Chapter 443: I was cheated of tens of millions of monthly tickets]
Nowadays, as long as there is a blind date event, there is no fear that no one will come to the blind date. Opposite Chen Shi sits a fashionably dressed woman in her early twenties. She does not look like a blind date, because with her figure and appearance, it is impossible.
But a boyfriend.
"Hello, are you here for a blind date too?" Chen Shi asked.
"Yeah, why should I sit here if I don't come on a blind date?" the girl asked.
"Oh~ Hello, my name is Chen Shi. Do you have any requirements for a blind date? If it's suitable, we can continue chatting." Chen Shi saw the timer on the table. Each table can chat for ten minutes. If ten minutes are up, everyone will
If you think you can continue chatting, you can turn off the table lamp on the table. If it is not appropriate, when ten minutes are up, you can leave by yourself and the lady will continue to stay at the table.
Just now, Chen Shi saw that this woman had rejected two men, so he wanted to see what this girl wanted and what she wanted.
This kind of blind date, which lasts for ten minutes, has no nonsense. It just starts by asking each other what they want and what they have. To put it bluntly, it is a trade negotiation. Don't play around with lust here. What you want is simple and direct.
"Requirements include a bachelor's degree or above, preferably from a first-class university, a monthly salary of about 20,000 yuan, a house of no less than 120 square meters, a house of your own that cannot be lived with your parents, no mortgage, and a car of about 300,000 yuan, which is enough for a family car.
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I don’t have any bad habits. I’m over 175cm tall and my body should not have a belly. That’s about it. By the way, don’t have any debts. I have a balance of more than 200,000 yuan on my bank card.”
Chen Shi nodded frequently and said: "The requirements are not high. You are a simple girl. I was defrauded of tens of millions yesterday. I am very sad. I didn't expect to meet such a kind girl like you. I am 183cm tall and have the same figure as you."
Come here and give it a try. I have abdominal muscles. I didn’t lie to you. What’s your academic qualifications? It’s not a first-class university. Lakeside. Have you heard of it? I just went through the employment procedures. Look, you can check this.
As for the house? It’s really difficult for me to buy one unless I sell the houses elsewhere. I tried hard to drive a car worth more than 300,000 yuan, and sold all the Ferraris. As for the balance, this 200,000 yuan
I don’t think I can achieve my goal in this life, unless I donate all the money, otherwise I won’t be able to spend 200,000 yuan a day in my life.”
"Haha~ You are pretty good at blowing." The woman directly interrupted Chen Shi.
When Chen Shi heard this, he said with a puzzled look on his face: "What's so big about this? Look at the parking lot on the road outside. There are no cars around my car. I'll do a magic trick for you to transform it.
"Chen Shi took out the car keys, and the hardtop convertible of the more than 7 million Ferrari was raised.
The girl looked at it, then looked at Chen Shi and said, "Are you really what your name says?"
"Yes, I am an honest person, otherwise I wouldn't have been defrauded of tens of millions."
"I just like honest people. My parents asked me to find an honest person." The girl said with a smile.
Chen Shi looked at the girl and said, "Tell me about you? You are so beautiful. I was surprised when you came here."
The girl raised her head and said: "Don't think I'm so good-looking. In fact, I have never been in love. Many people think that I have been in love. Many boys think that I have a boyfriend and stop pursuing me. In fact, I don't."
I am now starting a business on my own with a few friends and have opened a company, mainly engaged in Internet marketing. I am 21 years old. I usually like reading books, listening to music and traveling. I am not a person who is greedy for money. Mainly, I think that if two people get married in the future, they will be together.
I am a relatively traditional person. My family has always advocated that men take charge of the outside and women take charge of the house. So if I want to be a full-time housewife, then I will have no financial resources. If the other half has a low income, then the children will be wronged. You are right.
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"Yes, you're right." Chen Shi nodded frequently, and felt a little dissatisfied in his heart. She said such words in such a high-sounding way. She introduced herself and avoided the important, reminding her that she had never been in love. Believe it or not, Chen Shi
I really don’t believe it, not for anything else but because the nail cap of her middle finger is a little discolored.
Also, she said that she and others started a business and opened an Internet operation company. As mentioned before, anyone can start a company now as long as you register it, and the registered capital is a subscription system.
