Chapter 1900: Self-esteem, a self-reliant mother and the beauty of human nature
Although "A Bowl of Yangchun Noodles" is mainly used as a promotional video for "Entrepreneurship".
However, most of the people watching are ordinary people, so the direction and angle of interpretation are naturally very different.
For example, the famous female writer Liao Yan focuses on women's self-esteem and self-improvement.
“The most admirable thing about the entire short film is the mother’s self-esteem and self-improvement!
Let’s talk about mother’s self-esteem first.
We saw that when she ordered noodles for the first time at a noodle shop, as a mother, she even timidly asked at the door: "Can I have a bowl of Yangchun noodles?"
The same thing happened the second time, and the same thing happened the third time.
She was always worried. Why was she worried?
I believe anyone can see it. From the language used in these interviews, we can see that this woman behaves timidly and shyly, and her hesitation in speaking reflects the poverty and embarrassment of being in a poor position.
People are afraid of being looked down upon by the noodle shop owner. The woman only wanted a bowl of noodles for three people, which made this woman feel ashamed to speak out, but she had no choice. The shy wallet made her feel a kind of inner embarrassment and shame.
This is a concentrated expression of women's self-esteem.
What is even more rare is her courage. I believe that, including me, we all ask ourselves, if we put ourselves in her shoes, would we have such courage?
When we go to a restaurant to eat and our family orders a bowl of the cheapest noodles, do we have the courage to ask?
I personally don't really have that kind of courage.
But the mother here, although she was anxious, hesitant and timid, she still spoke bravely.
Even if it's just this, she deserves everyone's respect.
Of course, self-esteem alone is not enough. If you want to change your destiny, you also need to strive for self-improvement.
Let's take a look at this woman's current situation and situation.
As a woman, her husband has died and she has no one to rely on. She also has two children who have not grown up. Her husband also owed a high amount of debt during his lifetime. This is simply unimaginable for a woman. The sudden death of her husband,
It did not knock down this strong woman. She survived the misfortune and still took on the responsibility of raising and educating her two sons. She also took on the arduous task of paying off her husband's huge debt. This mother relied on herself.
After working hard, the debt was completely paid off on New Year's Eve of the third year.
She didn't sigh, complain, or rely on others. She relied on her own hard work and finally paid off her debt. Her spirit of self-improvement is really touching.
No, it’s not just touching, but many people in our era lack this kind of perseverance and self-improvement in the face of adversity.
Finally, the most shining point is her honesty and trustworthiness!
Although she was very unfortunate, she did not act like a rogue. Instead, she still paid off her husband's debts and was very particular about credit. This is an image worth learning from for many rogue people.
We often see words circulating on the Internet that it is the uncle who is in debt.
Many people even take pride in not paying back their debts. Why should I pay back the money I borrowed based on my ability?
This is really a very sad thing.
Failure to repay debts is a sign of bad faith. When will bad faith become the object of praise?
As a mother, she also has to raise two children and educate them. I believe that when she does this, she must also consider the two children.
Follow the example and teach by words and deeds.
From the woman's body, we can also see her outstanding qualities of hard work. She endured the suffering of debt for many years and did not buy a piece of clothing for many years, but she worked very hard and diligently in the company, so she got the special honor of the company.
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Even so, she still abides by her responsibilities as a mother and educates her two children well.
The two children were obviously well educated by her, and both are very sensible. The younger one buys vegetables and does housework, and the older one sells newspapers to supplement the family income. The two brothers are very friendly, very united, very sensible, very hard-working and honest, very capable and full of filial piety.
Very strong, full of ideals, highly motivated, very brave, and grateful.
Eating noodles for the first time, the two brothers ate with their heads touching, but they did not forget their mother, and they did not complain because they could not eat a bowl of Yangchun noodles that was not enough on New Year's Eve. On the contrary, they had
There is only contentment.
In their third conversation over noodles, we can see how friendly and united the two brothers are. They both love their mother very much, so in the words of their mother, "The boss delivers newspapers every day to make money to support me, and Xiaobao every day
Buying vegetables and cooking helps me, so I can work with peace of mind... so now I can pay off all my debts." After the brothers listened to their mother's words, the younger brother said, "Okay! Mom, brother, from now on, we will cook every day.
Leave the matter to me." Then my brother said, "I will continue to deliver newspapers. Brother, let's work hard together!"
These are really two sensible brothers. Although they have their own qualities, I prefer to believe that it is a great mother’s education through words and deeds that makes them so sensible.”
Some people also interpret the beauty of human nature from "A Bowl of Yangchun Noodles".
One film critic wrote:
"I have watched "A Bowl of Yangchun Noodles" several times. Every time I watch it, I get different emotions. I am touched by people's truth, kindness and beauty. It is not easy to be cared about by strangers.
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In fact, to sum up, there are three pictures in the entire short film that impressed me the most: the first picture shows the mother and two sons being timid and embarrassed when they went to place an order at a noodle shop three years ago; the second picture shows the proprietress trying to order three bowls for them.
In the third picture, fourteen years later, the noodle shop still reserved the seat where the family sat in previous years. This is a
Simple love, a warm heart from a stranger.
I have developed the habit of walking fast since I was a child. I think this habit makes me more vigorous and resolute, and my self-confidence will rise several levels.
Once in the past, I walked for a long time in high heels, and the skin on my heels was already worn out, but I still kept the same speed painfully. On the subway, I was reminded by a gray-haired aunt that my heels were worn out. And he was willing to give up his position to me. At that moment, I clearly felt that my heart was touched by something. Is it kindness? Is it warmth? Or is it the beauty of human nature?
Later, I slowly learned to slow down my walking speed, and I also learned that self-confidence is not determined by walking speed, but by inner determination and calmness.
Later, when I saw people of similar age to that aunt, I would subconsciously think of that kind-hearted and beautiful aunt. When I saw someone wearing high heels, I would habitually check to see if the heels were worn.
So every time I see someone giving up my seat, I will naturally think of the warmth of a bowl of Yangchun noodles. Let a seat warm my heart. Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, so you should show more love and warm your heart, even if it is just one Even a small thing can clear away the cold corner of your heart."
