After Lao Tan finished talking about what happened with Yaru, Wang Shulan was moved and aroused her desire to explore further, so she asked: "Are you still interested in Liu Yaru now?"
Lao Tan smiled, although he smiled a little helplessly, but very calmly.
He said: "No. Everything is over. It's good to keep memories."
"She is alone now. Does she have any ideas?" Wang Shulan asked seductively.
"I know what you mean, but I really don't." Lao Tan lit up a cigarette and said, "We are all people who have been through marriage. Some things have been ignored for a long time. There is no such thing as infatuation in the world, and there is no such thing as life-or-death love, otherwise it will be all
They became Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai."
"But your love is quite touching." Wang Shulan said sincerely.
"Love is touching, marriage is realistic, and life lasts forever. Any touching love story will wear away the passion in the reality of marriage. If you persist, it will become daily necessities. If you cannot persist, no matter how good the romance is, it will be eroded by the years, leaving you with nothing.
She and I are destined to have no fate. In fact, there is no need for fate. What should I say between the two of us? -" Old Tan took a puff of cigarette and blew out, looking at the people in front of him.
Space, said: "She understands me better than Lin Yan. Every time she returns to the provincial capital from Suzhou or goes to Hohhot, she packs her suitcases and folds her clothes in a neat way, including her underwear."
All in good shape------
No matter in Hohhot or Suzhou, she cleans my house, keeps it clean and stands at attention, takes care of food and drinks, and doesn’t say a word about anything. Even people who say she is my wife believe her."
Wang Shulan nodded and said, "I heard that she is quite virtuous."
"Men work outside, and when they get home they want women's tenderness and consideration. If they don't get anything, they have to be humble. It's only a day or two. No one can stand it after a long time."
Lao Tan glanced at Wang Shulan and continued: "Let me tell you a real case. During the May Day training for the management of Qiao Gang's company, there was a woman in her thirties who looked strong and spoke the truth.
The topic that day was about ‘Family Harmony and Career Progress’. She may have felt this, so she came to me after class to tell me about her husband. She said that her husband must be with someone outside, and she didn’t want to go home after get off work.
I told her that there is only one reason why men don't want to go home, that is, going home means pain, and being outside means happiness.
Later, I met and had a chat with her husband. Her husband said that it was not that he didn’t want to go home, but that he didn’t dare to go home. She felt anxious as soon as she got off work. I checked my phone first to see if any ambiguous information should be deleted or deleted.
You can only enter the house after everything has been cleaned up.
Her husband said it was not because he was afraid that his wife would see it, but because she was very suspicious and would not believe him even if he said it.
As soon as I walked in, my wife first went to the head of the investigation section, who checked everything over. Then she went to the director of the Public Security Bureau, who started the interrogation regardless of whether there were any. Then came the president of the court, who pronounced the final verdict.
Now her husband is sick. He gets scared as soon as he gets off work and doesn't want to go home. What if he doesn't go home? She makes excuses and excuses, or she lies. If she can't, she goes back as late as possible. If she can't, she gets drunk."
"Giggle------" Wang Shulan laughed.
"I told the woman that strict control over your husband is like grooming someone else's husband, and that you are your own husband only when you control your performance. Strict control means that you don't treat your husband as a husband, but as an obedient slave. Controlling your husband's performance means treating your husband as a child, a child.
I will never leave mom.
She was a little confused and didn't know if she understood."
"You understand everything, why don't you tell your wife?" Wang Shulan asked.
"Doctors can't cure their own illnesses, and teachers' children may not all learn well." Lao Tan said helplessly.
"Too------"
Wang Shulan nodded, then picked up the wine glass and said, "Here, let's drink."
Before he knew it, the bottle of wine was finished, and the two of them were chatting happily, as if they hadn't drank at all.
Wang Shulan asked for beer again.
The cold beer suppressed the heat of the liquor, and the little bit of alcoholic kick that came with it was gone, and I felt very energetic.
