Of course, saying "Shui Hongzhuang" is a bit exaggerated, but his cousin's dowry is already several times the dowry that a person of their status would give when marrying their daughter.
Such a dowry was enthusiastic enough for a little girl, but later on, as she grew older, she gradually realized that when wealthy families marry their daughters, it can only be called a red dowry. Parents on this side may have just
Entering the passenger door, the driver's license on the other end is not the last one.
Leaving the front door of her natal family, such a situation can be called Hongzhuang, but for Mrs. Jia, who entered the family at a young age, the wedding he observed was the first time he had ever known her.
It turns out that people like them can also have such a dowry level.
But he knew very well that my cousin's family was actually not as well off as theirs, but they were able to give their daughter so many things. He even knew when he listened to those people talking in private,
The betrothal gifts sent from the south were several times more than this, and their cousin's parents still kept most of them.
He only gave a small part of the betrothal gift to his daughter as a dowry, and let him take it out of the house. Even so, the level of the dowry surprised him so much that he was so envious. Even in his heart, he was so small at that time.
He was thinking that if he could have such a dowry when he got married, he would be extremely happy.
And when she heard that the man's betrothal gift was several times more than this, and most of it was secretly withheld by the cousin's parents to supplement the family income, the little girl's heart was full of injustice, and at that moment she seemed to be transformed into
He was so angry when he saw his cousin himself. Since it was the man's betrothal gift, it was given based on his cousin's face. Why did his parents dare to withhold these in private?
Later, he listened to many people's comments and realized that it was normal for his cousin's parents to behave like this. After all, daughters are generally not taken seriously in the family. In addition to this beautiful girl, she also has several brothers and sisters.
Of course, the girls don’t need to worry too much, but the several boys each
They needed to get a wife, and they had lost a lot of their betrothal gifts. His cousin was too beautiful and was attracted by the rich man, so the betrothal gift given by the man was really large.
With most of the betrothal gifts intercepted in this section, their family will not have to worry about the marriage of their own boys.
That was almost the first time that the fake lady who came in later realized the difference between men and women. Before, he only thought that there was not much difference between men and women. It was just a marriage in theory. For men and women, it was a separate marriage.
In terms of marriage, the man has to pay a betrothal gift and the woman has to pay a dowry. This is an important factor that can ensure the future life of the couple. However, he did not realize that in most people's families, boys are indeed more important.
This is the first time the little girl reflects on the situation at home. He has an eldest brother who is five years older than him. Anyway, he has the impression that his parents love her very much. After all, his eldest brother is much older than him.
Too many. It’s impossible for my eldest brother to play with him since he was little.
So he really didn't pay attention to his parents, as to how different they were, and the most important thing is that boys and girls have different life resources, and the things they need in their environment are different, so
This isn't much of a comparison at all.
And the more important thing is that although they bought fake goods in the end, their parents did not want to give up their lives, but they insisted on the rules handed down from their ancestors, who raised their sons in poverty and raised their daughters in wealth, so their family was in front of me.
It does seem that he loves his daughter more. Anyway, the daughter's food and clothing expenses are similar to those of the boy. The most important thing is that in a small family like theirs, they eat together, so of course they wear the same things.
, there is a huge difference between boys and girls.
Little girls like those pink and colorful things. Boys will definitely not wear clothes of these colors on themselves, so even if boys and girls make the same clothes every season, in fact, boys wear
The clothes are just a few colors. It seems that there are not too many new clothes made. They are different from girls. Each piece of clothes is almost a different color, fresh and bright.
Yes, it seems like I have made a lot of clothes when I wear it back and forth.
As for jewelry, it is even more obvious. Girls' jewelry all shows their cuteness. Even some jewelry outlined with gold wire is made to be more gorgeous, so that when the little girl wears it on her head, she will look like a girl.
The new and bright ones can better show the love they receive at home. Such a piece of jewelry is of course very eye-catching, but there are not many real materials used, so the price is relatively cheap, not unlike
Even a jade pendant worn by a boy would cost a lot of silver.
So even the parents of Hou Junwen's Mrs. Jia worked hard to keep a bowl of water balanced, so it is rare that he is a family that values their daughters more. After all, girls in other families can get 1/1 of the resources of boys.
10 is pretty good, and like their family, girls can make clothes of as much price as boys can make, and girls can buy as much jewelry as they want.
Less expensive jewelry, and because boys need to spend money on reading and writing, etc., their daily consumption seems to be less than that of girls. In addition to the jewelry problem just mentioned, girls’
Jewelry Ten taels of silver can buy several pieces of fine jewelry that look good, but for boys, with a lot of silver, they can only buy one piece and the quality is not that good.
So after calculation, of course, this girl feels that she is the favored one in the family. After all, the boy is his eldest brother, and he only has two or three accessories that he carries around. He doesn't know the specific value of these accessories.
In his opinion, the gray and inconspicuous accessories did not look high-end, and they were far from high-end. Compared with his golden and shiny jewelry, they were indeed far behind.
Already.
After such a comparison, of course a girl feels that she is the most favored one in the family, and her brother will also shy away from him when he sees her. Of course, on the surface, he doesn't care about this, and he never has to fight for his favor.
The only thing I do is to please my father and mother.