Chapter 1548 Thank you for passing through my life
In the small screening room, almost everyone's eyes were red.
Of course, some people find it difficult to calm down.
There is no way, this is my mother, she works hard without complaining, never cares about gains and losses, and giving becomes everything to her.
She worried so much about this family, and what she hoped to receive was only trivial care, but before she fell ill, she never received it.
"I cried so hard. Most of us were saying I love you, Mom, and at the same time doing everything to make her sad!"
"The greatest thing about a woman is that she spends her whole life draining her youth, pressing it into shriveled flower buds and hiding it in the family's memory album. The family watches her grow old and wither, but the fragrance has been deeply imprinted on this woman.
Every corner of the home. But I hope that, women, you don’t just know how to give, you should also live a good life for yourself!"
"It's only when you look carefully that you know how beautiful it is, and when you taste it long enough, you'll know how cute it is." In the first half of the process, I still felt that the rhythm was not well controlled, but as expected of director Li Yi, he has this kind of ability, and he made the subject matter that even he complained about so impressive.
You shed tears. Even though you know everything is foreshadowing, and even though this type of movie is extremely stereotyped, in the end, you still feel that the tissues at hand are not enough. You have experienced so much that you don’t know where to start. I think everyone will have this after watching it.
It’s a different emotion.”
"I know clearly that this is definitely a vulgar story, with keywords like family, love, loss, and cherishment indispensable. But I have the ability to make it look good and make you feel sad. This is the skill!"
"Although the film has already guessed all the foreshadowing of the future function and the ending from the very beginning... it is still hit by extremely sensational crying points one after another!"
"As expected of you, Director Gou, I want to cry every time my mother calls. This is maternal love. The principle of not traveling far away when your parents are here suddenly feels so important. Director Gou's movies have always been perfect in handling the emotional aspect, even if
You are very upset, even if you think it is not worth it for this mother, but if you think about it carefully, if every mother thinks about whether it is worth it, then maybe they are not mothers anymore!"
"I couldn't hold back my tears and kept crying. Especially when I saw my wife and mother-in-law crying together. Director Gou's movies sometimes hit people's hearts directly. Although you know what the plot is, you still can't stop crying.
I still shed tears. I hope that God can bring health and happiness to the people I love. No matter how beautiful the farewell is, it is just farewell. Although I will face it one day in the future, I hope that I can cherish them while I can still cherish them.
, be a person who cherishes happiness.”
"The mother took care of the whole family, but didn't know how to take good care of herself; the father saved countless patients, but couldn't save his wife; the daughter fell in love with a married man, but some truths can only be understood after being hurt; the son mistakenly thought he was his girlfriend
He is worried about being pregnant, but time will make him grow into a responsible man; his mother-in-law suffers from Alzheimer's disease, but she used to accompany her daughter-in-law all the time, and always left her her favorite things; his brother eats, drinks, whores and gambles, and is too harsh on his wife
, but he also has a gentle side. Every family has its own difficulties, they have shortcomings, selfishness, and faults, but they will always be a family. The whole family will live happier because of their mother's care. One day
They will also have the ability to care for others."
A well-known female film critic said directly that she watched the movie with tears in her eyes and wrote the review with tears in her eyes.
""The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World", to be honest, at first I thought something was wrong with Director Li Yi this time. It starts with a series of family dramas. Everyone in the family seems to be indifferent to the mother who is working hard for the family.
It makes people feel extremely sad to see it.
But I cried through it.
Several places that left a particularly deep impression.
At first, did you think that such a family member was a bit exaggerated?
But gradually, I suddenly felt that this might be true!
Let’s talk about my younger brother first. At first, my mother said, “Teach me how to use computers.” He said, “Let’s talk about it later.” Mom knew that she was sick and about to die. She asked again, and he said, “Let’s talk about it next time.”
I remember these two lines very clearly, next time, every time I say next time, maybe there really is no next time.
Let’s talk about my sister. She fell in love with a married man. How distressed her sick mother would be when she saw her daughter’s so-called boyfriend’s family laughing. “Should we wait for him to get divorced?” She looked at her smart sister but she was still childish.
