After Xie Liuyun talked about this matter in depth, Sheng Qingfeng felt as uncomfortable as a stone blocking his heart.
Every word of Xie Liuyun's words stirred up his heart and made his mind and body shake.
Sheng Qingfeng knew that it didn't happen to him, but it was something that never left his heart after he heard about it. He couldn't forget it no matter what.
That incident has affected him for so many years, and he wants to let it go but can't.
Moreover, with the passage of time, his psychological condition has evolved to the point where whenever he touches the memories of this incident, he will be particularly depressed and extremely sad.
He wanted to open his mouth to express the pain in his heart to Xie Liuyun, but when the words came to his lips, he didn't know how to speak.
Such a situation made Sheng Qingfeng look at the ground beneath his feet and became very silent.
At this moment, a depressing emotion full of negative energy was completely covering him.
Xie Liuyun looked at Sheng Qingfeng's condition and realized that there must be something hidden in it.
He was somewhat fortunate to think that, after all, he had encountered a point of stress in Sheng Qingfeng's heart, and his luck was pretty good.
This is a relatively uncomfortable time for Sheng Qingfeng.
But in terms of what happens next, it is a rare opportunity to relieve stress.
After dealing with the emergency incident in Jinan, he could take advantage of the moment of relaxation when he returned to Anqiu to remove this pressure point and completely eliminate this emotional hidden danger buried deep in Sheng Qingfeng's heart.
With this calculation in mind, and after thinking about his words, Xie Liuyun said softly and gently: "Qingniu, I see you are in a very low mood.
My feeling is that this thing that happened to your classmate is somewhat similar to a certain past experience of yours, so that when you think of it, you will feel the same sadness?
If this is the case, I think you should open up this knot.
Although I am not a psychology major, I know that I cannot compare with professional doctors in understanding people's minds and resolving psychological problems.
But we are core members of a team, colleagues, comrades-in-arms, and close friends.
With this kind of friendship, there is no doubt about my sense of responsibility.
Qing Niu, please give me a chance to resolve your worries.
I hope that you can put down your psychological 'baggage' and focus your energy better on the development plan of our general guard.
There will be more and more things that we need to work together to do from now on.
As you just said, this psychological issue cannot be ignored.
My understanding of this is that if we relax carelessly, this small psychological problem will turn into a big problem.
Such a big problem will definitely cause irreparable damage to our body and mind at some point, and then affect our career development.
As the chief guard of the "Four Davids of the Yong Clan" and the leader of our "Four Davids of the Yong Clan", I see that you are so depressed.
This situation makes me worried.
Perhaps, the 'knot' in your heart is your emotional privacy, and I shouldn't inquire about it.
But since this 'knot' hidden in your heart is actually affecting your state, I can't just sit back and watch.
In both public and private matters, Qing Niu, please let go of this fetter in your heart, come out well, adjust your emotional state, and devote yourself wholeheartedly to the cause we are fighting for together.
When I say this, you can think of it as a plea, not a request.
As for how to do it, please give me a clear response, don't be so silent and close yourself off."
Xie Liuyun's words were very slow, intended to soothe Sheng Qingfeng's mood.
At the same time, Xie Liuyun knew that Sheng Qingfeng understood his situation. As a professional expert in psychological problems, how could Sheng Qingfeng not be able to resolve his own knot?
If this knot has existed for many years, then the problem must lie with Sheng Qingfeng himself.
From Xie Liuyun's point of view, the fact is that Sheng Qingfeng did not try to resolve this knot.
For him, it was an easy task to untie his knot.
However, Sheng Qingfeng did not do this.
This made Xie Liuyun feel that Sheng Qingfeng had encountered a psychological obstacle that he could not overcome.
In the face of such psychological barriers, even if he is a doctor who solves psychological problems for people, Sheng Qingfeng has no way to deal with the problems that happen to him.
This "healer does not heal himself, and people do not help themselves". Regarding his own problems, Sheng Qingfeng was confused by the authorities.
Since Sheng Qingfeng himself cannot see through his own problem, Xie Liuyun, as a bystander, is the one who can see this problem clearly.
Through this exchange, I accidentally touched a painful point in Sheng Qingfeng's heart, which was actually a good thing for Sheng Qingfeng.
Because Xie Liuyun was the only one communicating with him now, and Sheng Qingfeng's privacy was definitely taken care of.
Just think about it, who is willing to let the secrets in his heart be completely exposed in front of everyone?
After Xie Liuyun keenly discovered that Sheng Qingfeng had psychological problems, he promptly seized this opportunity to provide psychological counseling to Sheng Qingfeng.
Xie Liuyun also did not expect this change in the situation.
He never thought that he would have the opportunity to counsel and solve psychological problems with a recognized psychology expert in the team.
However, Xie Liuyun understood Sheng Qingfeng's current situation very well.
This "human beings are not grass and trees, how can they be ruthless"?
Sheng Qingfeng is also a human being. Who said that since he is an expert in psychology, he will not have psychological problems?
Now, after he had done a self-analysis for Sheng Qingfeng in an emotional and reasonable manner, Xie Liuyun looked at Sheng Qingfeng and waited patiently for his feedback without saying anything to urge him.
At this time, it is up to Sheng Qingfeng to adjust and make a brave choice.
Xie Liuyun knew Sheng Qingfeng's character and believed that he was a strong person.
After persuading him, Sheng Qingfeng will definitely be able to face the problems in his heart and actively work hard to untie the "knot" in his heart.
However, this process of relieving the psychological burden may be a bit slow and requires a little patience. Xie Liuyun is well aware of this.
He has enough patience to deal with the psychological problems that arise in Sheng Qingfeng.
How could the problems accumulated over the years be resolved after hearing a few words of comfort?
What Xie Liuyun wanted to do was to give Sheng Qingfeng encouragement and courage.
Through his targeted analysis and sharp inspiration, Sheng Qingfeng realized his own problems and faced them bravely instead of escaping as before.