as brides, they should pay attention to it. The most basic thing they should pay attention to was their dowry. Anyway, who they would marry has already been decided at this time.
The most important thing for them should be to work hard to make their husband's family live a better life, so the most basic factor to ensure them is the dowry for their marriage this time.
Although the little girl said every time in front of her parents that she would not get married, she was truly happy to be with her parents, and she would stay with her parents all her life, be filial to them, and let them enjoy happiness. But he knew these words.
What he learned from those people is the superficial set of high-sounding words. Anyway, speaking such words will please his father and mother, and he will get more love.
But in fact, the little girl had already planned it long ago. Ever since she heard her father and mother discussing her in private about her future dowry and dowry, she had always paid attention to her words and deeds, striving to be in the best position for herself.
Everything you say and do can please your parents, and only if they like you more will they be more willing to spend money on you. The richer your dowry, the more you will do in the future.
The more you live, the more comfortable and at ease you become.
At that time, the little girl didn't know about the difference in family status. In her opinion, the dowry was the most decisive factor in a woman's marital happiness, so she only attended her cousin's wedding in the past three days.
Being so stimulated, it was the first time in her life that she had seen the real so-called Shili Hongzhuang.
Of course, saying "Shui Hongzhuang" is a bit exaggerated, but his cousin's dowry is already several times the dowry that a person of their status would give when marrying their daughter.