Chapter 1,334 The tenderness of this life comes here first
The media also gave many high praises.
""I Love You" shows the true meaning of love. The most immature thing is seeing each other at dawn, and the most shining thing is each other at dusk!
It turns out that the happiness of the elderly is also so simple. After Jun Feng called his children home when his wife was seriously ill, he said to his wife: "You gave birth to them with pain in your stomach. There are really many of them, right? Wife, you
Thank you for your hard work." I couldn't stop crying. Looking at the expression on his face and the care he took for his wife, I was really touched. Such old age love is worth celebrating and reflecting on.
When the children grow up, they each start their own families and then leave the home where they were raised, gradually neglecting the warmth of their parents. Because he loves his wife, he sees clearly the impatient look of his children, and becomes less courageous.
When he couldn't stay alone in this world and face the long-term loneliness, he chose to end their lives and meet again in the next life.
I love you, it’s not that difficult to say three words, and it’s that simple to truly love you. When you are tired, I will help you rub your shoulders; when you are sick, I will protect and take care of you; when you are gone, I will
See you again in the next life." - "Film Weekly"
"There is not a word "I love you" in the whole film, but it tells the whole story of love. Their love is not defeated by the regret of not getting married, but by the boredom of finally getting married. You still understand that love is not a temporary thing.
Impulse is not a feeling. It is a process and a responsibility. The weight of a lifetime is on it. Even if it has thousands of forms, when it comes to death, it will just say "I love you". By then, we will not
The love for each other should be weakened because the end of life is approaching, but should be used as a reminder that time is limited, and we should cherish each other even more, even if the beauty is fleeting and the hair is freckles, and the black hair is turning into snow." - "Southern Weekend"
The front page headline of Penguin Entertainment's movie section is the review of "I Love You".
"Song Weiwei was used to collecting rags at night. She had no identity and no children, and lived alone. Her candle-lit soul did not dare to long for "being loved." He and the old man Jin Wanzhe were both lonely people, and they were separated in the first half of their lives.
After enduring hardships and grinding for the rest of their lives, in the not-so-good years, the two of them began to covet the worldly togetherness. And our young generation, with tears in our eyes, watched them start at the end of their lives.
Love seems to see the reality of "mutual support".
Old Man Jin said: People say that anything that passes by can be fate.
This is a love story about two pairs of elderly people who are nearly 80 years old. Through giving and receiving love, they show their romantic, sad, plain and touching dusk love. In the movie, the old milkman Jin Wanxi and the milk delivery man are in love.
The shabby old woman Song always met each other in the early morning on the same uphill road every day. Gradually, the old man fell in love with this lonely and unknown old woman. But this love came too late, and they were not attached enough to live alone.
The taste of love is about to last a lifetime before your eyes.
Jin Wanzhe, who had been stubborn for most of his life, was unable to be gentle to his wife when she was still alive, and lacked respect for love. For the rest of his life, he left a lot of guilt in his heart. And somewhere, he always met the Song family.
As if looking back at his wife, Jin seems to begin to believe in fate. He will surprise her like a young man buying a hair card for a girl, take her to dinner like a date, show off a pair of gloves given to him by Song, and he will always be there.
I look forward to meeting Mrs. Song before the mutually agreed time... Maybe he is repenting for what he has done, or maybe he still has the ability to love in the rest of his life. And I choose to believe the latter without hesitation.
These every move seemed ordinary but luxurious for the rest of their lives. I dare not ask the length of time when I love someone. I am afraid that if I ask, you will dislike the time that I have been with you for not long enough in this life. Later, he named Song "Song"
"Only". "Only", the old man interpreted it as: Song is his only one. So even his name became the object of love for Old Man Jin for the rest of his life.
Facing illness and death is something that every generation of old people understands. But their ability to love will never be lost due to life and death. I think it is like in the movie: Song Weiwei has no culture, no name, old and poor,
But the hard-spoken and soft-hearted old man Jin has been expressing his love in a way she is familiar with, using painting instead of writing to express his feelings to Song Weiwei. When Song Weiwei got close to him, he began to enjoy it like a child
"like".