As for Internet companies, now anchors are also called Internet companies, and micro-businesses are also called Internet companies. In short, anything connected to the Internet can be called an Internet company.
Finally, and most importantly, she did not mention her academic qualifications, which already proves that her academic qualifications are definitely her weakness.
If a matchmaker introduces this kind of good-looking girl, he will usually introduce someone with similar conditions to her. Whether she is the second generation of rich people or the first generation with good conditions, the first condition for finding a wife is to be virtuous and virtuous, and virtuous and virtuous women correspond to being able to manage a household.
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Beautiful beauties and harsh words can be obtained by spending money, but girls who manage the household well cannot be obtained easily by spending money.
What does housekeeping mean? The sound and literal explanation are basically different from what everyone understands, because times have changed. Nowadays, housekeeping means keeping a home in order, just like taking care of a product.
It's the same as starting a company.
Generally speaking, the cheating rate among the rich second generation and the young founder generation is not as high as everyone thinks, because these people care more about their family. For example, if they are pregnant, it is best for their wives not to play with their mobile phones, but to listen to music and write and play.
Play the piano to maintain health, etc.
Let the child have a kind of artistic and literary influence in the belly. After giving birth to the child, you can go to the confinement center and then go home and hire a nanny to help you share the labor work.
But the child's education is the most important. For example, if you don't know English and send your child to a bilingual early childhood education class, the child will not be able to communicate with you, and you won't know whether what you learned in school is correct.
You also need to have strong self-control. For example, you should not hit or scold your children when you are angry. You should reason with your children. You cannot play with your mobile phone and watch TV when your children are studying. It is best to read with your children.
You also need to set up a very correct value system for your children. You can basically handle everything at home by yourself. If you have money anyway, you won’t call your husband because the toilet is clogged. You can just ask the property management company to come over.
In short, these seemingly simple points are basically impossible for many people. This is why many wealthy people like to find daughters-in-law from scholarly families, because the self-control and values of children born in such families are excellent.
Incomparable to ordinary families.
Either find someone who is well-matched, everyone has basically the same conditions, or as I said, if your own conditions are average, then if you want to marry into a rich family and marry a rich and beautiful woman, the final outcome is that even if you marry the other person briefly, you will get divorced soon.
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For example, the second young master of the Li family married a certain actress. The woman gave birth to three sons to the man, but they still divorced. The man paid 500 million to the woman, but the price the woman paid was to leave the Li family and have nothing to do with the Li family.
Because the Li family and all the big families have the same idea, they are afraid of the transfer of family property. To put it bluntly, they are afraid that the woman's family will rely on the man's family to rise in the future. The prerequisite for the rise is that the assets of the man's family must be converted into part of the woman's family.
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For example, relatives and friends of the woman's family will work in the man's family's company or ask the man's family to help arrange a better job. This requires using the resources of the man's family. Most of the rich second generation and people from ordinary families get divorced after marriage.
this problem.
It's not like two people are living together, it's more like a supply relationship. Have you ever seen a supplier that can always supply people for free?
Therefore, it is not right to be in a bad relationship. If you cannot manage your family properly and only think about asking for money, then you are not living a life together, but you are withdrawing money for free.
Generally speaking, a well-matched relationship means that neither party needs the other's supply. It means that two people can live a good life and help each other. It is a long-term strategic cooperation, so there will be few problems.
A typical well-matched family is Mr. Jin Yong's family. Not only does Mr. Jin have a cousin named Zhimo, but Mr. Jin also has a cousin named Xuesen. There is also Mr. Zhong's family. The family is full of outstanding people, and there are many more like this.
What should I do if I don’t belong to the right family? For example, if a man acquires a daughter from a wealthy family, he must have a lot of knowledge and can use his knowledge to realize a long-term cooperation with the other party, and then help the woman’s family to deal with the problem.
A lot of tricky stuff.
Knowledge = money. If you say that a man is very capable and courageous, dares to fight and fight hard, what will happen if he marries a wealthy daughter? He will also be kicked away, because courage and ability are not based on knowledge, then
It's just a matter of luck. If you are lucky, you can help the woman's family solve some problems. If you are not lucky, you may cause some problems.
The woman sitting opposite her just wants to come to this kind of blind date place to find someone who meets her conditions. In fact, most of these blind date programs are just for fun or people who are not pure-hearted.
