Chapter 1549: When it’s too late, I say I love you!
The film "The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World" is full of controversy, as Li Yi and Mu Qing thought before.
One film critic wrote: "This movie did not move me or impress me.
The main line of the movie has always been from the perspective of family and family members. In other words, through the movie scenes, we know her as a mother, as a daughter-in-law, as a wife, and as a sister. We know her gentleness, her kindness.
Tired, her conscientiousness, and then let us see the family finally learn to cherish in the face of loss.
So, what about her herself? She will also be afraid of death and cry late at night. What then?
As an individual, has she always longed for happiness in the future despite hard work now? Has she never seriously examined her life? When she learned that she would die soon, what did she think about her life?
What are your thoughts?
After taking care of her old and mentally retarded mother-in-law for 15 years, does she really not hate her mother-in-law? There is nothing else she wants to do more in her heart, such as leaving home and her family to do something she has wanted to do her whole life, but she is held back by the responsibility.
Bound to do things that cannot be done. Do such hatreds, such pains, and such dreams really exist?
Until the end, she worked conscientiously to contribute to her family, worried about her family, and was a good wife and mother until the end, dying without any regrets. Is this a real human being?
The most beautiful farewell in the world, why is it beautiful? Is it because of the high concentration of family affection in the last moments? Is it because of the sudden awakening of her family members? So her happiness still depends on others? The movie does not allow her to exist as an individual, from birth to
Even in death, she is the carrier of various responsibilities, but she has forgotten her responsibilities to herself.
There is a scene in the movie where she was in extreme pain, hugging her mother's white sweater and calling out for her mother. At that moment, she was also a child, a child seeking the protection of her mother, a child who passed away in a flash. It can be said that this
The scene is the most exciting scene in the entire movie.
But what I want to say is, please stop praising mothers, mothers really can’t bear it!
They are also human beings, and they also need to have their own pursuits, not dedication, dedication, and dedication!
I hope there won’t be too many mothers like this, just a little less! Let mothers also have a wonderful life, instead of being focused and paid attention to until they are terminally ill like in the movies!
Mother is always associated with great selfless dedication. If my mother scores 90 points, she still just passes, and if my father scores 60 points, he is a good man.
My mother comes home from get off work non-stop every day, not daring to take a break. My father has to sit in the car pretentiously before going home every day, saying that only these ten minutes are his own time.
Stop praising mothers, lower the standards of mothers, let women take a breath and give women some freedom."
Of course there is controversy, there is controversy, there is support and there is opposition.
"I don't understand why such a movie is made. To a certain extent, the three views of this movie are a bit wrong, right? Should a mother serve the whole family like a cow or a horse?"
"But mothers like this are everywhere, right? Just because the movie is made doesn't mean that the director agrees with this environment. I think it's more about making us pay attention to it!"
"Yes, I wish there were more movies like this. At least, after watching this movie, the first thing I felt was a deep sense of guilt!"
"We are always like this. When we see a movie like this, we feel that we shouldn't make such a movie, but we ignore that the scenes shown in the movie that make us uncomfortable are happening all the time.
, but we never paid attention.”
"The movie is very well shot. In fact, we can find our own reflections in many things. I remember that my mother does not know how to use a mobile phone. Every time she calls and asks how to check this, how to check that, I am always impatient, and
What’s the difference between the naive son in the movie?
This is not an isolated case, it is common!
How many people don’t dislike their mother’s nagging when she calls to express concern?
How many people are so well cared for by their parents, but they always bring home the hostility from outside. What they give us is love, but what we give them is resentment!"
Du Xianghai also wrote a long review specifically for "The Most Beautiful Parting in the World".
"For some movies, you may be afraid of spoilers, but for some movies, you don't need to worry about spoilers.
This is the case with "The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World". In fact, after seeing the title and the promotional poster, we can generally guess what the ending of the movie will be.
It can be said that this film is not innovative in terms of its subject matter and story structure.
Some people say that a movie like this is hard to put down, and yes, it is true.
But because of this, I hope there will be more movies like this, because the disturbing stories captured in movies are everywhere in reality.
This can be said to be a movie that reflects the phenomenon that exists in today's society.
