After having this understanding, it should be said that when there are unpunctual people in your friend group, it means that you must be a good person and a person worth dating.
This is because people who have been identified as unpunctual by more than one person must have other personality problems or habitual shortcomings.
People who are admittedly not punctual are completely different from people who are occasionally late or do things over time due to some force majeure reasons.
No one can guarantee that in life and work, there will never be a situation where the time limit is not reached or the time limit is not completed.
No one will really mind if you are not punctual occasionally.
This is just like if a person gets sick because he doesn't pay attention occasionally, you can't say that he is an unhealthy person. There is no way to measure and evaluate a thing in this way.
It would be a big mistake to regard an occasional situation as the norm and develop a habitual perception.
This is what the story of waiting for a rabbit and carving a boat to find a sword tells.
This person treats accidental things as normal, makes stupid moves, and makes himself laugh in front of the world, which is his own fault.
Sheng Qingfeng, who is familiar with the world and understands the dynamics of people's hearts, pointed out that he had just been executing
During the actions to implement the situation inside the hospital, the problems exposed were quite shocking to my heart.
He knew that Yong Ming felt it was necessary to say this, otherwise he would not have chosen it at this seemingly inappropriate time.
And the more nervous you are at this time, your personal emotions are a little fluctuating, and the situation you are in is a little embarrassing, the more deeply you will be impressed by the problems that have been pointed out in you.
As a professional who is familiar with psychology, Sheng Qingfeng naturally knows this.
He detailed that from then on, he would never have the problem of ignoring time again.
Whether in action tasks or in daily affairs, he will pay more attention to time issues.
He is actually a very punctual person. In his many years of diagnosis, treatment and consultation on psychological problems, he has always strictly abided by the time agreements with patients. This is the most basic professional ethics.
A person who is engaged in solving psychological problems will never be an unpunctual person.
Otherwise, how could he make people with psychological problems to solve and consult fully believe in him and gain their absolute trust?
However, he also knew that being unpunctual did not often happen to Sheng Qingfeng. Why did Yong Ming raise the question of whether Sheng Qingfeng was punctual so seriously, even with some criticism in it?
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This is what gave Sheng Qingfeng a profound understanding and profound meaning.
The reason why Yong Ming made a special time adjustment with Sheng Qingfeng before he entered the "Red Society Hospital", agreed on a five-minute action time, and clearly stated the requirement to terminate the action and return no matter what the circumstances, is that
In order to ensure Sheng Qingfeng's personal safety.
Make specific agreement requirements on time. When it comes to handling affairs, what you pursue is the efficiency of doing things; when it comes to the work you undertake, what you pursue is the progress of the work; when it comes to action tasks, what you pursue is the safety of the action.
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This is the different roles that time plays in different things.
When the focus of pursuit is different, time will prompt the people restricted by the agreement to react differently.
In action tasks, in order to complete tasks with different contents within the specified time, one must be highly concentrated and devote oneself to the action. Only then can the task be completed within the specified time with all-out efforts.
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In this way, while ensuring the smooth progress and completion of operational tasks, the safety of those performing the tasks can be protected to the greatest extent.
As long as the people performing the tasks can be ensured to be safe, then the action itself must be safe.
No matter how arduous the action is, as long as the person is fine, there is hope that the task can be completed and a satisfactory action result can be obtained.
Sheng Qingfeng understood Yong Ming's real intention of pointing out this issue at this time, which was to ask him to pay attention to his own safety in subsequent actions.
Yong Ming chose to talk about this matter before communicating with the police station, hoping that he could have more time to think about it.
This shows that Yong Ming has great expectations for the police department to participate in the next action.
Yong Ming hoped to use this to weaken the opponent's organization in the "Red Society Hospital" and win the operation in a short time while suppressing the opponent.
Of course, Sheng Qingfeng had the same idea as Yong Ming, and hoped that future events would develop according to this idea.
Then I have to cooperate with Yong Ming later, fully mobilize the enthusiasm of the police station, and show good performance in the next actions.
“You must keep this concept of time firmly in mind and always remind yourself to plan your time in action.
The actions and tasks we undertake every time are no different from other things. If we are not careful, at least it will lead to passivity and failure of the action; at worst, it will cause casualties and heavy losses.
You are the one who leads the army, and I ask more of you than others.
We need to look at things in the long term, think about things thoroughly, and do things carefully. We must not make careless mistakes at any time.
If you relax for one second on the agreed time for action, the people below will relax for half a minute, and the situation below will be out of control.
Faced with such a lax team, no matter how talented you are, you still cannot achieve perfection in your actions.
This is not a question of whether you try your best in action, but a question of subjective willpower. You must have the confidence to change the unfavorable situation through your own efforts.
Our ancestors have been able to survive the ups and downs and pass on the spirit of "Yongwangwei" to this day. Is it all due to the shelter of their predecessors and their own luck?
‘Third points are determined by nature, and seven points depend on hard work.’ Nothing is innate, and hard work the day after tomorrow is very important.
Qingniu, you and Liuquan have successfully passed the training and assessment, and have the ability to manage a health department. Whether you can truly be the chief officer of your own health department in the future, there is still a lot to do, so don't relax.
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Before turning around, Yong Ming said such sincere words to Sheng Qingfeng, which deeply touched Sheng Qingfeng.
His understanding of Yong Ming's words was that Yong Ming recognized him very much, but he could never be allowed to slack off on the things he was responsible for.