Mother Xue, who was breaking peanuts at the side, interrupted: "In my opinion, Shan You is a very filial child.
Although she doesn't have any ideas, she respects you and your wife from the bottom of her heart."
"yes."
Father Xue echoed: "Although she is a little weak, she is kind-hearted, gentle and pleasant.
Don't force her, give her some time."
Ahu smiled bitterly: "I know that too.
We knew from the beginning that Shan You was a good girl.
It's just... Mr. and Mrs. Shanyue are too thoughtful. They encourage her to do this and that all day long.
After all, they are biological parents, and sometimes she can't help it, right?"
"I thought it was so far away, the mountains were high and the emperor was far away, but it was too much to stop them."
Wang Qing lowered his voice: "They just make people worry! Sometimes they want a villa, sometimes they want a luxury car, and sometimes they want to buy insurance.
Apart from some small income online, Shanyou has no other income.
Aren’t those things all bought by Xiao Huzi?
But they are always picky about the little tiger!"
Xue Ling has known Shanyue and his wife for decades and knows them quite well.
"They are not honest people, but they are not bad people either.
Go over the mountains, you will be bold and happy, but you will be easily tempted to go astray.
With his vision and hard work, he could have made a lot of money and even become a very rich man.
But he took the wrong path several times, and each time he lost all his money, and lost all his money again, resulting in a thin family fortune."
"But they only have one daughter, Shan You."
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but remind: "Everything they own will be given to her in the end. Even though Xiao Huzi bought them a lot of valuable things, they are all in Shan You's name, not theirs.
After all, they are all doing it for their daughter."
"yes!"
Xue Ling chuckled: "They think Xiao Huzi is smart and capable, but their daughter is a weak and naive girl. They are worried that she will be bullied by Xiao Huzi in the future, and they are also worried that she will not live a good life in the future, so they find excuses to make Xiao Huzi
Going to the South Island to buy a villa or a house is just to find some financial support for my daughter, it can even be said to be a retreat."
Wang Qing complained depressedly: "My daughter is already married, and they still think of a way out for her all day long... Do they have no confidence in Xiao Huzi, or do they have no confidence in their own daughter?"
"It's no wonder they did."
Cheng Tianyuan took the last bite of the porridge and wiped his mouth, "The divorce rate is extremely high now. A lot of young people don't like to get married, and they also like to have flash marriages and divorces.
Finding some escape routes for our children is actually out of necessity."
"yes."
Father Xue shook his head helplessly: "If marriage can give young people a sense of security, and they can give each other a sense of security, and at the same time they themselves can feel a sense of security, then naturally they don't have to worry too much.
The key is that today’s young people don’t know what’s wrong.
Call them realistic, but they seem to be more than realistic.
You could say they are too calm, but they do a lot of crazy things all day long that would scare the elderly into having heart attacks.
In short, I don’t understand what’s going on with today’s young people.”
Mother Xue laughed and wiped the tips of her hands with a wet towel.
"If you could understand, you would be a young person! You are already in your 80s or 90s, and I still expect you to understand today's young people!"
Father Xue chuckled and scratched the few remaining white hairs.
“People back then were not as fancy as we are now, and we didn’t understand what romance was.
But most couples just want to live a good life.
At that time, not one or two people were divorced in the streets, or even in the entire factory area."
"Yeah."
Mother Xue echoed: "There are very few in cities and counties, let alone rural areas in the countryside - some people don't even know that divorce is possible!"
"Times have changed."
Xue Ling smiled and said: "With abundant materials, people will naturally pursue more spiritual freedom and enjoyment, and like to do whatever they want."
"It's too indulgent!"
Mother Xue said solemnly: "People are just like animals, they cannot be indulged, otherwise they will easily get lost and unable to find themselves!"
Xue Ling chuckled and ate by himself.
"It makes sense, but young people don't like to hear it."
Cheng Huanran on the side wiped the corners of his mouth and narrowed his eyes when he heard this.
"I prefer to listen. After all, I am a relatively traditional young man."
"You're still young!"
Father Xue joked: "You are almost thirty - you are still young! When other people are your age, their children are already teenagers! Look at you, you want money, you want a house, you want a car, how many people in the world do you want?"
There are a billion women - but you can't find a wife! I married your grandpa back then with just a shabby dormitory and a few crumpled love letters!"
Cheng Huanran: "..." Well, he was wrong, very wrong.
Facts have proven that as long as there is an age gap, the generation gap will always exist.
So Cheng Huanran ran away quickly.
"I'm full! I'm going to work!"
Father Xue laughed loudly.
Xue’s mother glared at her daughter and asked, “Aren’t you nervous?
ah?
How old is your eldest son? Don’t you know?
Other mothers spend all day looking for relatives, friends, and best friends to introduce women to their sons, and they go to blind date corners every day.
Are you still my mother?"
Forehead?
Xue Ling asked innocently: "What does it have to do with me that he can't find a partner?
He gets whatever he wants, and he looks like a human being.
If he just can’t find it, what can he do?”
"You - you indulge him too much!"
Mother Xue scolded angrily.
Ahu on the side laughed and asked: "By the way, our little Huzi is several years younger than Ranran, and his son is already in kindergarten - are you really not nervous?
Don’t you want to take care of it?”
Cheng Tianyuan was slightly embarrassed and asked: "How should we manage it?
What about finding someone to go on a blind date?
Can he accept it?
If you can find it yourself, it would be too shameful to rely on your parents to find someone to introduce you!"
"Look! Look! This is such an unacceptable attitude!"
Father Xue said with a smile: "You are just too indifferent, that's why he is so carefree and indifferent.
Without pressure, where would the motivation come from?”
Xue Ling suppressed a laugh: "We shouldn't put this pressure on him! If he has the motivation, he will naturally pursue it.
It's his ability to catch up.
If he can't catch up, that's because he doesn't have the ability."
"Then - what if he continues to be single like this?"
Mother Xue stared at her daughter and asked, "You really don't care?
Have you been letting it go?"
Xue Ling shook his head: "I don't care.
Unless he asks me for help, I really don't care.
Mom, children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, we really can’t control that much.
Everyone has to walk his or her own life well.
Just because I gave birth to him and raised him doesn't mean I have to help him live his life.
When he was a child, he was guided and taught well. Now that he is in his thirties, he knows what he should do. At this time, we should not interfere too much."
“What is this ‘interference’?
!”
Xue's mother laughed and scolded: "When you wanted to marry A Yuan, you were not very willing at first! If your father and I hadn't persuaded you that he was a good man who could be trusted for life, you might have still married.
No.
If we don’t interfere, how can you have such a big and happy family now! Ah?