Let's sort it out from the beginning.
First of all, the movie mainly depicts the life of an ordinary but great mother. The family struggles to move forward between conflicts and communication. The plot presents various emotions such as warmth, laughter, tears, and touching.
I have to say that the beginning of the movie is very beautiful. The hands belong to the heroine, the mother. She is pressing flowers and making various dried flowers to make them into handicrafts. However, when the camera turns, the dried flowers seem to be attached to
On the wall, the story of this family is told.
The mother's appearance with a painful face paved the way for her to be seriously ill. Then, the family members who did not let her worry also came online one by one.
Her mother-in-law suffered from Alzheimer's disease and needed to be coaxed like a child, played hide-and-seek, and fed. She was very willful. However, the heroine never lost patience with her and has been taking good care of her for fifteen years.
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Fifteen years! We can imagine that an old woman with Alzheimer's disease can continue to live for fifteen years! This is really not an easy thing!
It is said that there is no filial son before a long-term illness, so we can imagine that the daily life shown in the movie is the daily life that this mother has been repeating for fifteen years.
Moreover, she took good care of her mother-in-law, so much so that she even had the strength to run around and hit people!
Let’s talk about her son. He is hearing-impaired and needs to wear a hearing aid. He was supposed to study hard and go to college, but his girlfriend told him that she might be pregnant. He panicked for a while and had to ask his mother to help solve the problem.
I think many people can feel this, right? Many times when we do something wrong, who is the first person we think of asking for help? It’s our mother!
The daughter fell in love with a married man and hid it from her mother. In order to spend more time with her lover, she refused to eat with her mother. However, her mother eventually found out.
The younger brother is addicted to gambling, gets drunk all the time, and cannot keep any money from the family. The heroine, as the elder sister, secretly subsidizes the family income of the younger brother and sister, and persuades the younger brother and sister to promise that she will always stay with the younger brother.
Seeing now, we can know that the heroine is very kind, but her life is very difficult. She protects her family, but does not receive reciprocal love. However, she is still ignored by her husband. As a doctor, her husband treats her
He didn't care about the test results and pretended to sleep on the subway. Facing the woman who took care of the whole family, he even felt a bit chauvinistic.
Don't think this is very uncommon. Perhaps together, these are indeed very special and rare, but if any one is isolated individually, it can be said that many people can find the shadow of themselves or the people around them in it.
The turning point of the movie came faster than I expected. As a mother, she was diagnosed with terminal bladder cancer at this time. When she found out that her mother was about to die, the attitude of everyone in the family changed...
People often learn to cherish something when they are about to lose it.
The son and daughter became close to their mother again, the daughter gave up on the wrong love, and the son’s girlfriend was not really pregnant; the younger brother lost his scorn when he learned that his sister secretly left insurance for him; the mother-in-law showed up in a rare moment
When he is awake, he loves the heroine; and his lover carefully builds a greenhouse for him and plays the guitar when he is about to leave, which is very romantic.
Fortunately, this is a good farewell story. The heroine finally left peacefully, and the family's life continued in an orderly manner, feeling happy. We also know that not everything can have a beginning and an end, although it cannot be saved.
But we cannot be pessimistic, let alone give up. Love is the most powerful force that affects everything. In the end, what is left is the love of the heroine...
The best partings are often the most heart-wrenching. People long for a quick trip, but they dare not face the departure of their loved ones. "A child wants to be raised but his relatives are not here" is an old saying that has been circulated for many years. Cherishing the people in front of you is the most important thing.
.No matter what time, our family is always by our side and supports us unconditionally. Only by not forgetting our original intention can we always succeed. Don’t leave your best temper to strangers!
Let’s talk about some of the scenes in the movie that most easily make people feel that they are intertwined with reality.
"Son, when will you teach me how to use computers?"
"talk later!"
"Son, can you teach me how to use computers now?"
"Tell you next time!"
But when is the next time?
Maybe it's not computer learning, maybe it's just mobile phones, or something else, but we are often patient and even proactive with other people, but we are always harsh with our mothers and are unwilling to give even a little time!
Don’t quibble, don’t excuse, ask yourself, do you really not have it?
