The first thing Lao Tan solved when he came to Hohhot was not work, but the divorce between Meng Meng and Li Zhiwen.
Meng Meng was determined to divorce Li Zhiwen and would rather leave home. Li Zhiwen refused to leave and dragged his mother to find Lao Tan to intercede. His mother just cried when she saw Lao Tan, not to mention she was very sad.
So Lao Tan went to Meng Meng. Meng Meng knew what Lao Tan was going to say, so he said, "Uncle, please stop talking. I will definitely get divorced. I can't live with such a person."
"No emotion at all?" Lao Tan asked.
"No more." Meng Meng said coldly: "Uncle, you don't know that what I am carrying is his child. He doesn't even want his own child. Is he still a human being?"
Lao Tan was speechless.
"Don't worry about my affairs, uncle. It's impossible not to leave him. We have been separated for half a year, and the court has decreed divorce." Meng Meng said.
On the night when they talked about this, Yang Zhijun and Mulan invited Lao Tan to eat hotpot in a copper pot, and Tu Ya was also there. The four of them were drinking and chatting, and Meng Meng, who was off work, happened to pass by the store.
Tuya was sitting facing the store door. She looked at it and said, wasn't it Meng Meng? After get off work, he asked her to come in and sit for a while. Lao Tan said goodbye and she was in a bad mood.
Meng Meng passed by while he was talking, and soon he heard quarreling and swearing outside.
"It seems to be Meng Meng." Tuya said.
"What does it look like? It's her." Mulan confirmed.
"Go out and have a look--" Yang Zhijun stood up and walked out. Lao Tan, Mulan, and Tuya followed one after another.
The situation at that time was like this: Meng Meng and the drunk Li Zhiwen were standing in a quarrel. Li Zhiwen asked Meng Meng whether she had to get a divorce? What did Meng Meng say? Li Zhiwen opened his scarlet eyes, his face changed ferociously, and he stretched out his right hand.
He took out a boning knife from his waist and stabbed Meng Meng through the heart.
Lao Tan and Yang Zhijun all saw this scene. Mulan and Tuya subconsciously exclaimed "Ah——"
Then two figures jumped out.
The former one is Yang Zhijun, who pounces on Li Zhiwen; the latter one is Lao Tan, who pounces on Meng Meng.
Meng Meng was so frightened that she just retreated and dodged based on instinct.
Thanks to her retreating and dodging, Yang Zhijun and Lao Tan were given a brief flash of time.
Li Zhiwen was pushed away by Yang Zhijun, and Meng Meng was pulled away by Lao Tan.
Li Zhiwen was staggered and nearly fell down. After he stabilized his body, before he could react, Yang Zhijun rushed forward and punched him, then kicked him.
Li Zhiwen fell and the boning knife fell out of his hand.
Yang Zhijun started kicking wildly, and Tuya, who had regained consciousness, also joined in. Her ferocity was no less fierce than that of Yang Zhijun, fully demonstrating the dominance and bravery of Mongolian women.
Lao Tan handed Meng Meng to Mulan, walked over and did not immediately stop Yang Zhijun and Tuya's "cruelty". He bent down to pick up the weapon on the ground, enjoyed the pleasure of watching the beating for a minute, and then said: "Okay,
stop fighting."
Yang Zhijun kicked me hard one last time and cursed: "You little brat, how dare you stab someone with a knife!"
"You fucking scared me to death!" Tuya also added.
Li Zhiwen lay on the ground and groaned, muttering: "If you have the ability to torture me to death, if you have the ability to torture me to death -"
Yang Zhijun stepped forward and kicked him, "I'll beat you to death!"
Li Zhiwen fell silent and began to chatter.
Meng Meng came to her senses after being handed over to Mulan by Lao Tan. She didn't even look at Li Zhiwen who was lying on the ground being kicked, and decisively took out her phone to call the police.
Li Zhiwen was taken away by the police.
The next day, Li Zhiwen's mother found Lao Tan again, crying and begging Lao Tan to get her son out of the situation, not to mention how sad she was.
I pity all the parents in the world.
Meng Meng got divorced and wanted to change her environment, so Lao Tan transferred her to Changsha.