Compared to Jin Song, Zhang Junfeng's wife's name did not appear in the film. Have you ever wondered whether it has a profound meaning? Now that I think about it, it is indeed the case.
Because she actually represents a group, the Alzheimer's disease group!
Before the lonely Song met Jin, he was humbled into the dust and never thought when flowers would bloom.
But another pair of loved ones, the parking lot manager Zhang Junfeng, has been protecting his wife with Alzheimer's disease, but in the end his wife became terminally ill and was in constant pain. Zhang Junfeng's heart was as sharp as a knife. Seeing you in pain makes my whole heart break.
. He chose to light coals in his room and wait for daybreak to end their lives.
But this pair of people who should not be alone, they raised their children. When the children grew up, they moved away from home one after another and started their own lives. They all vowed that "they will come back to see us often in the future." As a result, they
In middle age, people still ask for their parents' savings and fail to fulfill their support obligations. This big family still seems silent and sad in the end. Sure enough, the movie is not only expressing love at dusk, it also wants us younger generations to express their love through their parents.
Love, see your own shadow.
Therefore, Zhang Junfeng's wife has no name in the film, because she may represent a group.
When parents die, all that is left in life is to go home. I read many people's comments on this film and found that what made everyone cry was "forgotten". This is reflected in the demented wife: although she loves her husband, she often admits that her husband is wrong.
I accidentally slipped out and forgot the way home, but I clearly remembered the memory of walking home with my husband, drawing a starry sky on the wall with a windmill.
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The way to return to childhood innocence. Loneliness, togetherness, and illness are all the current conditions that Dusk Love has to face. The lovers have spent one life and are greedy for the next life. Zhang Junfeng said that he has been cowardly in front of his wife all his life. He is a coward. He is afraid.
Leaving him alone in the world, this movie captures the greatest weakness of human nature - love. We grow in love and leave in love.
When we are seventy years old and recall what love will look like, I think it may be that I have gray hair and wrinkles on my face, and I can no longer chase two people, and then I stop and go, making do with it all my life.
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I couldn't stop crying after ten minutes of the movie. The old man Kim Man-cheol was also recalling love. Before his wife had a chance to drink the milk, he poured the milk on his wife's grave, hoping that he could use his gentleness for the rest of his life to gain her understanding.
Song Weiwei had an unfortunate marriage, and she lost her son and never got married. She was also a coward, and she was afraid of the pain of love even after being alone for most of her life.
In Zhang Junfeng's yellow love story, he told his wife not to wet her pants and not to sneak into unfamiliar places. He carried his lost wife home on his back, held her hand and asked her, "Old lady, are you still willing to be with me in the next life?"
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They had no time to continue their tender life, and they had no time to share stories about each other's first half of life. These regrets meant to them: this life is enough. The end of the movie uses a dreamy form to outline the distance, with Lao Jin riding a motorcycle and carrying his
The only thing that crossed the wheat field, climbed over the valley, came to the sky, and secretly went to heaven under the dots of stars.
As the saying goes: A young couple stays together until old age. This film is dedicated to all the parents in the world. Our generation spends very little time with our parents. As for the love of our parents, these two elderly couples spend the rest of their lives interpreting
Love is not a momentary impulse, not a passion, it is bravery, it is responsibility, it is spending most of your life, and you have to hold each other's hands tightly before death. And the so-called fate only means that you and him will live together in this life.
In this life, we are constantly looking at each other's backs in the distance, gradually drifting away, but he uses time to tell you: Some love needs no words." - Penguin Entertainment (movie version)
There are many people who like this movie, but the reasons why they like it are different.
However, they all have one thing in common, that is, they were all moved.
Some people may think it is overly sensational, but this is an excessive request.
If you just click on it, some people will say that it is not touching at all.
This is a movie! It’s always hard to agree on.
No matter how well-made a movie is, it can never have zero negative reviews.
