Xiao Qian became the focus of the wine table, and even Li Qingjue sat quietly, wanting to see what he could say.
To be honest, the entertainment industry in this era is immature, causing these celebrities to be confused and unable to find their own position.
They face many challenges in career, life, relationships, fame, fortune, etc., and are often confused.
Since we trust Xiao Qian immensely at work, now when it comes to other aspects, everyone is willing to listen to Xiao Qian's opinion.
Up to now, no one in Xingguang dared to ignore Xiao Qian because of his young age.
This young boss has created miracles one after another, and his achievements have surpassed those of countless others.
His words can be regarded as sound.
Seeing that everyone was serious, Xiao Qian was also pleased and tried to make his words as easy to understand as possible.
"You are all celebrities now, standing in the spotlight. The man is handsome and the woman is beautiful. Naturally, countless people will flock to you. This is reality and cannot be changed. Even without this second generation, there will be other self-consciousness
Great people are coming to you. This is what you have to accept and there is nothing you can do to stop it."
Not to mention these celebrities, not even Xiao Qian can stop them.
He is not the great Luo Jinxian who controls heaven and earth, but he can also control people's romance, marriage and children?
In fact, although entertainment companies have a strong restraint on artists, they are sometimes helpless.
Just like what happened to Sulli and Goo Hara in their previous lives, the agency behind them saw it, but what could they do?
It's not that I didn't think of a solution, but I could only watch the tragedy happen step by step.
Ultimately, the only way to avoid this situation is for the artists themselves to become stronger.
"Because you are celebrities, you are in a different social level. Therefore, the people who can get close to you must also be people with certain abilities, status and wealth in society. These people don't care about their quality, at least they can
The things they showed were completely impossible for ordinary people to do. And it was these things they showed that had great appeal to young girls like Sister Yuxin, Sister Xinran, Sister Dahua. On the contrary, Qi
Sister and Sister Wen will not be like this. Do you know why?"
Her three little girls looked at each other, really confused.
Qu Qi chuckled and explained to Xiao Qian.
"Wenwen and I are older, and we have experienced everything we should have experienced. We have loved passionately, been hurt, and have seen through everything. Besides, we are having a prosperous life now, and we can survive even if we don't rely on others.
It's delicious. So, those who gathered together
The guys around you who constantly show their kindness to you and give you brand-name gifts are nothing to us. They are just some sneaky dogs. You don’t really think that they really love you.
, will I live with you forever?"
These words were too straightforward, like a sharp knife, which made Selina blush and feel ashamed.
She really wanted to retort, but luckily she still had sense and knew that what Qu Qi said was right.
But is that handsome guy who always appears in front of him driving a luxury car really that kind of person?
Xiao Qian didn't tell her directly whether it was yes or no, but just like chatting, he spread some things to everyone.
"The second generation is a very big group, but it is actually divided into two parts. One part, like the guy who pursues Sister Yuxin, relies on the energy and shadow of his family to feel that he can do anything.
, developed an arrogant and arrogant character. Such people have no dreams, and they do not have any goals in life. They just regard eating, drinking and having fun as their daily routine. When they see a beautiful girl, they will directly
Throw money at people who are unhappy and beat them up directly. Anyway, there is someone behind them to tell the truth, so they are not afraid of anything. Maybe one day they will cause a huge disaster and completely destroy themselves. Or they will spend their whole lives in a haze of ignorance and drunkenness.
You celebrities, most of the time, you meet the second generation like this. Because they are the only ones with the money and leisure to come over and tease you."
Xiao Qian took a sip of water.
"There is also a kind of second generation who are very ambitious and self-motivated. They are not satisfied with the help provided by their families, but use this help as a boost to pursue higher goals and achievements in life. In this way
As long as they are not stupid, the second generation has great advantages.
The situation will rise to a height that you can't even imagine. And such people are more focused on their own careers. They disdain the entertainment and entertainment in society. Therefore, you will never see such people.
I don’t even bother to interact with you.”
Finally, Xiao Qian made a summary.
"If you observe carefully, you will find that the people who often appear around you are either second-generation idlers, wealthy businessmen, or officials with a little power. The reason for their appearance is also very simple.
Because you are beautiful. They regard you as the object of their beauty hunt, hoping to use your desire for success and fame to achieve their goals."
The more Hebe listened, the more frightened he became, and he even broke out in a cold sweat.
"Could it be...can't we find a lover we really like?"
Xiao smiled lightly.