There are also some people who really don’t have a social circle with the opposite sex, or who are asked to come here by their families when they are older. These people, regardless of gender, have one thing in common. They have basically a bachelor’s degree or above, and have a stable employer. Because of their age,
, basically thirty and above.
If you have a stable job, have a certain amount of savings, and are pressured by people around you, you may choose to marry alone. This type of person is the target of many people who are not simple-minded.
Why is it said that the academic qualifications are not low? The simplest thing is that most people finish their studies in their twenties. Some graduate students may not graduate until they are twenty-four or five years old. Those who study for a Ph.D. may take three years to get a job.
It was a relatively stable situation. The first three years were basically all about work and there was little time for socializing or entertainment.
Three years later, when the work has improved slightly and I have to face more work tasks, because I want to go higher and get more, this period may take another three to five years.
Wait until everything is stable before going on a blind date. People of this age are basically very sensible and far-sighted. Most of them will not like them. Those who do like them are also very demanding. After a delay of two or three years, after that,
At thirty, I am anxious, and so are my family members.
The last thing I thought about was to find someone who was similar enough to get married. The one here would be enough for me to live with.
So the age gap is getting bigger and bigger now. For example, if a man is thirty-two or thirty-year-old and has a stable career, but he knows that he can’t find his ideal type, then he should find someone who is good-looking and good-looking, regardless of your academic qualifications and family background.
Yes, it just looks good.
Most good-looking women are under the age of twenty-five. It’s as simple as that. The woman wants a stress-free married life, but those of the same age are either second-generation rich or have little savings.
Most of the rich second generation have a playful mentality, and finally choose older single men. After these people get married, the man basically becomes a free supplier, coaxing the woman, the father-in-law, the mother-in-law, and even the child.
When you reach a critical point with your children, you will collapse and get divorced.
In the end, half of the property is divided between the woman and the woman, and the woman does not want the children. It will be difficult for the man to remarry, and it will be easy for the woman to find a new wife.
It sounds cruel, but the reality is cruel, and marriage is even crueler. Unless one party chooses to ignore the other party, he or she knows that you are not doing well, but for the sake of the children and the family, I tolerate you, but I have ignored you in my heart. What do you want?
, I will try my best to satisfy you, if you have never discovered your shortcomings.
I will work hard, and when I really get ahead, I'm sorry, our marriage should end. I can choose a better one and have the ability to give better things to my children and parents. You can leave. The other party will be older at that time.
They are older and dare not leave. Then the roles are reversed. The one who originally tolerated is venting his unhappiness, and the other who originally had no worries about food and clothing has to tolerate it. This is no longer a family, but a venting one.
Places are the most harmful to children.
After thinking about it for a while, I looked at the girl opposite. She was younger and a little prettier than the average girl, and then there was nothing special about her.
"What do you think of me?" Chen Shi asked.
"It's more in line with my criteria for choosing a mate," the girl said.
"Did you say your name?" Chen Shi asked.
"Oops! I'm sorry, I forgot to mention, my name is Wang Zhenzhen, dear Zhen." Wang Zhenzhen said.
Chen Shi looked at Wang Zhenzhen and asked: "Do you have any requirements for marriage? For example, a bride price or something. I'm not young anymore. I'm a straightforward person. I want to get married if I think it's suitable. After all, my family is urging me to get married."
, and then the son inherits his father’s business, and my parents also want to retire, you don’t think I’m weird, do you?”
Wang Zhenzhen looked at Chen Shi, rolled her eyes and said: "No, I can understand the mood of my uncle and aunt. After all, my parents are urging me like this. The bride price over there is usually 88,000 yuan. My best friend is getting married.
The betrothal gift is 131,400, and our family does not have high requirements for dowry."
"It's really not high. I can see that you are a more traditional girl. I particularly like traditional girls. I think the auspicious number is not as good as 666666 yuan. My mother likes the number 6. Our family is also relatively traditional and pays attention to traditional virtues.
For example, in ancient times, it was very normal to pay a lot of money to marry a wife, but now many men are so fussy about the bride price, which I can't stand." Chen Shi complained.
