Chapter 856: Those who are punctual must respect themselves
In fact, establishing a punctual time concept is not only about action tasks, but also a very important personal quality in other aspects.
Anyone who respects time not only respects himself, but also respects others.
Such people can easily gain the trust of others and be more successful than others.
If you feel that this statement seems a bit absolute, then look at the people around you from your own perspective and ask yourself, are you willing to cooperate with someone who is not punctual?
Perhaps, some of your friends are unpunctual, and in your opinion, this is just a minor issue in life.
Under normal circumstances, you will look at it in a casual way like many people do.
If this was a relationship between friends, it would be a perfectly understandable behavior.
After all, without any interests involved, even if I came a little early and spent time waiting for friends who are used to coming late, it wouldn't be a big deal.
This is based on the mentality of leisure and fun, and how to get along with friends.
But what if we change the prerequisites and examine this issue of punctuality?
You will find that in fact, the partners or work colleagues you exclude first are people who are never punctual in daily interactions.
How can you expect a person who can't even manage his own time well to cooperate with you or do the things you assign him well?
Although people who are not punctual do not mean that they will not do things well, but their rhythm of doing things is definitely different from others.
They have their own habits of doing things and their own rules for managing their time. Others cannot disturb their daily rhythm.
If you often interfere with their habits in the hope of correcting what they feel is not a good pace of work, then the response you get will definitely not be positive.
When you feel that you cannot communicate with them about time and efficiency issues, sorry, they may have decided not to be friends with you, and there is no chance of a close friendship with you in this life.
When you don’t know how to cooperate with them to do things, sorry, they may have clearly told you that they will no longer cooperate with you, and they will go their separate ways from now on.
Yes, you read the meaning of these two sentences correctly.
People who are not punctual are so straightforward in doing things, and can even be said to be decisive.
If we look closely at the reasons why they behave this way, it is due to their nature.
Carefully review your past dealings with unpunctual people and understand their temperaments in detail. You will find that no matter whether they are from the south or the north, they all have one thing in common.
The commonality is that they all have selfish characters.
In dealing with the world, unpunctual people are always based on their own preferences and never take into account the feelings of others.
Nothing is more important than making myself happy. If anyone makes me feel that it is uncomfortable to be with me, then just leave decisively.
As for who left whom, it is not important. In the eyes of unpunctual people, the issue of face is the least of the problems.
Because a problem that is not a problem affects one's mood and life, that is the most serious problem. This is something that people who are not punctual cannot tolerate.
Therefore, those who try their best to restrain themselves and try to correct their unpunctuality will be regarded by the unpunctual people as people they want to stay away from.
Since I can't adapt to your habits, I definitely can't make myself uncomfortable. We just won't get along with each other in the future.
In this way, everyone can live in peace, which is a good thing for everyone.
What a funny idea!
Do not consider others' kindness to you, do not take others' responsibilities to you seriously, do not take other people's respect for you seriously, do things that hurt others, do not do self-reflection, but in turn feel that you are
He is the one who is so kind that he can move heaven and earth, and he is the one who truly does good for everyone.
Those other people's accusations against themselves are all misunderstandings caused by not understanding themselves.
A person who is not punctual will definitely be an extremely selfish person and a highly sensitive person. They will behave like this after doing things that hurt others.
They have a very strong ability to self-comfort and anesthetize themselves, and can easily resolve despised behaviors and extremely embarrassing things through self-explanation.
If you think about it this way, do you think that the unpunctual people you meet all have this kind of temperament?
If there is such an unpunctual person around you and he is still your friend, it means that you have been tolerating him and accommodating his unpunctual habits.
If you can't tolerate the other person anymore, when you reveal this, you will find out how bold the other person is when they leave you.
This really doesn't mean that you are inferior to the other person, but that your ability to make decisions is not as good as the other person's.
When you speak out about his unpunctuality and offer serious advice that is different from the past, the other party will be sensitive to the fundamental change in your mind.
The thoughts you expressed should have not changed from the beginning to the end, but when you expressed them before, your tone was usually easy-going and not forceful.
In such a situation, the other party will usually try to talk and laugh, and the two will be at peace with each other.
Now, the other party can clearly feel from your words that your dissatisfaction has accumulated to the point where it cannot be added.
Then, under such circumstances, the other party can no longer maintain the relationship with you and continue to cope with it as before.
In order to maintain your so-called high profile, the other party will simply leave you when you are determined but still hesitant, leaving you alone to sort out the messy mood.
In the minds of people who are not punctual, nothing is more important than keeping themselves in a happy mood.
This is the nature of this type of person, and it will not change because of anyone.
The most important thing is to be yourself, which is the life creed they believe in.
Who knows, the prerequisite for being oneself is to learn to be a human being.
If this person is not trustworthy, he will not be established. A person who cannot even do the most basic issues of punctuality and integrity, being synonymous with himself is selfish.
The second is to know how to be grateful. It is impossible for a person to live alone in the world. Without the direct or indirect help and cooperation of others, being oneself can only be self-deception.
The last thing is to respect others. Everyone is an independent individual. Except for one's own parents, no one owes friendship to anyone else. Being able to get along for a long time after getting acquainted is because of mutual respect.
People who respect themselves will be respected by others, and respect is mutual and never one-sided.