"If we don't get divorced, the money in our books will be gone sooner or later.
Where will I find money to support my children and how will I support this family?
I can't persuade her or control her, so besides getting a divorce, what else can I do?"
Chen Min scratched his hair in pain, leaned his head on his knees, and cried bitterly.
After everyone heard this, everyone felt sad for him.
Ah Hu was the most angry and said harshly: "You have talked to me a few times before, and I thought it was just a matter of time. Instead, I advised you to be more generous. After all, they are all my relatives. If you can take care of them, you must take care of them! Who?
You know it’s like this! How can it be like this! Let me tell you – the human heart is like a snake swallowing an elephant! There is no bottom at all!”
Wang Qing's eyes were red and she whispered: "Cui Liu... Cui Liu is too much.
My mother's family is my home, but I have to take care of my own family as well.
No matter how nice your natal family is, it is no longer your home after all.
I didn't understand this at first, but gradually I understood it.
My brother is okay, but my sister-in-law is the kind of greedy person who always begs me for things.
When my mother was alive, I was worried that my sister-in-law would treat my mother badly, so I tried my best to respond to her requests and give her whatever she asked.
I endured it all the time. Fortunately, Ahu was more generous than me and allowed me to make arrangements.
Later, after my mother passed away, I couldn't be the same as before.
I myself told my sister-in-law that business is difficult and I cannot help them all the time.
Of course my sister-in-law is not happy, but there is nothing I can do about it.
My income is unstable, and my family relies on Ahu's business.
I can't always use my husband's money to please her.
Fortunately, I live far away. Anyway, I just need to bring some things to my nieces and nephews when I go back. As for whether she is happy or not, I really don't care."
"that is!"
Ahu was so angry that he was at a loss and patted his cousin on the shoulder, "Amin! Don't be sad! I'll help you! When Xiaohao gets better, I'll accompany you back to Huicheng! I'll talk to Cuiliu and his family to reason!"
"
Cheng Tianyuan frowned and shook his head: "What's the point of talking to someone like that?
If the people in their family could be reasonable, would they have ended up like this?"
"Then I'll beat them up!"
Ahu clenched his fist and shouted: "I just use my fists when there is no reason! Don't look at me as I am old, I still have a lot of strength!"
Xue Ling sighed helplessly and advised: "Calm down first and discuss it carefully.
This matter sounds simple, but is very tricky to deal with.
If you really want to get rid of such a family, you probably have to get divorced.
But right now, Xiaohao is still lying in the hospital, not in good health physically and mentally.
He now needs Amin and Cuiliu to give him care and support.
If the parents still come to divorce at this moment, it will undoubtedly cause another serious injury to the child.
They are separated, Amin can temporarily get rid of Cuiliu and his family, but what about Xiaohao?
He can no longer bear the blow now."
Everyone was silent.
When two people get married and have children, their families take root and grow together like plant roots, and are entangled together like vines.
Once they are separated, both parties will have to pay a heavy price.
They have been closely connected for more than 20 years and are dependent on each other. Once they are separated from each other, the skin will be torn and painful, and the skin will be torn and hurt, and innocent children will be hurt, and they will even be unable to afford it.
No matter how strong or sufficient the parents' reasons are, the children of the marriage are ultimately innocent.
If you can be open-minded and agree to the parents' separation, then it can be a different matter, at least you can accept it mentally.
If it doesn't work, it will definitely be a catastrophe for the child.
Ah Hu thought for a while and hesitated: "It's more difficult for Xiao Hao... Although the children are older, divorce is said to be easy, but there are a lot of worries when it comes to divorce, just like Xiao Hao.
Also, you have two supermarkets, and they can be divided into one for each person, but other properties have to be divided, so it’s hard to say.”
Xue Ling reminded: "Amin's situation is a special case. If you really decide to divorce and must divorce, you can seek legal support and tilt it to your side.
However, I don't support them leaving now.
Once Cuiliu was in bad condition, it was very troublesome to leave her.
Secondly, Xiaohao’s situation is unclear and he needs his parents’ support and care.”
He Cuiliu committed suicide last night simply because of this incident.
If the divorce could be smooth and proper, why would it be so ugly! Chen Min shouted excitedly: "The life is really unbearable! I'm going to be driven to death by her! It's better for her to burn charcoal and commit suicide on impulse! She's going to
Force me to die too!"
"Amin, please calm down first."
Cheng Tianyuan frowned and advised: "After all, you have lived together for twenty or thirty years. Even if the relationship between husband and wife has faded, you still have several children.
Now Xiaohao needs your love and care, so it’s really not a good idea to file for divorce in a hurry."
Chen Min shook his head helplessly: "This time Xiaohao's incident has caused such a big fuss, which is completely beyond my expectation.
Originally, when my child was withdrawn from school, I had already made up my mind to stay with him for the time being and settle my child first.
Who knew Xiaohao would end up in the ICU because of the trouble, so I could only inform her to come over and help.
Before she came, she told me that the child had better be fine, otherwise she wouldn't want to live.
If your husband is unreliable and your son is unreliable, your life will be hopeless.
I didn't take it into my mind at all at the time, and I didn't expect that she really... ugh!"
"Amin, do we really have to leave?"
Wang Qing sighed and asked: "How about we help persuade Cuiliu... maybe it will work."
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "If it had worked, everything would have been fine.
Cousin, we have known each other for twenty or thirty years. I am not the kind of person who cares about everything unless I am bullied to the point of being bullied.
Her family just bullied me for being honest and bullying me for not having courage.
They always laugh at me privately and call me a useless coward.
Cuiliu wanted to be a housekeeper, and I didn't object, but she couldn't bully me like I was a fool.
No matter how honest a person is, there will be times when he can't stand it."
"Cuiliu firmly refuses to divorce, right?"
Ahu asked.
Chen Min shook his head: "No, she was the one who proposed divorce before.
When her relatives came to ask for large amounts of money or valuables, she would always threaten her, saying that if she divorced me, she would get half of the property.
Anyway, half of the house belongs to her, so she has the right to make decisions.
She mentioned it dozens of times, but I had no choice but to endure it.
I couldn't bear it anymore, so I hired a lawyer to draft an agreement for her."
"She can't accept it for a while, right?"
Cheng Tianyuan guessed: "She always threatened you before, and she was sure that you didn't dare to get a divorce.
Who knows if you suddenly become serious, she will be scared.
In fact, she doesn’t want to get divorced, otherwise she wouldn’t be guilty of burning charcoal or anything like that.”
Chen Min rubbed his pale face irritably and took a long breath.
“After filing for divorce, I felt much more relaxed inside.
Before, I always felt that there was no end in sight, and I was extremely depressed.
If we can get a divorce, I can at least see some hope."