The so-called zero negative reviews are only relative.
However, a good movie can often trigger discussions and trigger topics.
"I Love You" is undoubtedly the case.
Some netizens wrote: ""I Love You" is a very special film. You may say it is realistic, but in fact many places and details in the film are not so real.
There are very few characters in the film, which is obviously not realistic enough.
Of course, perhaps because of this, the story of this film becomes particularly clear, without so many complications and trivialities of life.
At the same time, it makes people feel real, because the story is very small, it is a love story of four ordinary old people, living in daily life;
The scene described is also very small, as small as a few sparse streets and the corners of a few depressing rooms;
At first glance, you may think that the circle of life is too narrow. But when we think about our reality, our parents, grandparents, when they reach that age, their circle is actually very small and narrow, or in other words,
very lonely.
In fact, the way the film tells the story is also very small, as small as a pair of leather gloves, or as small as a date schedule with a painting as a letter.
But it was this small thing that made me feel the truth and made me cry and my eyes turned red. Just because the warmth they gave me through this movie was enough to support me through any loneliness and coldness, but still believe in the power of love.
This is a story about the dusk love of old people, but unfortunately, it is also a story told to us.
The film tells two love stories, one in the ongoing tense and the other in the present perfect tense.
But the story of these two elderly couples depicts the love ideal of all young people: "hold your child's hand and grow old together with your child."
In fact, as the netizen above said, this is a love story about the elderly, but it is also a story told to people of previous generations.
Because everyone gets old!
There are many lines in the movie that make people cry inexplicably, such as what Song Weiwei said when he looked at Zhang Junfeng's back staggering away with his wife on his back. "I want to grow old like this too!"
Some netizens wrote: "When you get married, you swear an oath: no matter whether you are rich or poor, no matter health or disease, no matter the good times or bad times in life, when the other person needs you the most, will you never leave her forever?
The answer from all the newlyweds at that time was yes!
But how many people can actually do it?
In this way, the story of Zhang Junfeng and his wife seems so touching, because he did it!
It is said that there is no filial son before a long-term illness. Is this not true for a husband or wife?
Because at that time, she had forgotten the roads we had walked together, the sea we had seen together, and the promises we had made together, and she would become like a 5 or 6-year-old child. She couldn’t button up, couldn’t eat, and couldn’t even go to the bathroom.
It has become so difficult.
There is a picture of a smiling and happy family on the table.
At that time, we were not too old, and the children were completely innocent. The girl still cuddled in our arms and acted like a baby, saying that she would never leave us for the rest of her life.
At that time, you were smiling so hard that you almost couldn't even see your eyes.
In fact, why don’t we understand?
Why don’t we understand how long a lifetime is?
The children eventually moved out of our small hut one by one, with different but basically the same reasons.
The dining hall, which had always been a bit crowded, was now so empty and lonely.
Maybe it's because people are more likely to be lonely as they get older.
You slowly become unable to remember anything and can't do anything, just daubing on the wall with crayons stupidly. I think it's okay if you can't remember.
When you were young, I made you suffer too much, had too many worries, and made you feel too guilty. Now you have forgotten everything, but you still remember me.
Then, let's spend the rest of our short lives leaning on each other...
Honey, I'm really a coward. Without you, I'm afraid I won't be able to survive.
You leaned on my back and opened your arms to embrace the cherry blossoms with a smile like the spring breeze. I can still see it when I close my eyes. Until now, I can't imagine that one day you will not be here.
I'm really sorry for not treating you well when I was young.
So, old woman, the tenderness in this life is here first, and we will meet again in the next life.
I don’t know why, but it was suddenly easy to assume the role of Zhang Junfeng. In fact, I have always felt that there is no tragedy in this film. It is really a very complete story, a very beautiful story.
The reason why I am moved to tears is not because of sadness, but because it is love!
Zhang Junfeng and his wife fulfilled their vows when they got married, but that was another beautiful fantasy for Old Man Jin and Old Mrs. Song."
