Chapter 759: Maternal love is never an excuse to deprive others of their parent-child love.
Compared to the controversy that divides movie fans and critics on the Internet, the media's overall reports have given good reviews.
""Dear" is a tear-jerking film that may not necessarily make people cry, but the heaviness will directly poke into the soul!" - "Film Weekly"!
"The down-to-earth style, the sad process of losing a child and finding a child are all very real. Following Tian Wenjun's pain of losing a child, his hatred for human traffickers, and the happenings of Li Hongqin, the trafficker's wife who loves her child deeply and does not want to be separated from her.
Reversal: The end of one tragedy leads to the occurrence of another tragedy.
Every character is deeply emotional, whether it is Tian Wenjun and his wife Lu Xiaojuan who are looking for a child, or Li Hongqin who secretly takes care of their older child, or Han Dezhong, a man who is full of stories looking for a child, they all have many stories and their own personal experiences.
Helpless, this also makes the entire "Dear" welcome the climax of the characters anytime and anywhere. The movie may not be perfect, but it is already the best among similar domestic movies!" - Penguin Entertainment
""Dear" probably made a lot of viewers cry, but after watching the movie, you will find that it is not just a bitter tear-jerker. It is a bit sad, and it may not necessarily make people cry, but the heaviness will directly poke you.
The soul; some hope may not necessarily make people laugh, but there will always be a ray of sunshine falling on the eyebrows inadvertently. "Dear" is such a movie. As the lead actor Lin Yunbin said, "This movie has a hand, which is
Reach deeply into your chest and touch your soul." - Cool Cat Entertainment.
""Dear" was released on Children's Day. This is indeed a story about children, and it is also a movie that hopes that all children in the world can go home. However, this is not a movie for children.
, but a movie for countless parents to watch!" - Jingnan Evening News.
However, despite its good reputation and mostly positive media reports, "Dear" is not a traditional commercial movie.
From the perspective of tragicomedy, "Dear" is not an outright tragedy, but it is definitely not a comedy either.
Despite this, this movie is still inevitably criticized by some people!
Because the movie "Dear" touches on an extremely sensitive topic: Do the wives of human traffickers have rights and are they qualified to have children?
Although in the plot of the movie, the trafficker's wife Li Hongqin did not win custody rights in the end, the topic was indeed brought up.
From a moral perspective, whether Li Hongqin knows it or not, she is always the wife of a trafficker. There is no doubt about this.
Although legally speaking, there is no such thing as implication anymore, in fact, privately and morally, implication is still unavoidable.
Therefore, no matter how you justify yourself, Li Hongqin will still be criticized by many people.
A more objective person might say that Li Hongqin is the only warm color in the film.
Because she treats children who are not her biological children no worse than her biological children.
This again involves a kind of nurturing grace, but there is a prerequisite for this, that is, Li Hongqin must be an ignorant person.
However, the movie does not have a very clear explanation of this aspect, so does Li Hongqin know it or not?
Of course, anyone with a brain knows that "Dear" cannot really glorify human traffickers.
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The first-day box office of "Dear" was not particularly high. The first-day box office of more than RMB 60 million was actually pretty good for a realistic-themed movie.
But this is obviously not the performance of a commercial blockbuster.
Although after the movie was officially released, there were more and more related discussions and comments.
But the box office is still not as high as everyone imagined.
Once the movie is released, the publicity must keep up.
Especially for some controversial points, some responses are also needed.
For this reason, Mu Qing, Li Yi and others, together with the creative team, once again appeared on Jingnan Satellite TV's "Movie Things"!
First of all, I was asked about the plot about the case being filed within 24 hours.
"First of all, this is really not a fabrication. Although we may be the only place in China that does not require 24 hours to file a missing person case. However, please note that the timeline of this movie is in 2009. According to our report from the Son Searching Society
I know there were many people who reported the case as soon as possible after their child was lost. Some places did file a case as soon as possible and helped find the child, but in other places, it was just like in a movie.
Among them, there are time requirements.”
"The movie tells it like this. We really don't mean to mislead everyone. On the contrary, we hope that through the movie, everyone can discuss and pay attention to this common sense! Of course, if something like this really happens, you still have to call the police as soon as possible.
Yes, because the times are progressing, the shortcomings of the past have now been greatly improved!"
"Just like this plot, which only took 24 hours to register the case, it aroused everyone's discussion and heated discussion. I think it is a good thing!"
"Then what do you think about the movies on the Internet that glorify human traffickers?" Fang Nan inevitably asked this question.
"How can this be?"
"We made this movie because we hope that through this movie, more people can pay attention to the issue of anti-trafficking. As long as the movie is released, one more person can pay attention to the anti-trafficking issue. When I usually encounter beggars on the road,
, it can be thought that they may be abducted children. If they can lend a helping hand, there will be one less abducted child in this world, and parents in this world can find their children, even if they find more.
Come and get one, I think it will all be worth it!”
"At first, I had some doubts about the role of Li Hongqin, and I also considered whether it would be misunderstood, but in the end I decided to take the role because the prototype of such a person does exist in reality!"
"Our original intention is to hope that the world can have fewer such horrific transactions. Li Hongqin seems to represent the wife of a human trafficker, but in fact, she represents countless families who 'buy children'.
The children you bought are the darlings of others, they are Tian Wenjun and Han Dezhong!
No matter how much you love your children, it can never be used as a reason to take away other people’s children!
Maternal love is by no means an excuse to deprive others of their parent-child love, but similar crimes are common in our society!
Therefore, no matter how heart-wrenching Li Hongqin's experience is, she cannot avoid this crucial question: "Do you know or you don't know?"
At the same time, I am also telling those who buy children that no matter how many reasons you have, you cannot avoid that doing so is illegal and is based on the pain of others.
We have seen a lot of news. Some children have been lost for a long time. When they are found, they only adopt their parents and do not recognize their biological parents. Many people think that nurturing kindness is greater than giving birth to kindness, but they forget that standing up
From the perspective of the biological parents, it’s not that they don’t support them, but that they have been deprived of this power. The source is wrong!”
