Xue Ling felt more and more amused and asked: "Electricity is very dangerous. Do we not use electrical appliances just because it is dangerous?"
Water can drown people, is it possible that we don’t use water or drink water because we are afraid of drowning?”
Wang Xiaoxiao was speechless for a moment and hesitated: "That's not true."
Xue Ling chuckled: "Many people feel that it is tiring to maintain a marriage. They think that marriage is a burden, a shackle, a burden, and an arduous responsibility.
In fact, this is also true for marriage.
But everything has its disadvantages and advantages. You can’t just see all the disadvantages of marriage and ignore its beauty.”
Shan You pouted and said aggrievedly: "There must be some beauty, but it feels like there is too little.
If you can barely do half and half, that's okay.
But obviously the disadvantages outweigh the benefits! Some people around my age don’t want to get married yet, but I am already a mother of two children.
There are old people at the top and young people at the bottom. The responsibilities are so heavy that sometimes I can't breathe.
Many times, I really envy my friends who are not married. They are free, can do whatever they want, and can go on a trip whenever and wherever they want.
It’s simply impossible for stay-at-home wives like us.”
"Didn't I say it just now?"
Xue Ling smiled and explained: "If you envy others, how do you know that others don't envy you?
Some people envy you for being a mother of two children at such a young age, envying you for living in a mansion in a courtyard, envying you for having a luxury car, and having a very motivated husband.
The prerequisite for traveling as long as you want is that your financial conditions permit, your work environment permits, and your family of origin permits it, but not everyone can be so cool as long as they are not married."
Shan You said "Hmm~~" and then smiled.
Xue Ling squinted his eyes and continued to fan, saying: "Everything needs to be managed with care, including relationships and marriages.
If you invest more and do it in the right way, you will get more.
If you manage it properly, you will get more happiness and beauty in your marriage.
If it is not managed well, your family will be like a mess, filled with all kinds of trivialities and discomforts, and it may even go bankrupt - divorce."
Shan You and Wang Xiaoxiao looked at each other, both feeling deeply and thoughtfully.
Xue Ling still wanted to pull the weeds, and was about to get up - Wang Xiaoxiao took her hand and said coquettishly: "Mom, you are so good at business, and you are also good at managing marriages.
Why don't you give us a trick and teach us!"
"Yes, yes! Auntie, please give us some tips."
Shanyou also acted like a baby.
Xue Ling laughed and said: "First, correct your attitude and recognize your choice and marriage.
Next, live in harmony with your family, respect the elderly and love the young, be considerate of your husband and love your husband.
Especially, you must remember that you love your husband and care for your husband."
"Why are you feeling so distressed?"
Shan You couldn't help but smile bitterly: "He is so busy that he doesn't even let me see his soul. How can I be considerate and caring for him?"
Xue Ling shook his head: "I have worked hard outside, and I understand that it is not easy for men and women in the workplace to work outside.
Emotions need to interact with each other.
If you love him, he will love you.
If you are considerate to him, he will also know how to be considerate of you as long as he is not a jerk.
If he is a hard-working man who works hard outside, he just wants to take a rest after returning home and hopes that someone will love him and consider him.
But if you ask him to be considerate of you and coax you when he comes home, over time, he will feel tired or disappointed.
When he is missing someone, he can't help but be moved when someone offers him warmth."
Speaking of this, Xue Ling lowered his voice: "Some men cheat not because they want to cheat, but because they can't get family warmth and consideration from their wives, and others can give it to them, so they turn to others.
Therefore, you must grasp that degree and don't take your husband's love for you for granted.
You also have to know how to repay his love.
Remember, love is mutual and is never an unconditional contribution from one party.
Of course, this is an example of a good man and a good husband, not a playboy and a scumbag."
Shan You and Wang Xiaoxiao both laughed.
Xue Ling said warmly: "We are all lucky to choose the person we like to spend our whole life.
I have always advised the younger generation that the most important thing when choosing a person is character, and then romance.
In addition, you must marry him because you love him deeply.
After the passion, all that is left in a marriage is three meals a day, and even trivial matters all over the floor, all kinds of cruel realities that drive people crazy.
If that person is not the one you truly love, it will be really difficult to stick to it."
"So, mom never forces the eldest brother to go on a blind date, nor does she force the third child to fall in love."
Wang Xiaoxiao laughed and revealed the reality: "If it weren't for my grandparents nagging me all the time, my mother wouldn't even think of arranging various social banquets for my eldest brother."
Xue Ling suppressed a laugh and hurriedly looked in the direction of her parents. She found that the two of them were staring at the newly sprouted rapeseed. Apparently they had not heard the "gossip" here and secretly breathed a sigh of relief.
"I already have a lot, and I don't want to trade my children's happiness for something I already have.
As long as they are happy in their hearts and can find someone who truly loves each other to be with them for the rest of their lives, I won't mind too much whether it takes them a little bit of time or not, or if they don't choose in the future."
Wang Xiaoxiao laughed softly and whispered to Shan You, who was confused.
"Recently, several of Mom's business friends came to her, saying that they liked her eldest brother's talent and work ability, and wanted to marry a wealthy family and join forces.
The mother refused, saying that if her son fell in love with their daughter or niece, he would naturally pursue her.
The most she can do is force her eldest brother to attend social events, but she will never arrange a marriage for him."
Shan You suddenly realized it and said with a smile: "I know Auntie, she is not that kind of person.
She creates wealth but is not constrained by wealth.
She is a businessman, but she is not a profit-seeking person who only values profits."
"yes!"
Wang Xiaoxiao was full of admiration: "From now on, I will follow my mother's example and be a secular person, but not trapped by the secular world.
Be free and easy to see through the world and live a free and easy life.”
Xue Ling laughed loudly, "I feel so excited after hearing this! It's not as good as what you said! I'm just a big vulgar person.
It's just that I'm older than you and have seen more worldly things than you, so I know a little more than you.
When you reach my age, you will definitely be more transparent and free-spirited than me."
"Madam! Madam!"
Ah Chao walked over in a hurry and lowered his voice: "Earlier, someone was spying on Xinyuan across the road. He seemed to be a private detective."
"oh?"
Xue Ling asked calmly: "What's the origin?
Have you found out?"
Ah Chao replied: "I only found out that he is a well-known detective apprentice. For the specific reason why I spied on Xinyuan, I had to contact him face to face.
But according to industry regulations, he shouldn’t reveal it.”
Xue Ling thought for a while and whispered: "Don't be careless.
After thorough investigation, contact him and be sure to find out who hired him and what his specific purpose was."
Ah Chao nodded and quickly backed away.
That evening, Xue Ling received investigation information from the bodyguard.