When I was young, I often dreamed that I was playing with my father, leaving my mother far behind. My mother was so angry that she chased the father and son, but he couldn't catch up with them. They ran too far.
It was so fast that there was no way the mother could catch up. The father and son were holding hands happily.
Running towards the distance. At that time, every time he had such a beautiful dream, the simple man wished he could wake up from the dream with laughter, and every time he woke up, he was annoyed. How could he not help being so happy? It should be
Just hold it in a little longer. If you hold it in a little longer, he will be able to stay in the dream and not wake up. Moreover, that dream is really wonderful.
Of course, if he is sensible, he would not have such a ridiculous dream. In the dream, he agrees more with his mother's thoughts. His father is really too helpless, like soft mud that cannot hold up the wall.
Likewise, there is nothing that can be appreciated at all, and my father's temper is too warm. Whatever my mother says, my father always agrees blindly.
This person at home does not seem to have any masculinity. Although he has become a scholar, it seems that his mother has never asked him to be an upright man. What she hopes is that he is gentle and knowledgeable, but for
For a boy, becoming a man is probably every boy's first and final dream.
Anyway, in Mr. Jia's perception, the word "man" preceded by his father is not that far away. In his mind, this family does not rely on his father, but on him.
Mother, this is actually a cognitive error. After all, the family's business is mainly run by the master.
Although he doesn't have much enterprising spirit, he can still defend the city. Maintaining the memories left by his ancestors can also ensure that their family has food and drink. Besides, their family's population is indeed relatively small, so naturally
Yes, life at home is actually more humorous than that of our ancestors for generations.
Speaking from the perspective of an adult, he feels that his father is not a real man and cannot support the family. In fact, this role of father and mother has been added. If you reverse it, it will be perfect.
Well, my mother's strong character shouldn't be close to the back house. If she has such knowledge and insight, she should go outside to create a foundation. Maybe their family's wealth can be increased again.
Of course, this is just what other people think in their own minds. In fact, it is impossible. He is very clear that the personalities of his father and mother cannot be changed like his gender, and their family is different from other people.
It’s not the same in other families. In other families, the male is the leader outside and the woman is the leader inside. In their family, the boy is the leader outside and the woman is the leader inside. Anyway, whatever his mother says is right. Whatever he does, he has to suppress his father.
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Now that he has become wiser, Mr. Jia would like to thank his mother for being able to teach him earnestly and strictly discipline him when he was young and ignorant. If no matter how distressed he is, he can always discipline him carefully for you, read and write seriously, and follow
The gentleman I invited is learning these things while he is currently doing so, which can be said to be 12 hours non-stop.
Well, it was done with the care of him. After all, the child grew up with his mother at that time and lived in the back house of the Jia family. It can be said that Mr. Jia could not leave 24 hours a day.
He was controlled by his mother every second of the day, and he accomplished all kinds of things.
At that time, Mr. Jia no longer had the tacit understanding that he wanted to be like his father when he was a child. He looked very gentle and gentle, gentle and nice, and looked very gentle. He did not look like a very affectionate father.
Playing. At that time, he already felt that his father was simply not qualified and had completely lost his responsibilities and obligations as a father. In his opinion, his father was really absent. At this time, he forgot about his mother.
Because I am with him every second of every day
, and the relationship between parents is not that deep. When two people stay together, the atmosphere at that time would be awkward if they were separated for a long time. Therefore, when he was young, no one in the family wanted his parents to have a serious problem. But at this time, he
He just thought that his father had no other responsibilities when he was growing up. He didn't think that his mother actually took over from his father and fulfilled the roles of both father and mother. It can be said that his mother devoted all her time to him.
The contribution made to him was the contribution of two people.
And when Mr. Jia finally passed the imperial examination and was proud, he felt as if he had remembered everything for decades. His father who had been there for more than ten years suddenly appeared in front of everyone, and was praised by those people.
While looking after his family, many people also complimented his father. They were flaunting or praising his father for his good teaching. At this time, Mr. Jia felt very ridiculed. After all, in his opinion, his father had never interfered.
When it comes to educating oneself, the most important thing is that he will care about his own life when he is young. Of course, when he gradually becomes sensible and realizes the value of learning, his father will not be able to care about him even in his studies or life at this time, and his mother will not even care about him.
He was disciplined more strictly, so in his opinion, these words of congratulations and words of praise should be attributed to his mother, instead of like now, where his father bears all the glory in front of everyone.
Of course, after Mrs. Jia married his wife, he felt that his father was actually pretty good. After all, he didn’t hold him back or find any trouble for him. Don’t think that Mrs. Jia’s little tricks can really make a difference.
Hidden from the shrewd father and son of this family, everyone knew about the two of them, but no one responded. This matter is both big and small.
Yes, after all, it's just a friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It can't even be called an argument or fight. It's just a unilateral attempt to crush the first-in-law daughter-in-law and try to beat her mother-in-law. Such a thing is your own wife's own daughter-in-law.
It has been handled very well, and there is no need for them to intervene at all, but the father and son really saw every move of Mrs. Jia's family clearly.
And just because he saw everything about his mother clearly, as an adult in the family, he felt a little disappointed. His mother was really old, and his mind was not clear anymore. Unlike when he was young, when his goals were clear, his mother was heading towards