Women are interested in exploring other people's privacy. It is inappropriate to say interest. You should say hobby, or curiosity. Of course, it must be someone you like and care about. If you don't like it, you won't listen.
After listening to Yaru’s story, I still want to hear Zhang Li’s story.
Lao Tan said: "It has nothing to do with her. Besides, you know it. It's just that little thing."
"I heard from Xiaomei that you and Zhang Li are quite vigorous."
"Legends, do you believe in legends?"
"I don't want to believe it. Everyone in the entire group knows about your relationship. It's hard not to believe it."
Lao Tan chuckled and said, "We------Tiezi."
"It means you two------"
"You don't give me the impression of being a gossip."
Wang Shulan glared at Lao Tan in a womanly manner and said straightly: "It's not gossip, but that was in the past."
Her words reminded Lao Tan, and he couldn't help but stop holding the wine glass. He looked at her and thought for a while, then drank the wine in the glass without saying anything.
Wang Shulan kept watching him, and when she saw that he drank the wine without saying anything, and his striking bald head shone a little under the light, she knew that she could no longer ask about Zhang Li.
I felt a little regretful in my heart and thought: He must have thought that I was using what happened that day to hit him, but I didn’t think that way------
She wanted to explain, but just when she was about to open her mouth, Lao Tan spoke first.
"I know what you are thinking, haha, I have no connection with Zhang Li. After knowing her and Lin Yan, there are some things I can't do------
It’s not that I’m good, it may have something to do with my upbringing. Besides, I’m really in love with Lin Yan. We are both bitter gourd eggs, a couple in need. She can live with me, a pauper, and even give birth to a son. No.
Easy--" Lao Tan said.
"------"
"You don't know what it was like when we were at our poorest, renting a 16-square-meter house, where three families had one kitchen, and there was nothing in the house except a bed for sleeping and pots and pans for eating------
The child was born there. When he was born, I only had a thousand yuan in my hand, which was not even enough for a month's worth of milk powder ------
I couldn't help it. I went to another place just after the child was one month old. I just wanted to make more money and feed and clothe the two of them. Sometimes I shed tears just thinking about it. I won't come back until the child is gone.
He looks strange to me, he doesn’t know that I am his father------"
Lao Tan's voice became sad.
"I have no choice, I have to live. I stay at home for a few days and then leave, and once I leave, it's another year. I didn't come back until my child was four years old, and then I had some money."
"You are suffering enough------" Wang Shulan said.
"Haha, people, there are blessings that we can't enjoy, and there are no hardships that we can't bear." Lao Tan swallowed hard and said: "Everything has its own gains and losses. It's always in the field. Money is earned, but as a couple
The relationship is gone------it's not gone, it's---how should I put it, I also have a responsibility.
At that time, I only cared about making money and had no idea about how to live my life. I felt that if I handed over the money to my family, I would complete the task. I didn’t care about taking care of the family and the children. I didn’t care about anything else when it was time to drink and have fun.
I still thought it was reasonable and quite manly, but now I think it's just a bastard ------ It was at that time that Lin Yan started to ignore me. She ignored me and I ignored her, and we all went our separate ways, until now.
.”
"You two still have feelings." Wang Shulan said.
"The little emotion I had is gone - life is dull, and I don't know how to make daily necessities, so what if I become a chef? To be honest, sister, I am over forty and have been wandering for half my life. I say it is a career, but in fact it is only a few years old.
Two pieces of silver.
Once you get started, you can't stop. You have to go down even if you grit your teeth. There are hundreds of people waiting to eat.
Sometimes when I’m tired, I want to take a rest, go home, let my wife take care of me, and be comfortable. Unfortunately, I don’t have this kind of treatment. I open my mouth and say that men don’t dare to go home. I’m the same way. I go home and fight.
fear.
What does not want to go home? Going home equals pain, and being outside equals happiness. This is a truth to be told to others, but it is an understanding to be told to oneself. Like the singer, what a painful realization------"
Lao Tan put the wine glass to his mouth and drank it slowly.