After this issue of "Movie Things" was aired, the effect was indeed there.
Just like Mu Qing said, aren't Li Hongqin's experiences particularly similar to those parents who were found by their biological parents after buying a child and raising it for many years?
But no matter how good it is to the children, it is first based on the pain of the children's parents.
This also sparked a lot of discussion.
"If there is no sale, there will be no harm. Buying a child is a crime. Is there anything to sympathize with?"
"It is the deep maternal love that can be sympathized with, not their behavior."
"It's impossible for a real human trafficker to keep a child by his side, right? So from the perspective of buying a child, it's really similar!"
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However, it is not always Daliu who discusses these more profound and contradictory issues.
With more viewers and more movie fans, they actually won’t think so much.
What most fans discuss the most are some details about the movie itself.
For example, there is a very popular comment thread on the popular film review website: "What details in "Dear" moved you?"
There are many comments from fans below.
"After the child went missing, three people reported the crime and came out of the police station. Lu Xiaojuan walked to the front, turned around and slapped Tian Wenjun on the face, trying to vent her inner anger like a shrew. At that time, I looked blinded and thought about the child.
Lu was at least 50% responsible for the disappearance. If she hadn't paid attention to her son behind her while driving, her son would not have left his friends and chased her so far away. He would not have ended up on the road because he couldn't see his mother's car.
He was taken away by a stranger at the corner of the street. Tian Wenjun silently endured his ex-wife's silent scolding.
Later at the mutual aid meeting, after the parents who had lost their children delivered inspiring and generous speeches, Mr. Han asked the newcomer to speak. Tian Wenjun pretended to be relaxed and introduced that his career was in decline, his family was broken up, and his son was abducted. The only thing in his heart was
The support collapsed. At first, there were calls from scammers, but there was still some hope. Gradually, there were no more calls from scammers. When it was Lu Xiaojuan's turn, she remained silent and there was a dead silence. When Mr. Han saw this, he had to give up. He was originally going to
At the end of the mutual aid meeting hand in hand, Lu said hoarsely: "I'm sorry, I lost the child." He emotionally lost control of himself and recounted the cause of the incident. His lips trembled, and he slowly squatted down, folded his arms and cried bitterly. At that time, I couldn't bear it.
Our eyes can't help but get red. When something bad happens, we always subconsciously look for an outlet to vent, and afterward, we will fall into deep self-blame!"
"It's strange that when I watched the movie, even though many plots touched me, what really moved me and couldn't help crying was the time when Tian Wenjun went to take out the trash and thought of his sleeping son.
Come back and pick him up! This shot looks very simple, but it makes me want to cry. He is too scared, too afraid that he will throw the garbage back and lose the child! And this kind of mentality, I am afraid that
It will be with him for a long, long time to come!"
"What touched me the most was that Lu Xiaojuan told Tian Peng that he would take his sister home if he was willing. At that time, Tian Peng glanced at Lu Xiaojuan and silently held her hand. Lu Xiaojuan was so excited at that time
The emotion is beyond words. How humble does a mother have to be to be so excited that she bursts into tears just because her son takes the initiative to hold her hand? Maybe this is the greatness of maternal love!"
"Mr. Han, at first, Mr. Han didn't even feel like a father who abandoned his child. He seemed very powerful, but he was the first to betray the rule of "no second child".
, after the child disappeared in a safe, closed, and guarded mansion, a mutual aid meeting was established. In the end, only the Tian family child was found, but he had not been able to find it after six years of searching. He wanted to have another child, but was asked by the Family Planning Bureau to provide his son.
He was not angry because he could not issue a death certificate, but because the death certificate meant that, to some extent, he was allowed to let his son "die" with his own hands! He
I already feel like I have betrayed my son, but still asking him to issue a death certificate is the greatest cruelty!"
"It was also Mr. Han. At Tian Peng's birthday party, there were many guests and friends, many of whom were parents of the mutual aid association. Mr. Han stuffed Tian Peng with a big red envelope, publicly apologized to everyone, and announced the news that his wife was pregnant. At that time, everyone was in a low mood.
, this is tantamount to the team leader announcing that he has given up on searching for his son, which can be said to be a collapse of belief.
Tian Wenjun quickly calmed everyone down and said that this was not a bad thing. He led everyone to clap their hands to encourage and encourage again, and then sang "Invisible Wings", which relieved the awkward and dull atmosphere. As everyone sang, Mr. Han drank a glass of wine.
, kissed Tian Peng hard, warned him not to run around, then left the banquet, ran to a place where someone was alone, and cried sadly. Being helpless and helpless must be very desperate, and no one knows
, how long will this helpless despair accompany him."
"Yes, when Mr. Han appeared for the first time, he said firmly: "The children we lost are irreplaceable. We must not give birth to another one. We must keep looking for them forever."
In my opinion, Mr. Han has done a lot of good deeds, whether it is uniting everyone or releasing animals, all to "save good luck" for himself, hoping to find his son this morning. But unfortunately, after several years,
, there was still no clue about the child, but Tian Wenjun found Tian Peng, which completely shattered his faith. Everything he had done could not withstand the cruelty of fate. Therefore, Mr. Han and his wife decided to have another baby.
Mr. Han went from opposing rebirth and insisting on getting the child back to giving up looking for a son and deciding to have another child. It was actually an extremely painful compromise. He personally extinguished the fire of his belief and even made the decision to let his son go.
The decision to leave one's own life, a white-haired person giving a black-haired person, is nothing more than that!
When I saw Mr. Han crying in despair and pain, I was really..."
Rather than discussing Li Hongqin's crime and punishment, the vast majority of the audience would rather discuss such details.
The box office of "Dear" was not very high, but its popularity has always been high.
Probably because of this, depression and despair are naturally resistant to people, which is why it is often difficult for this type of movie to achieve much commercial success.
However, Li Yi and Mu Qing are quite satisfied with the response to "Dear".
At least, after the movie was released, more and more people are paying attention to the fight against trafficking, and many people on the Internet will spontaneously forward those child-finding notices.
Maybe what happened to Sun Bin was just a miracle that had a very small chance of happening, but at least, it really happened.