"You're right. I can't stand the fact that many men nowadays are so jealous of women just for the sake of dowry gifts. I think those men deserve to be single." Wang Zhenzhen complained. The tables next door suddenly stopped talking, and some boys had expressions on their faces.
Embarrassed, some girls felt that Wang Zhenzhen was right, and they listened to the conversation between Chen Shi and Wang Zhenzhen.
Chen Shi smiled and said: "Yes! I think the same as you. As for it, isn't it a natural thing to give a little gift? But in ancient times, a lot of money was spent on marrying a wife. The person you married was a perfect body. The eight-carriage sedan chair carried a lady from all over the world. The Ming matchmaker was marrying
Marry someone who is virtuous and virtuous, hire three matchmakers and six hires, and hire someone who is knowledgeable and sensible.
I think you meet the above criteria. You are completely different from those vulgar fans. Those women will say that I am responsible for being beautiful and beautiful, and you are responsible for making money to support the family. If you say this, then they are not good-looking, and men can't
Should I get a new one? If their value is their appearance, then appearance also has a shelf life. You are right, you are not the kind of girl who relies on appearance to win. You give me the impression of a girl with substance.
In my eyes, you are both talented and beautiful, possess traditional Chinese virtues, and have the side of an independent woman in the new era. For example, I think girls now around the age of 25 should have at least 7 or 8 million in savings, and at least
I have half a million, but I am not realistic. I think girls and boys should work hard to make money if they don’t have money. How can they fall in love without money? Although money cannot measure everything, youth is precious for both boys and girls.
I think you are definitely not the kind of girl who is unwilling to spend money on boys. When I first saw you, I knew that you are the perfect girl I have been looking for for a long time.
The girls are completely different.
Those girls who are unwilling to spend money on boys must not love that boy. Nowadays, all the boys are so handsome because of their money. A pair of good-looking sneakers often costs four figures, and an earphone costs tens of thousands.
You can't buy good-looking skins in the game with money, so if a girl likes a boy, she should spend money on him. Boys' youth is so precious. After thirty, they are no longer little puppies and little brothers.
Now that he is an old man, he is now an uncle.
I have a younger brother who celebrated his 23rd birthday a few days ago. His girlfriend gave him a discounted Shuangfeiyan. A girl like this can’t even bear to give it to my younger brother with a mechanical keyboard. How can she say she likes and loves my younger brother?
Ah, do you think so?"
Wang Zhenzhen~ was speechless and confused, and the girls around her were silent.
Chen Shi continued: "My brother is a twenty-three-year-old boy. Youth is so precious. You must not waste your time on girls who are not worthy of it. She is not willing to buy skin for my brother. There must be other girls who are willing to buy it for my brother."
She collected all the game skins, but she was reluctant to give my brother a mechanical keyboard. There must be other girls who would turn my brother's house into a game arcade. My brother told me not to be deceived by some girls' sweet talk. A girl loves you and won't let her go.
Spending money on you means I don’t love you.
There are also some boys who are shameless. Before they get married, they actually go to the Judgment Document Disclosure Website to check whether the woman has ever been involved in a lawsuit. They also go to the Enforcement Information Disclosure Website to check whether the woman is a swindler and has not paid back the money. They want to use it to let the man get married.
Pay back the money, I can't stand these boys. Marriage is so sacred, we need to trust each other.
Finally, some boys went to the corporate information disclosure website to check whether the woman had opened a company, and also checked whether the woman’s company was open for business and whether there were any risk warnings. What do you think? It’s just a few marriages. What do you think I gave you?
Can you accept the bride price? If so, let's sign an agreement and go get a premarital check-up.'
Wang Zhenzhen suddenly stood up and said, "I'm sorry, I have something to do. I have to go back first and make an appointment another day."
Chen Shi looked at Wang Zhenzhen leaving and shook his head. It seemed that she was a girl who did not want to spend money for boys. She had not yet met the standard of being married by a clear matchmaker. In an instant, the boys in the blind date meeting straightened their backs, and many boys went to check.
I visited those three websites and wanted to know the information about the girls across from me.
"Brother, have you really been defrauded of tens of millions?" asked a young man at the table next to Chen Shi.
"Isn't it true? I made the mistake of visiting the tomb. I was deceived by the mausoleum administrator and lost tens of millions. Fortunately, I responded in time, otherwise I would have lost at least several billion."
