After all, the child grew up with his mother at that time, living in the back house of the Jia family. It can be said that Mr. Jia could not leave his mother 24 hours a day. He spent every second of the day.
All kinds of things were done under the control of his mother.
At that time, Mr. Jia no longer had the tacit understanding that he wanted to be like his father when he was a child. He looked very gentle and gentle, gentle and nice, and looked very gentle. He did not look like a very affectionate father.
Playing. At that time, he already felt that his father was simply not qualified and had completely lost his responsibilities and obligations as a father. In his opinion, his father was really absent. At this time, he forgot about his mother.
Because I am with him every second of every day
, and the relationship between parents is not that deep. When two people stay together, the atmosphere at that time would be awkward if they were separated for a long time. Therefore, when he was young, no one in the family wanted his parents to have a serious problem. But at this time, he
He just thought that his father had no other responsibilities when he was growing up. He didn't think that his mother actually took over from his father and fulfilled the roles of both father and mother. It can be said that his mother devoted all her time to him.
The contribution made to him was the contribution of two people.
And when Mr. Jia finally passed the imperial examination and was proud, he felt as if he had remembered everything for decades. His father who had been there for more than ten years suddenly appeared in front of everyone, and was praised by those people.
While looking after his family, many people also complimented his father. They were flaunting or praising his father for his good teaching. At this time, Mr. Jia felt very ridiculed. After all, in his opinion, his father had never interfered.
When it comes to educating oneself, the most important thing is that he will care about his own life when he is young. Of course, when he gradually becomes sensible and realizes the value of learning, his father will not be able to care about him even in his studies or life at this time, and his mother will not even care about him.
He was disciplined more strictly, so in his opinion, these words of congratulations and words of praise should be attributed to his mother, instead of like now, where his father bears all the glory in front of everyone.
Of course, after Mrs. Jia married his wife, he felt that his father was actually pretty good. After all, he didn’t hold him back or find any trouble for him. Don’t think that Mrs. Jia’s little tricks can really make a difference.
Hidden from the shrewd father and son of this family, everyone knew about the two of them, but no one responded. This matter is both big and small.
Yes, after all, it's just a friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It can't even be called an argument or fight. It's just a unilateral attempt to crush the first-in-law daughter-in-law and try to beat her mother-in-law. Such a thing is your own wife's own daughter-in-law.
It has been handled very well, and there is no need for them to intervene at all, but the father and son really saw every move of Mrs. Jia's family clearly.
And just because he saw everything about his mother clearly, as an adult in the family, he felt a little disappointed. His mother was really old, and his mind was not clear anymore. Unlike when he was young, when his goals were clear, his mother was heading towards
We have been working hard towards that goal and have never slacked off at all. At that time, the mother and son, or the whole family, had the same goal, so the mother can be said to be a very important role in the family.
But it happened that it was his mother who gave him problems when he finally found a way out in life. At that time, of course he was still very disappointed with his mother, but he could already understand that she was a woman after all, and since she was rich
, then if you can work hard to study by yourself when you think about it, this in itself is already more knowledgeable and broader than most other women. In fact, other people feel that Mrs. Jia’s performance after extravagant expectations
Accepted it calmly,
It’s just that since then he has recognized his mother. After all, she is just a mother. In the past or when he was rational, his emotions still prevailed. At that time, he suddenly felt that he
His father became close again. After all, his father and he were foreigners. Anyway, in terms of ideas, ideological policies, etc., the two hit it off. They did not need to communicate at all, and they had already put profit first.
Played to the extreme.
At this time, his family felt that his father was closer to him. Thinking of his father's absence when he was young, he quickly found someone and found a very powerful excuse for his father. Of course, his mother was normal, that
At that time, my mother could be said to have taken on everything, so that my father didn't even have a chance to show off. This situation naturally occurred when my mother unilaterally disciplined me when I was young.
Of course, at this time, Mr. Jiang also believed that he was extremely talented. He probably didn’t have to endure so much hardship when he was young, so he naturally wanted to be a good person. However, he felt that when he was young, his parents and mother’s requirements for him were not high enough.
It's really too strict.
Anyway, the family's feelings towards their father and mother are very complex and changeable, and it is also in such a changeable situation that they can still maintain a stable framework and keep everyone in order.
Complete their own affairs and participate in the internal affairs of the family without being known to outsiders. At home, my grandfather and Canada
Sir, the two of them worked together to establish a good reputation for the three of them outside. He is the kind of person who respects that person and admires him, so he never asked. For Mr. Jia, this is
He was extremely lucky, after all, his family knew about his family affairs, and the Yin Yinyan in his backyard was not so easy to get rid of.
Well now, I want people to find out again that the wife I married is a very correct thing. Although this thing has disappointed me in the past, it is obvious that I was discouraged. One night, I guess it was because I was dazzled or...
Does Shenyang himself have any objections to the two of them? Of course it is impossible for him to have any objections to himself. He has never offended anyone, so he is willing to
It must be my fiancée’s natal family. It’s not my new wife’s natal family that has offended others, so that they put makeup on the bride in such a horrible way. Alas, Mrs. Jia has seen it once, and she never wants to see it a second time.
, but in fact, my wife is pretty good-looking, and she looks very attractive from a certain angle. The most important thing is that her figure is really good.