After listening to the great virtue's words, Old Tan smiled and said, "It seems that I can only take care of myself slowly."
Dade said: "Actually, you should do nothing now and concentrate on taking care of your body. Human energy and physical strength are limited, and excessive consumption will naturally result in failure."
Old age leads to senility and pathological changes."
"Do you think I'll be recuperating from next year?" Lao Tan asked.
"You can do it at any time, the main thing is to have a good attitude, don't be anxious, don't be agitated, don't be angry. Everything in the world pays attention to the harmony of yin and yang, the balance and the mean, and the same is true for people. You have yang deficiency and yin deficiency, which causes an imbalance of stomach fire, so pay more attention.
"
"Okay, be sure to pay attention." Lao Tan nodded to express his thanks, and then said: "Come on, let's drink."
After drinking a glass of wine, the virtuous man said: "You have many beauties in your life, and you are always accompanied by others, but in the end it is your married wife who will accompany you. Unfortunately, although you have companionship,
Companion but no separation is also a fate."
Lao Tan sighed and said: "I owe her too much - I am Tiger in March, and I am eighteen, and I have committed a misfortune in my life. I became associated with Buddha when I was young, and I was originally a boy in the temple.
, and then they fulfilled their vows and got married.
My wife’s zodiac sign is Sheep in April, and the 2nd and 2nd are Kun. She is destined to be in conflict, and her broken palm will defeat her father. She suffers from small pains and has big blisters, and she is strong-willed by nature. We are originally small rebels. As you said, it is destiny. We are destined to be husband and wife but not husband and wife.
Love, lifelong relatives."
The great virtue was stunned for a moment, then said: "You can see clearly."
"Don't tell me, I have a fate with the Buddha." Lao Tan then explained: "Only when I come to your pure place and touch the light of the Buddha can I become clear and enlightened."
"Be humble. Even though you don't chant sutras and worship Buddha, you are still practicing in this mortal world."
"Practice is painful. The Buddha saved the world from suffering and achieved happiness. I have been practicing for half my life, but I have never experienced happiness or suffered less, and I have only just begun to realize it."
The great master smiled and said: "Bodhisattvas have no appearance at all, they are all appearances of people in the world. Suffering and joy are invisible, they are all the thoughts of the heart."
"It's all from the heart. It's well said. The understanding of appearance comes from the heart. It's all selfless and has no appearance. Thank you."
Lao Tan bowed his hands and saluted, while the great man drank the wine and sipped it.
As the sun set in the west, Lao Tan came out of Guanyin Temple in a drunken state. He squinted at the high-rise buildings and people walking in a hurry on both sides of the street. He felt like he had entered the world again.
He smiled and thought back to the last words that the great master said. The great master said to follow the trend, follow your heart, stick to your nature, and cultivate your body and mind. These fourteen words are not difficult to understand. The first eight words are about doing things, and the last six words are about doing things.
The word talks about being a human being.
Savoring it carefully means cultivating one's moral character and nourishing one's body.
Lao Tan said in his heart: It seems that this body really needs to be recuperated.
On the fourteenth day of the first lunar month, Wang Shulan called Lao Tan and asked Lao Tan to go to Beijing to celebrate the fifteenth day and see a doctor. Lao Tan didn't go because he was afraid that he wouldn't be able to help himself after meeting. Although Wang Shulan said years ago that it would never happen in the future, but people are not like grass and trees.
Ruthless, the best way to avoid making mistakes is to stay away from them.
Lao Tan spent the fifteenth day of the first lunar month at Zhou Xiaomei's house. On the sixteenth day of the first lunar month, he suffered from all kinds of illnesses and took advantage of an auspicious day to arrive in Suzhou.
Suzhou is much warmer than Hohhot and the provincial capital, the weather is good, and the roads on both sides are green.
A year later, Gu Yi and Sister Wang from the court came together naturally. Now he no longer lives in the courtyard and has moved to Sister Wang's place.
Lao Tan's arrival was warmly welcomed by the two of them and Qiao Gang's brother and sister.
A meal is essential. At the dinner table, Qiao Gang once again asked Lao Tan to provide training for his company's management. Lao Tan readily agreed and decided to combine the training with the hotel management.
"Lao Tan can be a lecturer now." Sister Wang said.
