As the saying goes, if you drink too much, you will lose money if you play hard.
When two people drink together, even if they are fair-weather friends, their relationship will get better and better as they drink.
In fact, you might as well think about it, many friends start out as friends. Usually, two people get to know each other first, and then drink together. If there is speculation at the wine table, they will inevitably drink several times in the future, and then become friends.
The scope of friends is very wide. You say you know someone you know as a friend, but in fact, you just drank and talked with each other, and there is no deep friendship. This is a friend in the ordinary sense, and sometimes it doesn't count at all.
After drinking a few times, we have a good impression of each other, and we have done things together. These are friends. There are many such friends, and we also live in such a circle of friends. Of course, it does not mean that you cannot make friends without drinking. It is just that you drink.
It's just that it can be delivered better.
A true friend does not need to drink. Even if he drinks, he will not talk loudly. Instead, he will sit together quietly. When you raise your glass, he will also raise your glass and accompany you to drink slowly and carefully.
When you encounter difficulties, you don't need to talk much. When you look back, you are behind you. That's it. This is a true friend for life.
Drinking can deepen the relationship between friends, but playing with money is different.
In gambling, good friends often get along just because of a penny. Otherwise, how can we say that there are no fathers and sons in casinos? Even fathers and sons are like this, so what are friends?
Good friends don't play around with each other for money.
How many people have lost their wives and children because of money-making.
Gambling is the root cause of loss.
Especially for those who work outside the home, they may lose their entire month's salary in a single game of poker. It's okay to be single. If one person is full, the whole family will not be hungry. At most, he will not smoke or drink for a month, and he will work hard and pretend to be a good person.
What if I have a wife and children? What will the children and wife eat and drink? What will they spend? Drink the northwest wind?
People, you can't try your luck in the casino, that's not how luck comes. If there was luck in the casino, no one would open a casino, so where can you make money? Is it a good idea to open a welfare home? It can also gain a good reputation.
At what point do people have to know what their last name is and how many bowls of rice they have to eat? Money is earned through hard work, not from gambling.
You must always keep your feet firmly on the ground, and you must not drift off, let alone take shortcuts to get side jobs and not do your job properly.
"I'll talk to the boss, but you have to promise not to cheat with money in the future," Li Shuang said.
"I don't dare to kill him anymore," Xiao Gao said.
"The boss is most annoyed by people playing with money."
"You know, haven't I changed it?"
"Well, I have performed well for more than a year and deserve praise."
"Hey, then go home, right?"
"Humph, little guy, you're exhausted!"
The couple returned home talking and laughing in love.
We live in an ordinary world, living ordinary days day after day. Today is the continuation of yesterday, and tomorrow is the repetition of today. As time goes by, we feel dull and nothing. In the long river of time, there is nothing except getting older.
Wonderful, just hope to see it, or look forward to the vigorous and heart-shaking song and cry.
However, we are just ordinary people, running around for life every day. Firewood, rice, oil and salt are the symphony of life, and clothing and food are the normal needs of life.
Watching the ups and downs of the plot in the TV series makes the protagonist cry with sadness or joy. Sometimes a harem drama can reach the finale, and I feel emotional.
But our lives, our days, the ups and downs in life, the gains and losses, the joys and sorrows in life, there is almost no time to savor it carefully.
And the life of an ordinary person can better reflect the whole life.
It is precisely because of these that we are happy to live, work hard, and feel satisfied while working hard.
Life itself is wealth.
Don't talk about how bad your life is, no matter how bad it is, you won't want it to end, because there is a value in your life that only you can appreciate.
When people have longing and love for life, they will be happy to find that all the efforts and efforts are worth it. The harvest far exceeds expectations. This is the goal of living people.
Yaru went back home after the Chinese New Year and visited her parents and son. Mainly to see her son. She had never been separated from her son for such a long time. In addition to missing her, she also felt concerned.
All mothers are like this, especially divorced women, who feel guilty about their children.
Her son is her flesh and blood and the lifeblood of her grandparents.
When she was getting divorced, she thought about how she couldn't let go of her son, and her parents-in-law were even more reluctant to let go of their grandson. The two old people had given up on their unsatisfactory son, and even ignored them. But they couldn't let go of their only grandson. If the grandson followed his mother,
It will undoubtedly cost the lives of the old couple.
The mother-in-law said with tears that she should keep the child. The old couple were in good health and could support their grandson, at least until they graduate from college. When the grandson graduates from college and becomes an adult, it doesn't matter whether he goes to find his mother or does whatever he wants.
But don't take it away now.
The father-in-law said nothing, his eyes were red, he couldn't bear to part with his grandson.
If they can't bear it, how about being a mother?
The child has followed him since he was a child and has never left for a day. Leaving him now would be like using a knife to cut out the flesh on his body.
The son can't let go of his mother, nor can he let go of his grandparents.
Fifteen-year-old children have to make a choice in life during their teenage years. This choice is a bit cruel, but it has to be made.
Sensible children choose their grandparents.