On the tenth day of the lunar month, Lao Tan convened a meeting with the management of stores in Hohhot, Baotou, and Jining, and also conducted training.
“As a manager, you must remember these three points. They are the formulator and executor of corporate systems; the creators and defenders of corporate interests;
The creator and disseminator of professional culture.
In management, remember not to put yourself in the position of an enforcer, encourage more and criticize less, help more and reprimand less.
Remember one sentence, when you motivate, you will gain qualified employees. Learn to praise and look at the good side of people. Praise can make a correct thing continue and do better and better.
As a manager, you must have three mindsets;
The first is joy. Happiness can be spread and infected. Everyone wants to be with optimistic people. Seriousness cannot represent dignity. Employees prefer bosses who are full of joy.
The second is compassion. People are inherently kind at first, and they should learn to be good people. A manager with compassion and a sense of justice must have a broad mind. Only with a broad mind can he be tolerant and lead a team.
Isn't there a saying that managers are like folding baskets in the kitchen, they can contain the good and the bad. This requires compassion, tolerance and tolerance, and kindness first.
The third is ambition. To put it bluntly, if managers don’t study, don’t make progress, and don’t set strict demands on themselves, that’s called bad ethics and lacks great virtue. We don’t study, and we recruit people with great fanfare all day long, recruiting people.
Where will the employees follow?
One day we will be laid off, won’t we all have to be laid off?
Any employee who applies is not here to be laid off. Just like us when we applied, they want to have a stable job, earn money to support their family, and learn some skills to support themselves.
This is what we have to do------"
Lao Tan's training is very practical and lively, and everyone learns from every training.
The next morning, Lao Tan, dressed plainly and elegantly in Tsing Yi and cloth shoes, brought wine, food and cooked dumplings with vegetarian stuffing, and came to see the great master of Guanyin Temple for a drink and a chat.
The great master seemed to know that Lao Tan was coming, so he informed Zhike Monk early to refuse visitors and waited for Lao Tan wholeheartedly.
When the two met, they didn't show any courtesy. After bowing to each other, they laid down wine, food and dumplings, and chatted while eating.
"Your Sanhua wine is becoming more and more pure. The snow lotus is elegant, the chrysanthemum is light, and the mountain peach is fragrant." Dade took a sip and said.
Lao Tan smiled and said, "I prepared this alone. I have been saving it for a year. I have been wanting to drink it from you, but I haven't found the time to pour it out."
Dade looked at the wine Lao Tan was drinking and said, "You still like to drink soju."
"I'm used to it. This taste tastes like alcohol."
"Drink the wine smoothly, get used to it regularly, and make it from the five grains. It is spicy but not dry. The four bodies are drunk, and the mind is clear and spiritual."
"I haven't reached that level, it's just a hobby. I want to get drunk today, but it's a pity that you don't allow drunkards."
The two looked at each other and smiled.
After half the bottle of wine was down, Dade looked at Lao Tan's Yintang and said, "You have to take a rest."
"We have plans to take a break. We will stabilize Changsha this year and start taking a break next year," Lao Tan said.
"Extend your arm and I'll take your pulse."
Lao Tan raised his right arm, rolled up his sleeve, exposed his wrist and stretched it out. Da De felt the pulse with three fingers, closed his ears and eyes, and listened carefully.
Three minutes later, Dade raised his finger to instruct Lao Tan to change hands. Lao Tan withdrew his right hand, rolled up the sleeve of his left arm, and stretched it out.
After another three minutes, the great master raised his hand, opened his eyes, and said: "Liver hypertrophy, kidney failure, and stomach disease."
Similar to what the old Chinese medicine doctor in Beijing said, Lao Tan asked: "Did you drink alcohol?"
"Not entirely." The great virtue said: "Humans have seven emotions: joy, anger, sadness, joy, sadness, fear, and shock. The seven emotions correspond to the five internal organs, heart, liver, spleen, lungs, and kidneys.
Excessive happiness and sadness, extreme exertion damages the liver, worry damages the lungs, fear damages the spleen and fear damages the kidneys, all are corresponding. You have excessive liver fire, heavy thinking, overworking your mind, overdrafting your body, and getting sick from overwork."