Sheng Qingfeng paused for two seconds to give Xie Liuyun time to understand.
Then, Sheng Qingfeng continued to preach to Xie Liuyun: "Next, what I want to say is that when dealing with every patient who is troubled by psychological problems, any improper handling of any detail will have very serious consequences.
In my medical career, I have never encountered serious situations. This may be related to my always being cautious.
But my classmate, a very excellent psychiatrist with a good reputation, encountered such a serious situation due to his own carelessness."
Hearing what Sheng Qingfeng said, Xie Liuyun frowned and nodded, taking what Sheng Qingfeng said seriously.
From Xie Liuyun's reaction, we can understand that in his mind, he attaches great importance to the need to carefully observe his father's emotional changes and pay careful attention to his psychological reactions during the process of psychological counseling for his father.
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Sheng Qingfeng looked at Xie Liuyun and nodded secretly, feeling that Xie Liuyun really took his words into his heart.
According to his understanding of Xie Liuyun, Xie Liuyun must have something to say to him.
Sure enough, when Sheng Qingfeng was thinking about this, he saw that Xie Liuyun seemed to have thought about his thoughts and smiled slightly at him.
When Sheng Qingfeng saw this, he took the initiative and said: "Liuquan, if you have anything to say, just say it."
Xie Liuyun felt that Sheng Qingfeng understood him, so he said in a tacit understanding: "Qingniu, these two aspects you just mentioned are very important.
While understanding the relevant knowledge of psychological counseling, I also learned that if you want to provide psychological counseling well, you must not act carelessly.
In the process of counseling psychological problems, we must proceed step by step and proceed cautiously, and we must not rush into anything too hastily or hastily.
The saying that 'slow work can produce fine work' is very appropriate when dealing with psychological issues."
Xie Liuyun made a summary after understanding what Sheng Qingfeng said.
"Liuquan, as you said, your understanding of my words is correct.
Now, let me talk about the specific experience of my classmate.
For us, it is a wake-up call worth taking.
The cause of that incident was that when my classmate was diagnosing and treating a patient who had serious psychological problems due to emotional frustration, he did not notice the patient's mood swings and provided the patient with timely psychological intervention to resolve her.
Depressed mood.
In the end, the patient was unable to relieve the huge pressure in his heart after returning home, and chose to commit suicide.
This situation hit my classmate deeply, and he was under pressure and suffering for a long time.
Because of this incident, my classmate, as a psychiatrist, received psychological counseling for a long time before he came out of this shadow.
At that time, when I heard what happened to this classmate, I was greatly shocked.
To this day, this incident still affects my mentality when facing my own patients.
I feel that doctors must adhere to the mentality of "doctors have a parent's heart" and treat patients as if they are their own children.
If my classmates could treat their patients with meticulous care, things that should be avoided would not happen."
When Sheng Qingfeng talked about what happened to his classmate, he was still filled with emotion and a little sad.
Xie Liuyun didn't know how long it had been since the regrettable thing that Sheng Qingfeng said happened to his classmate?
However, he could feel from Sheng Qingfeng's demeanor and tone when he spoke that Sheng Qingfeng was very worried about that tragic incident that could have been avoided as long as he was careful during diagnosis and treatment.
In order to let Sheng Qingfeng get over the impact of this incident, Xie Liuyun decided to ask about the background of the incident.
He hoped that after learning more about the situation, he could try his best to persuade Sheng Qingfeng and let Sheng Qingfeng put this matter down completely.
"Qingniu, when did this heartbreaking thing happen to your classmate?"
Xie Liuyun asked with great concern.
Sheng Qingfeng shook his head, not wanting to talk about it anymore.
Xie Liuyun saw Sheng Qingfeng's thoughts and said, "Qingniu, after hearing what happened, I felt doubly sad.
This patient already knew that he had a psychological problem and made the decision to seek help from a doctor.
Under such circumstances, the patient's emotional fluctuations led to excessive psychological pressure, which made him unable to bear it, resulting in a mental breakdown.
What happened next was indeed tragic.
A living life was lost like this. It would be very uncomfortable for anyone to know.
But I think this person still needs to move forward and look forward.
From this tragedy that should have been avoided, we can sum up experiences and lessons, learn from the pain and do a good job in subsequent diagnosis and treatment, which is truly worthy of this lost life.
I believe that your classmate came out of the shadows step by step like this.
As a client, he can let go of this heavy burden, so how can you not let go of such a heavy burden?"
After hearing Xie Liuyun's words, Sheng Qingfeng pursed his lips tightly and said nothing.
Xie Liuyun knew that Sheng Qingfeng understood what he meant, but he was not ready to let go of the matter completely.
Therefore, Xie Liuyun struck while the iron was hot and continued: "Qing Niu, as the old saying goes, 'You can only go into battle with light equipment to kill the enemy'.
How can you overcome more psychological problems that plague patients when you are burdened all over?
I think you should look at the problem that occurred during the diagnosis and treatment of your classmate dialectically.
After all, you are just a doctor, not a god.
There are some things you can't control.
What you can do is to do your best to remove the psychological problems of patients, relieve the burden on their psychology, and allow them to return to a normal life.
As for things that are beyond your control, you really shouldn’t worry and think too much about them.
Although, I don’t know how long it has been since that incident, but I don’t want to see you still grieving over it.
This situation shows that you have always kept this matter in your heart and have never let it go.
No matter how long this situation has been going on, in my opinion, it is a bad situation.
I think you should adjust your state, look at similar things from an objective perspective, and comment on such things calmly.
Under such circumstances, I am willing to communicate more with you on relevant matters."