I know that it will be very difficult for my mother to live with me after her divorce, and I don’t want to increase the burden on my dear mother.
You can follow your grandparents and meet your mother.
When mother and child are connected, mother will be mother, and she will never change her life.
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My son is excellent and everything is fine.
And he has grown taller and looks like an adult.
It was as if the divorce of his parents made the child suddenly mature. Yaru felt a sense of protection and security when standing in front of her son, which she had never had before.
My son's academic performance is very good and he is at the top of his class. He will go to high school next year. He said that he will study hard in high school and will be admitted to college. When he graduates from college and gets a job, he will take her over and not ask her to work again.
, earn money to support my mother.
I felt happy when I saw my son, and felt relieved when I heard his words. My eyes were hot, filled with tears of relief and excitement.
Sensible child.
When we got home, my mother said that if she found someone suitable, she couldn't live alone. My father didn't say anything, but he could tell that he and his mother meant the same thing.
She understands her parents' feelings. No matter how old they are, they are still children in front of their parents. They love, care about, and care about their children just like themselves. If you don't raise children, you don't know your parents' kindness. There are no parents in the world who don't worry about their children. It's human nature.
It’s also family affection.
If one day you die outside, the only people who can be by your side are your parents. Even if they use a flatbed truck, they will pull you home. Mom says don’t be afraid of the children, there are mothers; Dad says don’t be afraid of the children, there are mothers.
Where's dad------
It's not that Yaru hasn't thought about finding another one, it's just that she was strangled to death as soon as the idea came up.
It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s just that I haven’t thought about it yet.
Fifteen years of widowhood-like marriage made her lose confidence in family life, and she even had no concept of family life. She had been living with her son for these fifteen years, and her husband was just a pronoun. In the eyes of outsiders, they were just a family.
Now that I'm divorced, in fact, I just no longer live with my beloved son, and nothing else has changed.
Fifteen years of loveless marriage have left her with no desire for marriage and family. A peaceful life is what she needs at this stage.
What this kind-hearted woman wants to do now is to live like this first, to calm herself down, and even feel relaxed after relief.
Those who have watched the first part should know that Yaru is a kind, smart, and virtuous girl. At that time, she was young and had a vague understanding of love. She did not dare to make decisions about her own feelings and was completely obedient.
The good girl.
Her memory of love in her life seemed to only be her love affair with Lao Tan.
Looking back at the past, we can't help but feel sorry for the love between her and Lao Tan. For both of them, it was the first time in their lives. The first time is often the truest, purest, most beautiful, and the most memorable.
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We can only say that she was young at that time and had no independent opinions. She loved Lao Tan in her heart, but she did not dare to resist the marriage arranged by her family. Everything had been arranged by her parents since she was a child, so she obeyed the marriage.
Yes, she was almost never in love with the man she later called her husband. Like many rural girls at that time who were arranged by their parents for a blind date, she took one look at the man and thought he was okay, and then told the matchmaker after a simple conversation with a blushing heart.
I didn't have any objections, and the marriage was decided to the satisfaction of both families.
The rest is programmatic.
After getting along for a while, the man would pay a courtesy visit to the woman's home during the holidays, and then the woman would go to the man's home to greet her.
The happy thing is that the parents of both parties have a sweet feeling in their hearts, but they have not had much contact and do not understand each other deeply. In this kind of longing for love and vision for the future, on a certain Huangchen auspicious day, a newlywed couple met with their relatives.
She walked into the marriage hall with their blessings and seemed to have become someone else's daughter-in-law before she even had time to prepare.
Falling in love was just a short conversation at each other's home and the warmth of the man walking the girl home. Although it was already very open at that time, Yaru, who had a strict upbringing, did not dare to do anything outrageous. Before getting married, she and
The maximum degree of intimacy between the objects is just holding hands, not hugging.
Therefore, I don’t know much about that man. Apart from his appearance and family background, I don’t even know his personality and hobbies.
In the mid-to-late 1990s, many marriages in rural areas were like this. The so-called love is an engagement, and love is something that happens after marriage. Of course, there are bold and open-minded people who pursue their own love, but they are still a minority.
Yaru got married step by step, with the sweetness of a newlywed, but it only lasted for half a year. Half a year later, her husband started to go out to make money. Because Yaru had made trouble, her husband only stopped for a while, and then the old illness relapsed and still remained the same.
Yaru was pregnant and filed for divorce. First, the elders of the two families intervened, saying that divorce was a shame because such a trivial matter could not be considered a divorce. They also sighed and shed two tears. Then relatives and friends came over to offer good words and bombardments, as if
Divorce is not Yaru's business, it is everyone's business, so you should think twice before making any move.
If you don't wait, you will be exhausted and lose confidence.
After the child was born, we became a real family of three. Because of the child, my husband was stable for more than half a year and became a competent father and husband. Later, he was transferred to work in other places and came home every half month, so he had a relationship that was not
The constrained space is starting to cost money again.
Not only did he make money, but he also got women.