"Let's go have a meal together. Let's go to that noodle shop in front. Let's have a bowl of noodles together?"
"Go shopping by yourself and then go back!"
To be honest, when I wrote this, I suddenly burst into tears, thinking of my deceased mother!
Thinking about it carefully, after working, it seems that except for holidays, I rarely eat with my mother, let alone eat out!
What about you? How long has it been since you sat down to eat?
"Such symptoms can be cured by taking some medicine, and you don't have to go to the hospital."
This sentence is very cold, but it is also very realistic!
I think many people should think of it, have you ever treated your wife in this way?
In the movie, if she was not really suffering from a terminal illness, I think her husband would still be the same!
Therefore, don’t think that the movie is too disappointing or too unreal. On the contrary, the movie is really real, because this movie should be easy for people to relate to their own lives. In fact, we love our families very much.
, it’s just that sometimes you use it in the wrong way. Now, will you be gentler and gentler to the people around you? Maybe your words can make them happy for a long time. What is really needed is not the most beautiful parting, but the long-lasting companionship.
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Go watch this movie when you have time, feel the power of family love, and release your emotions in the increasingly autumn days!
After watching it, tell me how long you cried!"
"Yeah, I suddenly remembered that the last time the water heater at home broke down, my mother called me. I just made a warranty call impatiently, and then ignored it! After watching this movie, I called
I asked my dad on the phone and he said that actually my mom just missed me! She cried on the spot!"
"To be honest, it feels like this movie is like a mirror.
I remember one time when I went home for a holiday, my mother cooked a whole table of sumptuous meals. However, an old classmate suddenly called me and asked me to go out and have a party, so I agreed without saying a word!
But I never thought about how disappointed my mother must be at that time!
I really don’t deserve to be a son of man!”
"There is no most beautiful farewell in this world, it is all lies.
The ignorant daughter is entangled with a married man, the son who is going to college has made his girlfriend pregnant, the husband who is a doctor never cares about his wife's illness, the mother-in-law with Alzheimer's has tortured her daughter-in-law for fifteen years and is addicted to gambling.
Ru Ming's younger brother quarreled with his younger siblings every day and relied on his older sister for support and even said bad words to each other.
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.She has been making breakfast for the people living in this house for thirty years, but no one wants to eat it. She has taken care of her Alzheimer's mother-in-law for fifteen years, often beating and scolding her and running out to pick up garbage if she is not careful.
When my mother-in-law dropped the dog poop-like persimmons all over her body and covered the house, she cried and complained that she couldn't survive. She was on the hospital bed with an IV drip, and her biological brother ran to the ward and yelled at her for money.
, when he scolded her for being stingy and stingy, he clenched his teeth and was speechless, but he still gave him his medical expenses.
For such a woman, in the eyes of an outsider, her life is really terrible. No one cares about the hard work of the family she manages, because the family members she loves and cares for are spoiled, and they are used to accepting it.
I don’t know that the woman who nags and talks softly every day can also feel pain, she can also get sick, and she can also die.
People will always realize how precious they once had it after losing it. Love, this word, you are very stingy when you can express it. When you miss someone but have no chance to say it to them, you will
I found that I regretted it so much that all the words and tears were of no use. This loss means that there will never be another chance, forever.
The husband built a greenhouse for his wife in their new home, and the flowers bloomed even in winter. The son painted a portrait for his mother, who smiled brightly surrounded by flowers. The daughter cut off contact with the married man and hugged her mother.
Send flowers to mom. Everyone thinks that a woman likes flowers, but in fact, she has no research on flowers. Just because her mother-in-law likes them, she buys everything decorated with flowers.
She has never lived for herself, or perhaps she lives for the people she loves, and they are the whole meaning of her life. She is the most beautiful woman in the world, and she also has a great name: mother.
Some people say that you should stop praising your mother. I just want to say that you are too one-sided. It is not because of your praise that your mother will change. It is not because she will feel unhappy because of your difficulty. In fact, many times, we
Things that seem difficult to deal with, in the eyes of my mother, are everything to her!
Because she is a mother! Therefore, all we can do is to be filial and accompany them!
