If Huang Hanhan completely develops according to her inner emotions and does not manage and control them now or in the future, but directly expresses some emotions and thoughts, then there will definitely be big twists and turns in the emotional development of her and Yong Ming.
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This is because, before Huang Hanhan and Yong Ming have a deep emotional foundation and have not had a certain amount of time together to cultivate their relationship, her reliance on Yong Ming's performance can easily make Yong Ming feel fearful or resistant.
If such a situation occurs, it will be difficult for Huang Hanhan to develop his relationship with Yong Ming in a substantial way.
After all, this emotion requires two people to interact. If one party takes the initiative and the other party is passive and resistant, then it will not be a benign interaction.
As for whether this situation is a kind of torture for them, it depends on whether Huang Hanhan and Yong Ming can withstand this running-in.
After thinking of this, Sheng Qingfeng smiled slightly and said: "Han Yan, having said that, don't forget that Ming Gong and you are of the same age.
No matter how wise and talented he is, he also has emotions and desires.
At such a young age, it is a good thing to be fully trusted by a beautiful girl like you. Since ancient times, heroes love beauties!
But if this trust turns into a heavy dependence, how should you deal with it as a young man who has just passed his prime?"
Sheng Qingfeng's kind reminder immediately woke Huang Hanhan up, and she immediately realized the problem with what she just said.
Girls learn about human affairs earlier than boys. Huang Hanhan immediately knew what Sheng Qingfeng meant by reminding him.
She looked at Sheng Qingfeng gratefully and nodded, "Qingniu, I understand what you mean. You really need to think about how to express your thoughts."
Sheng Qingfeng was also a little surprised to see that she had enlightened after being reminded by him.
He looked at Huang Hanhan and whispered: "Han Yan, getting to know each other is just like 'good rain knows the season, and spring will happen'. Although it is due to fate, it is also natural.
However, the way to get along with each other after that is very learned and sophisticated. It is almost mysterious even if it is said to be mysterious.
If you can achieve the artistic conception of 'sneaking into the night with the wind and moisturizing things silently' during this process, then it will naturally be the best."
Huang Hanhan nodded and whispered softly: "This is something with connotations. I will reflect on it and learn from it. Listening to what you said, I really need to avoid a lot of detours.
Qingniu, I want to thank you for your reminder today. After you said this, I thought about it carefully and found that I was really ignorant."
"Hi! This is a normal communication between friends. Why do we ask you to say thank you?
Han Yan, don't forget, we are the new chief officers of the "Four Davids of the Yong Family". We are the people whom Duke Ming relies on and values. We must work well by Duke Ming's side and get along well. You think so?
no?
If this is because of emotional problems, which makes the relationship between them tense and makes them awkward to get along with, it would be a bad thing.
For the long term, I really hope that you and Ming Gong can have a good relationship and spend a long time together."
Sheng Qingfeng did not expect Huang Hanhan to thank him.
In order to let Huang Hanhan adjust his condition properly, he immediately explained his original intention of reminding Huang Hanhan.
Of course, at the end of the conversation, Sheng Qingfeng still expressed his blessings for the future relationship between Huang Hanhan and Yong Ming in a rather subtle way.
Huang Hanhan immediately understood Sheng Qingfeng's intention, and was very grateful for his help. He said with emotion: "Qingniu, this is a well-written poem, but in my eyes, it is a constant reminder.
I'm going to tell you something now, how about you listen?"
"Okay! Han Yan, let's talk about it."
Sheng Qingfeng said with great interest.
"This is a poem by Meng Haoran, which can be said to be a household name.
Everyone says that this poem describes a quiet and leisurely life scene, which makes people feel the beauty of life. However, after I first heard this poem, my feelings were different from others.
I felt a strong sense of vigilance from the poem, reminding you to pay attention to potential dangers. Even seemingly impermanent situations can lead to big disasters if you are not careful."
Huang Hanhan did not recite the poem directly, but first gave Sheng Qingfeng an overview of his understanding of the poem.
She did this and gave Sheng Qingfeng a very intuitive feeling, that is, this poem must be a poem that has been fully defined by people, a poem with a unified interpretation, and a classic poem no matter how it is evaluated.
This made Sheng Qingfeng full of expectations for the poem Huang Hanhan was about to recite to him.
After all, the great poet Meng Haoran is a representative of the pastoral poetry school, and most of his poems describe pastoral scenery.
Even if it contains emotions and scenes, it also expresses some sadness of separation and joy of reunion, and there are few works that involve current affairs and politics.
Now, Huang Hanhan's speech made Sheng Qingfeng, who also has a profound knowledge of Chinese studies, naturally sort out Meng Haoran's poems in his mind.
Although he could not describe all his poems, he generally knew most of Meng Haoran's poems that were passed down to later generations.
Among these known poems, Sheng Qingfeng was not able to find a poem that matched what Huang Hanhan said and could be understood by her as a warning to herself.
However, no matter which poem by Meng Haoran Huang Hanhan was going to recite later, Sheng Qingfeng would not be surprised.
Because there are only those familiar poems on the left, and any one of them will make Sheng Qingfeng feel familiar.
But to say that you can experience a different artistic conception from it, this is something that makes Sheng Qingfeng feel very creative.
If Huang Hanhan can give a convincing explanation and summarize the truth, Sheng Qingfeng, who is willing to accept new things, will definitely accept Huang Hanhan's proposition.
After getting along with each other for a few days, Huang Hanhan knew this about Sheng Qingfeng, otherwise she would not have taken the initiative to mention it.
As Sheng Qingfeng nodded, indicating that he had received what he expressed, Huang Hanhan began to recite Meng Haoran's "Spring Dawn", "Spring sleeps without knowing the dawn, and you can hear birds singing everywhere. The sound of wind and rain at night, how many flowers have fallen."
After Huang Hanhan finished reciting, Sheng Qingfeng looked at Huang Hanhan and said: "Hanyan, what do you feel in this classic Tang Dynasty poem?
Now, while Mr. Ming is communicating with Liuquan about the upcoming operational tasks, come and tell me about it so that I can have a different experience."
It can be heard that Sheng Qingfeng is very encouraging to Huang Hanhan.