"Brother Tan is an accomplished, all-rounder, capable of writing and martial arts," Gu Yi said.
Lao Tan said: "If you praise me, I will be a cook."
Qiao Gang said: "You are being humble." Then he said to the other three: "I suggest that we all go and listen during the training. Brother Tan's lectures are good. He not only has management skills, but also principles of life."
Qiao Shan took over the conversation and said: "I listen to every game and I really get lessons. My family's management team is all trained by Lao Tan."
Lao Tan said: "Don't praise me, I was forced to do it by rushing into the market. When Ah Qiao first started to develop, I was poor and had no money. I couldn't afford to hire a lecturer for training. I learned what I was learning and sold it now to save money."
"You are very generous now. The group's annual training fee is 500,000 yuan, right?" Gu Yi asked with a smile.
"Yeah, almost." Lao Tan nodded, "It's money well spent. Only when the management staff are good can the hotel make money. In economics, this is called a small investment but a big return."
"Old Tan, I think you can be a full-time lecturer in the future, it will be easier than you being a manager." Sister Wang joked.
"Don't tell me, you really have this idea." Lao Tan said: "You can see that I am doing well now. I am fat and old, and I can eat and drink. But in fact, my health is not good and I am seriously overdrawn.
I plan to finish my work in the Changsha market and then start retiring from my post. I will spend the day drinking tea to maintain my health, doing courseware, and doing special training."
After drinking, Lao Tan returned to the courtyard and saw the lights in his room were on. He felt warm and knew that Yaru had come back early to clean up.
Opening the door, the warm air hits you.
Yaru was bending down to spread the sheets when she heard the door knock. She turned around and saw Lao Tan, and asked with a smile: "Are you back?"
Lao Tan said "hmm".
"Change the sheets, they will be ready soon. You take a shower first and put the clothes you changed inside." Yaru continued the operation after saying that.
Lao Tan said "Yeah" again, walked behind Yaru and said softly: "Thank you for your hard work."
Yaru was stunned for a moment, then smiled and said: "Hey, what are you talking about?"
"Whoever marries a wife as good as you would be very happy." Lao Tan said.
Yaru spread the sheets and smoothed them, turned around and said, "Stop talking nonsense and take a shower quickly."
Lao Tan joked: "I haven't washed it for a week. Please help me rub my back later."
Yaru blushed, glared, and asked, "How dare you rub it for you?"
"What I wish for."
"Okay, you go in first and I'll rub it for you later."
Of course, Lao Tan didn't enjoy the beauty's bathing treatment. After he finished washing, Yaru made tea and the two of them sat down on the sofa.
"I came back on the tenth day of the Lunar New Year. My dad is not in good health, so I will stay with him for two more days," Yaru said.
"How old is your dad this year?" Lao Tan asked.
"Sixty-eight."
"Oh, what's wrong with Gada?"
"Emphysema gets worse in winter and almost worse in summer. Plus, during the Chinese New Year, I got a little angry with my sister-in-law, which made it worse. It was much better when I left." Yaru sighed.
Lao Tan took a sip of tea, thought for a while and said, "If that doesn't work, let's transfer you back to the provincial capital, closer to home."
"No, it's not far from here. It's a two-hour flight, and I'm used to it." Yaru continued, "My dad is just worried, nosy, and angry.
Why don't I go home to celebrate the New Year? Seeing me alone makes me worried. My mother said that he was redundant and should mind his own business, so he just said nothing to her. When my sister-in-law spoke to my mother, he rushed to her.
My sister-in-law is here------"
"My husband and his daughter-in-law are having sex?" Lao Tan asked with a smile.
"Hey, it's of no use. He's still like that after all the fuss. My sister-in-law should be eating and drinking, but he's so angry that he's sick."
"Parents are like that, worried and worried."
"That's not the case."
"You too, just find someone else, it will save them from worrying about you." Lao Tan said.
Yaru lowered his head and thought for a moment, then said, "How easy is it to find it? It's not easy to take that step forward."
"You just turned forty-three."
"------Let's wait for the children to go to college in two years." After Yaru finished speaking, she looked at Lao Tan and suddenly smiled, "It's not easy to find in our family. Everyone knows what my relationship is with you. Who is it?"
Unless you have eaten the heart of a bear, the leopard dares to have sex with me?"