Wang Qing leaned on the pillow, closed his eyes, and replied weakly: "It's a little cold..." Xue Ling hurriedly raised the temperature by two degrees and asked: "How about this?"
"Better."
Wan Yun explained in a low voice: "My mother is used to sleeping at 28 degrees Celsius.
She and my dad usually don't dare to drive too low, they are always 27 or 28."
Wang Qing's eyes were half-opened, and the corners of his eyes were slightly moist.
My son is very carefree and never pays attention to such small details. He is not as considerate and considerate as my daughter.
She looked at her daughter under the light yellow warm light, and saw that her eyes were reddish, her skin was delicate and white, and her eyebrows were gentle and cute. She couldn't help but think of her childhood.
Unknowingly, my daughter has grown up, from a little baby who was as well-behaved as a doll to the slim and pretty girl she is now.
When a girl grows up and finds a partner, she has to get married and leave her parents... Looking back, I think about how my daughter almost got married to a distant place and may not be able to see her more than a few times throughout the year. I feel so sad that I burst into tears with excitement.
Wan Yun and Xue Ling were startled and hurriedly came over.
"Mom, what's wrong with you?
Are you not feeling well?"
After all, Xue Ling is also a mother and understands Wang Qing's conflicting and uncomfortable mood at this time.
"Ah Qing, don't cry. No matter whether Xiaoyun will marry that Zhang Hao or not, her daughter will still have to marry.
There are three brats in my family, and the youngest one is a daughter. No matter how reluctant we are to leave her, we feel uncomfortable, and she brings her boyfriend to the house, and we have no choice but to agree.
She fell in love before she was an adult, and we didn’t object in the end, we still had to agree.”
Wang Qing sobbed and whispered: "Ling Ling, although Chen Xinzhi is a year older than Xiao Xin, he is mature, steady and restrained, and has a degree of progress and retreat in doing things. He is truly the best among people.
Even with tens of thousands of lanterns, you may not be able to find such a son-in-law riding a dragon.
More importantly, you and your family all know him very well.
These two points alone are enough.
What's more, he doted on Xiao Xin as a treasure and loved her like a treasure. The doting in his eyes almost overflowed, and anyone with a discerning eye could see it.
The most important thing is that he is willing to return to China for development and strive to stay in the imperial capital for Xiaoxin."
Xue Ling listened for a long time and finally understood what she meant.
She nodded slightly, sighed and whispered: "I understand what you mean.
Daughters are also sons, and they are also the treasures of our hearts.
You don't want her to marry a man who may not love her enough or value her enough.
I also don’t want my daughter to marry far away and not see her even a few times throughout the year. I’m worried that if she gets bullied at her husband’s house, no matter how much you love her and want to protect her, you can’t save her from a distant fire.”
"Yes..." Wang Qingggeng swallowed: "Ling Ling, you and I are both women. At this age, we all understand what it means to get married.
For this woman, getting married is like choosing to be born again.
Marry well, have a husband, children, and a family, and have sustenance and a future for half your life.
If the marriage does not go well, at least you will be wronged and sad, and your life will be miserable, and at worst, you will be beaten, injured or even lose your life.
When I was young, I only had romance, beautiful love, and love in my mind. Little did I know that life is a web made up of all kinds of pain and suffering.
If someone loves someone and hurts you, you will be willing to stay in the net, but if that man is unreliable, he will be the executioner who drags you into the abyss."
Wang Qing is worthy of being a great writer who came from a literary and artistic youth. His words are full of talent and sincerity, which can make people cry.
Xue Ling's eyes turned red and she couldn't help but look at Wan Yun and found that she had her head buried and she was holding her mother's hand tightly with both hands.
"Xiaoyun, your mother is right.
Auntie, let me be honest, in this world, more than 90% of the people are ordinary people, and their days are all about running around and working hard, and there is not much romance.
If you stop a dozen people on the street and ask, maybe 9 out of 10 couples will tell you that they are unhappy and want a divorce every minute, but they have all kinds of last resort reasons to maintain a seemingly inseparable marriage.
When it comes to falling in love, you can just find someone you are compatible with, but you must not be careless about marriage. It will be a gamble that will be like gambling for your life in the next few decades."
Wan Yun shed tears and nodded slightly, but still did not dare to speak.
Wang Qing sighed again and whispered: "Your father probably never told you, my mother was married before, and only after the divorce did she fall in love with your father, and finally got together.
You may have heard others mention it, but you definitely don’t understand it thoroughly enough.
Let me... now tell you about mom's first marriage."
"Mom..." Wan Yun even swallowed and murmured: "Stop talking...that's your sad thing."
Wang Qing shook his head gently: "It's not a sad thing.
Actually, my first marriage was not too bad.
He is a man I picked myself. He has a similar education level. He is also a colleague for many years. He is also from Huicheng and knows everything about me.
I love writing books and he loves photography. We are both literary and artistic young people with very similar interests and hobbies. We lived very happily at first.
It sounds good, right?"
"right."
Wan Yun was in disbelief and couldn't help but ask: "If it's so good, how could you get divorced in the end?
Don’t his parents accept you?”
Wang Qing shook his head: "No, his parents treated me well and did not live with us. They let us live in a new apartment independently and live a married life as two people.
The reason why we divorced is that we couldn't manage our marriage well.
Neither of us has much life experience. I can only read and write, and he can only take pictures and go to work. He has three meals a day, and he has some health problems, so he is very cold towards me.
Gradually, I couldn't stand the boring and boring life and the tedious and repetitive housework. He couldn't stand it either, so he started flirting with a girl from the photo studio.
Later, I fell ill at home with no one to take care of me, and I almost died. Fortunately, your Aunt Lingling climbed in from the neighbor's balcony regardless of her life and sent me to the hospital in time, so I survived.
After I recovered from my illness, I divorced him and ended my first marriage."
"that's it?"
Wan Yun felt incredible.
In her view, marriage is the continuation of love between two people and a beautiful guarantee for a pair of people for a lifetime.
Two people who love each other so much and have the same interests and hobbies are obviously married, but they have not been able to get together in the end! Oh my God! It’s incredible! It’s unbelievable! Wang Qing laughed softly, with obvious self-deprecation.
"I can't help it! I am a woman with a weak temper and terrible living ability.
If your father hadn't made a lot of money, he would have bought a house, a car, and hired a nanny to do housework.
Not only does he make money outside, he also has to take care of my children and me at home, tolerate me and respect me.
Your grandma also really cares about me and allows me to freely create and write books. She helps you with housework.
If I didn't have such a good in-laws like them, I would probably have to divorce again."