.I learned that my mother would grow up overnight after her death. When I made that phone call, I held back tears. I cried too. Who would treat you like a treasure? It’s your parents.
As I write this, my mind is in chaos. The tears can’t stop falling. Maybe it’s because of me, my brother, my parents, and this movie made me cry non-stop. When you were sleeping in, your mother was preparing breakfast, washing
The clothes do everything they need to do.
While you are reading, playing games and surfing the Internet, your mother is still busy.
When you go out to have fun with your friends, it is your mother who is worried and silently waiting for you at home!
Mom, who is it? She is the mother who keeps crying when she sees you feel a little uncomfortable. She is the mother who keeps crying even before you cry. She is the mother who holds your cold feet in her arms when you come back from playing wildly at night.
Mom who said when she was not going down that I would be at ease as long as you were happy.
We often go on dates with friends, girlfriends, and boyfriends, and we can always spare a lot of time, but we have never thought that when we are with our mothers, we are often impatient and want to leave, no matter how much we say.
Both sentences make me feel nagging.
It seems that everything is taken for granted, you are a mother!
My brother’s words have always made me unable to let go. He said, how could my mother die?
Thinking of this, my heart skipped a beat. Yes, we have never considered that one day our mother will leave us!
We always enjoy all kinds of care and benefits from our mother with peace of mind, but what we give her in return are the hostility and grievances accumulated outside.
But I never thought about it, what if my mother passed away one day?
Thinking of this, our hearts are extremely blocked. We ask ourselves whether we have ever ignored our mother like the children in the movie? Like they did, turning a blind eye to the mother's request, even if it is a trivial request? We feel that her concern is superfluous.
nagging?
Regarding the role of the mother-in-law in the movie, I believe that for some reason, I really hated this mother-in-law at the beginning, especially the part where she takes off her clothes and runs and asks her daughter-in-law to chase her. The background music at that time made me cry anxiously. Later, I also
I understand that for fifteen years, I have taken care of my mother-in-law who has Alzheimer's disease for no other reason than her mother-in-law played the role of a mother after her own mother died.
In fact, we have all noticed the "bad" side of this mother-in-law, the unreasonable side, and the fierce side, but we have never noticed that she is actually the person who treats her best in the family.
Although she is demented and has a bad temper, she is the only one who stays with her and gives her what she thinks is the best.
Until later, the mother covered her mother-in-law with a quilt and said, "If I die, who will take care of you? Then you die with me."
Seeing this scene, I admit, I cried, and I couldn't stop the tears.
She is not only worried about her family, but also worried about her mother-in-law.
Because if she is gone, she knows that no one will treat her mother-in-law as patiently as she does. Fifteen years! How many fifteen years are there in life?
But she took good care of her mother-in-law, and she even had the strength to hit her.
But if she is gone, will her husband, son, and daughter take good care of her mother-in-law?
The mother-in-law will only become a worry for them, and at the same time, no one will be able to take good care of her.
Living is really not as good as death!
I was relieved when my mother-in-law stuck out her tongue. We all forgot that she had Alzheimer's disease! But she kept her daughter-in-law's words in her heart.
When you are awake, you have to leave even if you bite off your tongue.
But the cruel thing is that she didn't even have time to bite off her tongue, and she quickly became confused again.
We ignore too many things, too many things that are usually seen everywhere, and because of this, we take them for granted.
All movies can teach us is to cherish the words of the person in front of us. Only those who have experienced parting will release themselves at every tear point.
Our lives are like this. In an unchanging environment, we get used to the existence and dedication of the people around us. Just like the plot in the movie, the mother has been caring for her mother-in-law attentively for decades, and she has been talking about her husband and children.
, are regarded as repeated every day, and no one will care about the elderly with Alzheimer's disease, because there is a mother in all of them.
Yes, no one would think about what they would do if they didn't have a mother. No one would think like that.
So, let’s talk about the husband!
He can be said to be the first family member to know about his wife's condition.
