Xue Ling couldn't help but ask: "When you say that, do you mean that divorce is necessary?"
"yes."
Chen Min nodded firmly: "There is no turning back."
Everyone hesitated, looking at me and me at you, and for a moment they didn't know what to say.
After a long while, Cheng Tianyuan gave up: "Even if we want to leave, it's not time to leave now.
You have to take it easy and give Xiaohao some time.
In addition, if Cuiliu really refuses to divorce, you should not act anxiously."
"right!"
Ahu frowned and said: "If she refuses to divorce, then she will engage in such charcoal-making... No matter how reasonable you are, you will not be able to take advantage of her.
Those people in her natal family are so unreasonable and they will definitely try to trick you to death."
Xue Ling nodded in agreement: "Yes, even if you want a divorce, you can't rush it.
Amin, Cuiliu is the mother of several children after all.
The children have grown up and are important members of your family.
If you want a divorce, you must first see if your children agree to it, so as not to cause more trouble.
Marriage is a big deal, and divorce is also a big deal, so it can’t be rushed or hastened.”
"yes."
Cheng Tianyuan reminded: "Xiaohao's condition has just improved, so there is no rush."
Chen Min collapsed on the sofa tiredly, with stubble on his face and scary dark circles under his eyes.
"Let's look at it again, it's still important to be a child now.
However, I feel like I can’t hold it any longer.”
Ahu was heartbroken and stepped forward.
"Go back to your room, change your clothes, and then have a good sleep.
Don't worry, Xiaohao is with us.
Little Tiger has already gone to kindergarten. There is a nanny to help take care of Mini Tiger, so we have nothing to do.
We will take care of Xiaohao for you, so don’t worry."
Chen Min nodded weakly: "Thank you."
Cheng Tianyuan also came over and helped him stand up.
"Come on, I'll take you back to your room to rest for a while."
Ahu hurriedly helped, helping Chen Min to the guest room one by one.
Wang Qing looked at their retreating figures. She was originally sentimental and soon became sad.
“Ten years of practice can lead to crossing in the same boat, and a hundred years of practice can lead to sleeping together on the same pillow.
For a man and a woman to meet and fall in love in a vast sea of people, start a family and have children, it is a blessing that they have cultivated over many lifetimes.
But such a blessing cannot lead to old age, which is really sad and regrettable!"
Xue Ling has always been used to handling problems calmly and carefully, analyzing them carefully.
“No matter how beautiful the fate and relationship is, it cannot withstand the torment of all kinds of pain, excessiveness, and bad thoughts.
As time goes by, only chicken feathers are left on the ground, and everyone wishes to escape far away.
Chen Min is such an honest person, but he can't handle it, which shows how poorly Cuiliu has handled the issue of her mother's family."
Wang Qing pursed his lips and lowered his voice: "I have discovered this problem before. Fortunately, I stepped back from the cliff in time, otherwise I would not be able to hold on, let alone Ahu."
"You just said she was your sister-in-law, right?"
Xue Ling asked.
Wang Qing nodded and whispered: "My brother is okay. I know that Ahu and I have helped him with everything we can. The house, car and work, including my mother's various medicines and supplements, almost all are provided by us."
Spend money.
My brother knows how to be grateful, but my sister-in-law only thinks that our life is better than theirs, as if it is natural for us to spend money.
Yes, I have a share in being an old mother. She worked hard to raise me, so I should be filial to her.
But she is not my brother, there is no comparison at all."
Xue Ling chuckled and handed her a cup of tea.
"Ahu is a very filial person. He knows his mother-in-law well and takes good care of her. He is famous in Rongcheng."
Wang Qing was angry and asked: "Where did you hear that?
You haven't been back to Rongcheng for how many years, why are you here just now?
Who believes it!"
"I heard what Xiao Tong said."
Xue Ling replied: "There is also Amin, the former Sister Jinhua and her family."
Wang Qing couldn't help but believe it, and said: "Ahu is indeed very good to my mother, and there is nothing wrong with her."
When she said this, she couldn't help but laugh: "Because of this, I dare not be disobedient to my mother-in-law.
He is good to my mother, so I must be good to his mother, right?"
Xue Ling laughed and said, "Both of us were raised by our parents. After we got together, each other's relatives came together and became relatives.
Ahu is very filial to his elders and treats your mother as his own. This is your blessing and my aunt's blessing."
"Um."
Wang Qing explained in a low voice: "Because of this, I look down on my sister-in-law even more.
Ahu is good enough to my mother-in-law, but she is always greedy, wanting this and that, almost like a blood-sucking insect.
I don’t make much money from writing books. Ninety-nine percent of my family’s income comes from Ahu’s hard-earned income. It’s not easy for him either.
Our natal family is our family, and we daughters should try our best to take care of our natal family, but who will take care of our family?"
Xue Ling has never had this kind of trouble, and chuckled: "I am the only daughter in my family, and we all lived together not long after we got married, so I don't have this kind of trouble.
Besides, my parents don’t have to pay for it because they are rich themselves.
Ayuan and I only need to take care of their daily lives, and there has never been any financial drag or dispute."
"That's your fate!"
Wang Qing laughed angrily and scolded: "But who can be as lucky as you?
You are the only one in the entire imperial capital, Xue Ling!"
Xue Ling smiled dryly: "I'm not comparing myself to anyone, I'm just stating the facts.
How a married daughter should balance the relationship between her mother's family and her husband's family seems to be a big question."
"The kind that is profound and unfathomable."
Wang Qing smiled bitterly: "I struggled for many years and spent millions of dollars, but my sister-in-law complained and was jealous all day long. It wasn't until I woke up later that the situation got better."
Xue Ling asked: "Really?
Isn’t it hard to be caught in the middle?”
"Almost collapsed."
Wang Qing explained: “On one side is my husband, on the other side is my mother and brother.
Ahu worked hard to make money, but I took money from him to go to my parents' house.
But I couldn't bear to see my mother and my brother living in a worse place than me, and I always felt guilty.
I think it is appropriate to spend money on my mother.
Later, my sister-in-law even asked Ahu to help pay for her children’s school fees, and even came to complain about her poverty during the New Year and festivals. I started to feel disgusted.
Who doesn’t have a family to support?
Why should others have to pay when their finances are better?
Our money is not brought by strong winds."
"Indeed."
Xue Ling sighed quietly: "Cuiliu is the eldest in the family and has a stronger sense of responsibility than the other brothers and sisters.
But she doesn't have good sense of proportion.
If she could handle it as appropriately as you, Amin wouldn't be forced into such a miserable situation."
Wang Qing shook his head: "There is no chance, what else is there to say.
You also saw Amin's determination not to look back just now.
Alas…it’s too late!”
At this moment, Xiao Tong, who was frowning and looking tired, slowly stepped into the living room.