"The world is so big, how can you not find it? The only difference is that for celebrities like you, the success rate is not very high. In fact, it is not easy for ordinary people to find someone who truly loves each other. Just ordinary people
Because they don’t have enough wealth and freedom, they have to consider more practical issues and therefore make more compromises. Their love and marriage may not be perfect, but they are compromises.
It is enough to be able to maintain it. But you are different. After your mental state has been tempered, you are actually a little bit obsessive. This will make you demand more in love and marriage. There will be a little difference between the other party and reality.
Any dissatisfaction will be infinitely magnified by you. This is also the fundamental reason why celebrities and entertainers have so many emotional ups and downs, and breakups and divorces often occur."
There was silence at the wine table, everyone was savoring Xiao Qian's words carefully. But they found that this seemed to be the reality.
The love and marriages of celebrities and entertainers are not without consummation, but there seem to be more misfortunes.
What most people read about the relationship issues of celebrities and artists are basically about who broke up with whom, who divorced whom, and so on.
Why are the breakup and divorce rates of celebrities and entertainers so high?
Many people mistakenly believe that this is caused by too many temptations in the entertainment industry and that men and women change their minds easily.
But in fact, after Xiao Qian started working in this industry, he discovered through careful observation that this was not the case.
There are certainly many temptations in the entertainment industry, and there are also many who can't help but be tempted, but after all, scumbags and sluts are not the majority.
What is a star?
A star is just a flawless character presented to the public through the creation of an entertainment company through outstanding appearance and talent.
The more perfect a star role is, the more acceptable it is to the public and the more popular it is.
This is an ironclad rule in the entertainment industry.
Whether you are a powerful star or a popular star, a perfect appearance, personality, and image are a must.
Such demands from the outside world force celebrity artists to strive to develop in a more perfect direction. In the process, their values will inevitably change.
In the end, they will inevitably become a group of people who demand perfection from the people and things around them.
This is especially true for lovers and couples.
Once there is any flaw in the other party, it will immediately be magnified infinitely in the eyes of these people.
Maybe things that seem normal to ordinary people are huge problems that they cannot accept.
Under such circumstances, it is to be expected that the love and marriage of celebrity artists will be unstable.
But everyone misunderstood what Xiao Qian meant.
Ella shook her head and said: "I understand what you mean, we will understand our own hearts. Only by finding a stable and reliable ordinary person can we be happy, right?"
"wrong!"
Xiao Qian only said one word, which shocked everyone.
"When did I say that I hope you find ordinary people?"
Without giving everyone a chance to refute, Xiao Qian continued: "Your level and cognition have reached a certain level now, and you have formed unique concepts and thoughts. What would happen if you fell in love with an ordinary person?
?”
He gave an example.
"For example, ella, you took a fancy to a lipstick with a very beautiful color, so you happily spent thousands of dollars to buy it and felt very happy. But in the eyes of ordinary people, spending thousands of dollars just for
Buying a lipstick is simply unimaginable. When you see a painting, you will be immersed in the artistic realm and ponder many ideological connotations. But in the eyes of ordinary people, if you have this skill, you might as well make money.
.”
He looked at the female stars under the company one by one.
"The reason why I don't recommend that you get together with ordinary people in the future is that you and ordinary people have no common language. Living together like that will cause more suffering to you as time goes by."
Li Bingbing spread his hands.
"Well, you can't find a rich man, and you can't find an ordinary person either. Just say, we can't get married."
Xiao Qian's head is covered with black lines.
"Is that what I meant?"
"What I mean is that people like you are bound to encounter many difficulties and twists and turns in love and marriage. It is much more difficult for you to find a true lover than for ordinary people. Therefore, when you go through these, you must
Be cautious and cautious, and don’t give your sincerity easily.”
"What I hope you understand more is that you yourself are great. At a young age, you already have wealth that ordinary people cannot have in a lifetime, and you don't need to rely on anyone. So in this case,
You must be more confident when facing your own feelings and marriage. Never think that you will get anything from others. The gifts and charity of others are so amazing. You can live a good life without the opposite sex doing this."
"Only by maintaining this mentality can you control your feelings and marriage, and avoid lowering your status in vain and suffering any harm."
"For you, the other person's status, wealth, appearance, etc., are actually not important. Whether he is a good person, someone who can share a common language with you, and someone who can love you sincerely is actually the most important thing.
.”
Xiao Qian said so much in one breath that all the women fell silent.
Although I don't know how much they can absorb, it is conceivable that what Xiao Qian said today will definitely have a great impact on them.
If these words can prevent any of them from getting hurt in the future, that is Xiao Qian's greatest hope.