Perhaps he is the one who suffers the most. He once took everything for granted and was an old married couple. Of course, love has long since ceased to exist. The only thing left is family affection, so he ignores it and enjoys it as a matter of course.
His wife brought everything, but when he woke up, he suddenly found that this home was so difficult to manage, his mother was sick, his children were ignorant, and of course, as a doctor, he was powerless to help his wife. He finally woke up
, he began to do his best to make this woman who took care of the entire family live a beautiful life.
Why is he the most miserable?
Because he missed the most! Guilt, heartache, and regret filled his heart.
What makes him even more desperate is that there is really too little he can do for his wife!
The daughter was in pain. When she needed the married man's care the most, but couldn't get it, she also woke up. The one who loved her most selflessly at the moment was always her own relatives. Who else would she count on?
But the price of this growth is too expensive!
It was too heavy, so heavy that she couldn't bear it!
The most cruel thing about the movie is how seamlessly it combines life and drama. You will wonder whether you will experience such a dramatic life one day!
It makes people wonder whether one day you will be so deeply in love with a man who calls someone else's wife that you can't look back; whether there will be a day when you marry a cowardly and taciturn man who treats you wholeheartedly but always ignores you.
You; will one day you have to face the aging of the elderly in your family alone, and are helpless in the face of their foolish and crazy looks; will you have a young and ignorant son who will not care about your warmth and health; will one day
If the trivialities of life have polished away the poetry that life should have, will you leave with regrets one day?
There are always regrets of one kind or another in life, leave when there are no regrets, and live hard when there are regrets!
I have read many reviews of the mother in the film, all of them saying that this mother is not worthy, but I have thought about it repeatedly, how would I feel if I were her?
I think I must feel lucky in my heart, because in the countdown of her life, someone is willing to protect her, her mother-in-law will care about her pain when she is awake, and my daughter gave up the person she loved deeply and withdrew from other people's marriages.
, her son also learned to appreciate the warmth and warmth of human relationships, her younger brother no longer lived a decadent life, and she died in the new home that her husband had personally decorated for her!
And we always ignore the most precious family affection in ordinary days, always forget that we play the role of lovers in love, and always forget that friends who accompany you through wind and rain also need a hug.
One day we will pay the price for our carelessness. If God is merciful and gives you a limited time to be gentle with your lover, but if God is ruthless, you cannot avoid living with regrets throughout your life. Of course, regrets will not always be there, it is just
You will be reminded from time to time.
The title of the movie "The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World" may have two meanings.
The first type is the most widely recognized type. In the last period of life, the ignorant son or daughter who was once worried finally became sensible.
Although the price is that we will never see each other again, for the mother who has devoted her whole life to this family, she can feel at ease.
The second type is what I personally think. She has been living for her family all her life in this world, and she is very tired.
When she was young, she might have dreamed of a married life, but obviously it was completely different from what she had dreamed of before!
So what my husband said, I think, completely echoes the title.
That is, she can finally leave this tired world and go to a world where she can live for herself, where she no longer needs to worry about the family, prepare everything for her husband, and go to a world where she can live for herself.
Serving a demented and difficult old woman, she doesn’t need to worry about her ignorant children, so for her, this may be the most beautiful farewell, right?
Let’s talk about the unexpected feeling while watching the movie. In addition to the normal tear-jerking plot of family love, there was an unexpected scene. She looked at her mother-in-law sleeping and wanted to suffocate her with a quilt. She cried and shouted, Mom, I
Who will take care of you after you die? Don't drag your son, grandson, and granddaughter down. Come die with me! The whole family who was woken up rushed up and stopped her. It was really desperate at that moment...
In fact, when I watched it, I thought that death would be a relief from all the suffering she endured on a daily basis!
I believe many people will have similar thoughts to me, right? So this is also the second most beautiful explanation for parting.
But later I realized what an evil idea this was! For her, these were not hardships at all. Even taking care of her mother-in-law satisfied the motherly love she lacked. She wanted to take care of and love her husband and son to the end. This was why she did not
A life of abandonment.
I just hope that we can all be well, healthy, together, and enjoy such a short life as soon as possible!"
